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Catch My Happy Please

By Michelle Carr-Crowe, Top 5% San Jose Silicon Valley real estate agent

Catch my happy...please. Why? It just might help you (and me) to feel better about life, real estate and the world in general. It could even spread to our friends and colleagues we share the happy with on FaceBook.

Facebook Spreads Emotions Among Friends tells the whole story. Published by the San Jose Mercury News on June 4, 2011, the article details FaceBook research about emotional transfer via the social networking site. (FYI, the Mercury only allows free downloads of their recent articles for the first 7 days, so be sure to check out Mike Swift's story soon, or be prepared to pay for it.)

Facebook data scientist Adam D.I. Kramer analyzed postings by about 1 million English speakers and about 150 million of their FaceBook friends in the U.S. and abroad. His study showed the words people use in their status updates drive the emotions of their online friends, even days later.

Writing emotionally loaded words like "happy," "hug," "sick," and "vile" in status updates sparked similar emotions in later Facebook postings by users'  friends...in fact, it affected the friends for up to three days later.

Interestingly, the affect resulted in the FaceBook friends also using more similarly emotionally loaded words; e.g. if using "happy," the friends also used an even greater number of positive words...and reduced their use of negative ones.

Before you discount Kramer's analysis, keep in mind his data is used to design and market FaceBook's social products and the advertising that powers the site. (FYI, FaceBook CEO Mark Zuckerberg studied psychology at college.)

Did you know that psychologists have long known that emotions, just like germs, are contagious?  People exposed to a person experiencing strong emotions may experience similar feelings, whether happiness or anger or fear. Psychologists believe emotions are caught via facial expressions, tones of voice and even body language. But this is the first study to show emotions are also "caught" through social media.

Interestingly, the negative impact is strong. For example, for every negative word Facebook members used in a status update, such as "sick," their Facebook friends subsequently used 28 percent more negative words on the following day than would be expected, based on their pattern of speech at other times.

So be careful what you write and post about. In other words, Catch My Happy...Please.

Other stories on this post you may like:

Facebook's Gross National Happiness index www.apps.facebook.com/gnh_index  

Other Facebook data team academic papers www.facebook.com/data?sk=app_4949752878.

Facebook Spreads Emotions Among Friends http://www.mercurynews.com/business/ci_18183052?IADID=Search-www.mercurynews.com-www.mercurynews.com&nclick_check=1

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Her designations have included: Accredited Buyers Representative (ABR), Accredited Consultant of Real Estate (ACRE), Accredited Luxury Home Specialist (ALHS)Accredited Staging Professional (ASP)Certified Distressed Property Expert (CDPE),  Property Marketing Expert (PME), Real Estate CyberSpace Specialist (RECS), and Senior Real Estate Specialist (SRES).

Michelle is an internationally-published freelance writer with over 1,200 traditional articles published in print and online, co-author of two books on Silicon Valley-specific real estate as well as over 68,000 blog posts on Blogger, ActiveRain, Examiner, FaceBook, Realtor, Trulia, RealBird and others. She enjoys reading, traveling, animals, nature, family, dancing, staging, consulting, coaching and praying. Check out her blog at www.activerain.com/results or visit her online at www.michellejudycarr.com. For RE$ult$ ... Just Call ... (408) 252-8900.

 

Comments(11)

Kathleen Vetrano
RE/MAX Gateway - Falls Church, VA
Helping YOU Achieve YOUR Dreams

Michele....I'll catch you happy!  (Had to use the word you know!) 

Absolutely correct.  Emotions are contagious.  And just putting a smile on your face can change the way you feel.  Thanks for sharing this information and writing a wonderful post.

Jun 05, 2011 06:24 PM
Jim Paulson
Progressive Realty (Boise Idaho) www.Progressive-Realty.info - Boise, ID
Owner,Broker

I just snorted three Prozak, so I should be catching your Happy soon. (joking - LOL).  Just my off the wall attempt at becoming a HUMORbeing.

Jun 05, 2011 06:30 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Kathleen- thanks for the kind words.

Jim - well, whatever it takes...

Hope you both have a HAPPY day and week.

Jun 05, 2011 09:30 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Michelle, that is interesting about social media. I know how contagious emotions are in person and try to be so careful who I am around. But there are those you cannot escape from that are nothing but negative.

Great post and a fantastic reminder of how we should be very careful. I will catch your happy any day!

Jun 05, 2011 11:43 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Andrea, thank you for the positive feedback. Have a happy day!

Jun 06, 2011 07:10 AM
Mary Stewart
HomeTrust Real Estate, LLC, Homes for Everyone - Wilsonville, OR
Wilsonville and Surrounding Portland Metro Areas

Michelle, I agree happy is very catching even when you are not looking.  I had someone ask me the other day if Depression was catching, I told him that a resounding yes as it is difficult to be positive when people around you are only negative. It is hard work.  I am often amazed when I feel a little out of sorts that when I begin smiling at others how my mood changes. Thanks for a nice post.

Jun 06, 2011 07:55 AM
Paul Walker
Equity Fifty Five Realty, LLC - Scott AFB, IL
Scott AFB IL Area Realtor

Rejoicing Always in Christ!

Happy as can be!

Better and Better every day and in every way!

It's a great day to enjoy life!

Jun 06, 2011 08:59 AM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Mary, I agree. My mother always refused to be around negative people, and now I understand why.

Paul - Hallelujah and amen!

Jun 06, 2011 11:36 AM
Dan Edward Phillips
Dan Edward Phillips - Eureka, CA
Realtor and Broker/Owner

Good Morning Michelle, avoiding negative people requires skill, it also does pay its rewards.  Excellent input on creating posts.

Jun 06, 2011 10:21 PM
Tim Peterson
Wisconsin Realtor Safety and Concealed Carry Classes - Madison, WI
Realtor Safety Training Classes

Hi Michelle great post about spreading happiness . Just confirming what we always knew as kids..Thanks

Jun 12, 2011 11:39 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Dan, thank you for the kind words.

Tim, yes all of those "do unto others as you'd have them do unto you" lessons definitely apply.

Jun 13, 2011 06:49 PM