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Why I Chose Real Estate! The Family Culture

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Home Stager with Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes

Why I Chose Real Estate!  The Family Culture

Julia Blackburn Vigneron

Here's my Mom, Winkie, bringing me home from the hospital.

The arrow is pointing to the first clue about my chosen profession:  Real Estate Home Staging.

The antique, solid brass door knocker has been removed in preparation to restore the front door on my parent's first house.  You can see the "footprint" it left behind.

Shortly after they were married, my parents moved to very, very old cottage in Cornwall, Connecticut.  It needed a lot of work, and my father was just the man to tackle it.  He had helped his parents restore several historic homes in Litchfield County.  It was my grandparent's avocation:  buying, restoring, then selling lovely old houses that were in disrepair.  They were preserving history and creating homes for families.  Their passion became part of our family culture.

Julia Blackburn Vigneron

Daddy is enjoying special time with Julie in her very own bedroom; it was the first room completely finished in the cottage.  Although I was only two when we moved from this house, that wallpaper is etched upon my memory!

Home improvement is in my blood.  Dad started us early:  appreciate the house, celebrate its character, and improve it.  Every house we lived in got a makeover.  Walls were removed, added or moved.  Closets were expanded.  Rooms were added on or retrofitted to increase functionality.  It was probably against child labor laws, but I can't tell you how many sheets of wallboard we kids had to hold up while Daddy screwed them to the framing!

Decorating is also part of our family culture.  My maternal grandmother was an Interior Decorator, but my father had his own very particular ideas about decorating.  His style, and that of the houses we lived in, was very Colonial American.  Historic paint colors had to be used to complement their furniture collection. 

My poor mother didn't get her way until years later.  She preferred a much prettier, fanciful, yet still traditional, style, much like that of her own mother.  Kind of a New England version of Hollywood Regency.

Growing up in a historic neighborhood in Fairfield, Connecticut, I had no idea about modern styles.  Then a wonderful family moved in two doors down, and brought a fresh breeze of Danish Modern with them.  Since their daughter, Libby, became one of my best friends, I was there all the time, soaking up that creative household.  Together, Libby and I redecorated each other's doll houses.  We made and decorated houses for our Trolls, paper dolls (yes, they were two-dimensional), and even tiny wooden ladybugs. 

School Daze

There're my sister, Annette, brother Andy, Libby, and me in front of our house for the first day of school.  Plaids, smocking and gingham were all the rage.

My undergraduate degree is in Art History and Architecture.  After a career in corporate America, I decided it was time to get that Interior Design education.  Nestings was born, offering interior decorating and antiques. 

Real Estate Home Staging was a natural outgrowth; Staging leverages my skills, talents, and passions.  I am able to help people sell their single largest investment for the greatest return.  Using compassion and empathy, I can get my clients to see their home as a buyer should.  I draw on my family culture to appreciate the house, celebrate its character, and improve it.  My education and innate talents help clients bring a fully realized product to the market that will appeal to the target buyers.

My parents and grandparents would be proud!

Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Why, thank you, Judy J!  It's scary how much my sister and I look like her!  We even sound like her!  Unfortunately, Annette was th eone that got her height and slender build...

Sally - We loved that house, and put a lot of work into it.  It was on the market again a couple of months ago, and still looks lovely.  I let the agent know what my father had done to it.

Judy K:  I think I believed those were real toys hanging on the wall - LOL

Maria:  I know that what I do WORKS!  Thanks for the compliment.

Karen:  I feel them with me every day!

Jul 16, 2011 07:35 AM
Janice Ankrett
Burlington, ON
Staging Professional

Julie, it looks like you had a wonderful childhood. My family was like that too. Fixer uppers were the norm.

Jul 16, 2011 12:20 PM
Susan Neal
RE/MAX Gold, Fair Oaks - Fair Oaks, CA
Fair Oaks CA & Sacramento Area Real Estate Broker

Hi Julia - I see what you meant in your comment on my post.  Your family and mine both seemed to point us in this direction without ever saying so, and maybe without even meaning to.

