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Okay, Everybody--Time Out!

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Real Estate Agent with John L Scott Market Center 700512026

Okay, Everybody--Time Out!

The last few days have brought out some mud slinging and passive-aggressive behavior towards some featured bloggers and instead of going postal, maybe we need to take a Time Out.

There are certain things you can do to re-direct your behavior, attitude or whatever emotional side-track has got you de-railed.

For me, sometimes it's music. This morning, as I ponder taking a deep breath, I was listening to a reggae tune called Take It Easy by the Meditations....how can you be in a bad humor with THAT??

Don't Worry Be Happy!

With happiness, comes smiles, and a general love of your universe, no matter how big or small.  We're all in this together and at the end of life we won't be judged by how many deals we made but how we treated our fellow humans and the goodness we left behind to make the world a little bit better than when we got here.

 Specializing in Fishhawk Lake Recreation Club
"Your Gateway to the Lake!"

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Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Where's Brian L. Sirota, Esq. when we need him?  Bear hugs anyone?  Yogi... are you out there?

Jun 27, 2011 05:47 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

M--thanks for bringing him up...I was going to later, but so so glad YOU did--makes it even more appropriate.

Jun 27, 2011 06:05 AM
Emily Read
Salt Lake City, UT

Oh my - I take a weekend off from AR - what did I miss?  Whatever it was, I hope everyone worked things out - life is too short!

Jun 27, 2011 08:45 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Emily, you are SO right--exactly my point! Deep breath, everyone. Movin' on!!!

 

Jun 27, 2011 08:54 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Mims--silly me, I didn't answer your comment...I love ya BACK! and yup, music& lyrics  are all great tools for adding to soothe, alleviate and many other salves for the soul.

I heard a phrase from a Kansas song on the way to the office: "If you think you are a wise man, than surely you don't know..."

Jun 27, 2011 09:03 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I just don't understand it. If you don't like what the writer is saying or even disagree, ignore it, go on to the next post. It really isn't worth becoming petty over it. Even if someone does say something you disagree with, maybe try to see their point of view or learn from it.

One of my favorite bloggers that I follow here in the rain was someone that said something negative on one of my posts. Instead of deleting it, I called him and we had a great conversation about it. I learned some things from his 40 years in the business and we have become great friends who talk on the phone probably every couple months.



Jun 27, 2011 09:05 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Todd, this is most likely one of the MANY reasons why you were chosen to be a leader at RainCamp. This is a different perspective, and I appreciate it. Good for you for making a silk purse out of a sow's ear (even though I'm SURE you don't carry either one!--Ha!)

We are new at this and it's a platform for DISCUSSION, learning and mentoring. And, of course, a spot for the occasional rant.

So, Todd--what was the big decision on your face or homeplate??? Inquiring minds want to know!

P.S. Thought about you today, too because the fishing has really kicked in here at Fishhawk Lake.

Jun 27, 2011 09:11 AM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

Hiya Gayle, I love the mushroom head in your potted plant!   I'm certainly a fan of music to brighten a day but, today, it was the 'shroom head that got me flashing the pearly whites.

I also read your piece Who Would You Have in Your Lifeboat?   Your lifeboat is a clever metaphor for having a crackerjact team to cover lending, title and escrow.   Rainers should definitely read it, again.  There's more than meets the eye.

As you aptly mentioned, asking "who WOULD you have in your lifeboat" is a really fun conversation starter for a cocktail party convo, the casual kickstarter, and or a business ice-breaker.  

I suggest that rainers revisit your blog and feature it!  Brian 

 

 

Jun 27, 2011 10:21 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Well I all am going to say is WOW.  You ladies have all the excitement. Smiling.

Jun 27, 2011 10:32 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Gosh, Brian, thank you for all of that!  I LOVE my 'shroom head and he's got a ladybug on his nose, which doesn't show up as well in the pic, but the smile sure does--glad it got yours goin', too!

In going back to my old blog, if I had the time this morning before hitting the road, I would've thrown in a couple of boat shots (sure have THOSE), or a life-preserver, but had to get to the office.

Maybe I'll do that when I get to my "other" office--my home! And I am most appreciative of your remarks about revisiting it.

How many would you have in your lifeboat?

Jun 27, 2011 10:34 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Sharon, we are all exciting each in our own UNIQUE WAYS, doncha know! Like you with your Zucchini Man, Sitting in His Chair so proudly!

zucchini

Jun 27, 2011 11:05 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Ok - friends who love me - of the 180+ comments, a less-than-pleasant-person pushed her business over and over on my comment section, and this was her NINTH comment today:

 

People, Focus on selling a house and I guarantee you will stop worrying about your signature and the repercussions, nuances and dribble about a signature. I can not believe this post got so many comments about absolutely nothing. Post links yes, signatures, what the.........

Wish I hadn't erased it, but I think I'm done replying to those comments.  I'm on the Lake with you, Missy. We're gonna do this.  I'm thinking some time next summer.  And I'm thinking that Brian didn't see what Kristine said.  He may not pick up his sword, but I'm ready to . . . SO nice to have a safe place to come to.  Love you all - so glad you're in my life.

Jun 27, 2011 03:50 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

So....not sure what K. said...? Whaaaa happened? love u, 2!!

Jun 27, 2011 04:21 PM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

I thought her quote came today . . . must have been from before . . .

"You think you are doing your sister a favor talking about her nasty divorce and the terms of her real estate contract with 207,179 of your closest friends in the real estate industry ... and whomever wants to join ActiveRain in the future?"

But this must have been from before.

Jun 27, 2011 04:43 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Yup, from awhile ago...we've got her back, when she needs us, Miss KG! We are women, hear us ROAR.

Jun 27, 2011 05:26 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Wow, I guess I don't see these things until AFTER the fact. I would have to say jealousy, insecurities and such is what leads people to be NASTY. I can't imagine EVER being rude to anyone for any reason - but I do have my own opinions and viewpoints - it's fun to disagree respectfully. 

Wonder if those folks realize they get back from the universe what they toss out to the universe - at any rate, given that reality, I feel very, very sorry for them.

Jun 28, 2011 05:34 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

Decided to stay with the logo as it has done way to good for my business. I may throw a picture of me in a little more since everyone thinks I should. Need to get one of me fishing and believe me as I watched the sunshine, I was thinking of me being up at the lake also!

Maybe this weekend, now that baseball season is finally over!




Jun 28, 2011 06:22 PM
Kim Inman
Mountains to Lakes Real Estate, Inc. - Harriman, TN
CRS, Broker/Owner

Gayle...I think I missed out on ALL the action but after reading everyone's comments I've kind of caught up but really still not sure what was going on. But, that's okay!  Aside from the drama issues your post does say many good things.  It is how we treat each other and the good we leave behind!

Thank you for being part of my celebration!

Jun 29, 2011 01:42 PM
Susan Emo
Sotheby's International Realty Canada - Brokerage - Kingston, ON
Kingston and the 1000 Islands Area

Did I just read about "a Women's Retreat at The Lakehouse! Pontoon rides for all! I have a pool table, workout room and a theatre...who's with me??? (It includes hiking, swilling and a hottub if it's not too hot)" ???

Yes please! :0)

Jul 07, 2011 01:38 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Susan, there's still time to sign up!  Bring your smile and your glass!

Jul 09, 2011 06:12 AM