Jul 16, 2011 12:34 PM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Hi Susan - isn't that something?  I know there are many more of us out there!

Janice:  It was indeed an idyllic childhood!

Jul 16, 2011 12:50 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Julia-I love the photo of you, your dad.. and the wallpaper.  Isn't it funny how our early experiences do influence us and even though we may head in different directions, we always seek or even return to  what  we really enjoy. 

Jul 16, 2011 02:29 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Such a history!  Staging really is in your blood.  I love the history and how you expressed it through the photos!  Great pictures.  You sure look like your mom!

Jul 16, 2011 02:38 PM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Hi Julia--what a great post.  I love how you started your story with the footprint of the removed door knocker.  What an exciting family to grow up in.  

Jul 17, 2011 01:09 AM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Thanks Janet!  I knew I wanted to start the post with that photo - and was thrilled to see that little detail.

Sharon & Kathy S:  It's really something to think about how the sum total of our experiences and family culture makes us who we are, and what we end up doing - and NOT doing.

To All:  This was a fun post to write, and I encourage you all to enter the Diary of a Realtor Constest!

Jul 17, 2011 01:44 AM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home is where the hearth is.

this is a really sweet post, and gives us a great insight into you and your career choice.  thanx

Jul 17, 2011 08:07 AM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Thank you, Alan - I think this is a great idea for a contest.

Jul 17, 2011 08:29 AM
Maureen Bray Portland OR Home Stager ~ Room Solutions Staging
Room Solutions Staging, Portland OR - Portland, OR
"Staging Consultations that Sell Portland Homes"

hi Julie ~ what a fun post to read!  You started your career quite early, indeed!  Since we grew up in a similar "era" I can certainly relate to your experiences, and I also had a family 'in the business.'   Good luck in the Contest!!

Jul 17, 2011 06:39 PM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Where's YOUR entry, Maureen???  I sent a link for this post to my friend, Libby, who lives in CA.  She howled.  We're getting together on Wed. - she's coming out to see her Mom.

Jul 18, 2011 12:34 AM
Rosalie Evans
Meritus Group Real Estate - Sioux Falls, SD
The Evans Group, Sioux Falls, SD Homes For Sale

So I am looking at the picture of you and the picture of your mother at top. Your heads are turned the same way and there is such a resemblance!! Did you do this on purpose or is it just a happy coincidence? Anyhow I really enjoyed your pictures and story!

Jul 18, 2011 03:51 PM
Barbara Hensley
RE/MAX Properties - Rockwall, TX
Homes for Sale in Rockwall County, Texas

Julie - I love the pictures and your story is sincere and heart warming!  Good luck on the contest - your entry sounds like a "winner" to me!

Jul 18, 2011 11:56 PM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Haha, Rosalie!  Just a coincidence!  We all look alike and smile all the itme!

Thank you, Barbara - I was just hoping for a T-shirt, but I don't think thy're being offered.  ;)

Jul 19, 2011 02:25 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Julia, what a fun read; you're definitely a natural at what you do--in your genes as well as your heart. Love all the gingham and smocking--I remember that well.

Jul 24, 2011 06:41 AM
Kathleen Donovan
RE/MAX South County - Charlestown, RI
GRI, CBR, SRES, South County RI Residential Speci

Hi Julie, great story and I love the pictures--especially the school photo with your siblings. ( Our Mom's must have shopped at the same stores...oh, how I loved my smocked dresses and plaid lunch box !!  :)

Jul 27, 2011 01:49 AM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Lottie - if only kids looked this great today - no messy jeans!

Thanks, Kathleen - I'm sure you're right!  Very classic items.

Jul 28, 2011 09:05 AM
Anna Dovger
Add Value Home Staging LLC, 281-704-6607 - The Woodlands, TX
Home Staging -The Woodlands, TX

Julie, you look so much like your mom! I love visiting historic homes.We don't have many of them here in Houston. Love the architecture and details, especially the ones with European influence.

Jul 28, 2011 11:34 AM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

Thanks, Anna - that's a wonderful compliment!  I'm all about architecture too!

Jul 29, 2011 01:32 PM