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Don't Hate me Because I am Honest!

By
Real Estate Agent with Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty #30RO0980081

I am like the best friend you wished you had - I will be totally honest  (but kind) with you - always.. WHY?  Because you trusted me enough to ask me to represent you in the sale of your home, and I invested a nice sum of money presenting your home to the local real estate market through professional photography,a luncheon and raffles to the agents, videos, open houses both public and more and more broker's open houses (remember the wine and cheese party?).. and that might mean giving you some unpleasant feedback, some stats, some suggestions. If I were NOT to do those things.... how can we have a working partnership?

Clients called me two days ago, and asked "that we do not lose contact after the sale of their home..." I feel the same way.. We have joked, discussed, I have defended my actions, but each time, they knew that whatever I mentioned to them what is in their best interests..  "Gay, you have given us 110%, and we know that you have always been there for us every step of the way.."  "We love you." I feel the same way towards them, and they know that. I love being with them... I have treasured their trust, and progressing friendship.  But I sometimes feel that some of clients "who know the market" do not realize that I am working extremely hard on their behalf... because ' they (feel) they know more than me..."  What about you?

 

                                                

Living in a different state, having been involved in 3 different real estate sales does not give you a designation or license...or having close friends who 'are really intelligent and know the market' when I am seeing the market stats week after week, seeing those homes, does not not serve in your best interests to listen to them and not me - or not acknowledging the feedback, market stats, etc. .  I am here to advise you... We all wish to sell your home...

 This is a patient market.. The buyers will wait patiently for your home to be reduced.... when they see a price they feel is a 'good deal" or "in the range of a good deal" they will step forward as they do not wish to lose your home. The internet visitor stats tells us of this... I have seen  those same stats reflect what is happening throughout the country and world - be it a National Holiday (low stats) to the spring market and new listing (high stats)  economic crises (low stats) , and so have found them to be great, realistic, statistical true data. If I suggest we lower the price of your home  - even by a small amount-  please know  - I am trying to tempt those buyers/internet visitors into stepping forward, otherwise it is just the waiting game.... and the buyers have nothing but time on their hands....

Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Melissa-  you too. Best, G

Jul 14, 2011 01:52 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Beth : We all learn from each other... it is so nice to hear positive feedback from clients just as the 'others' are being negative.. it balances it all out. LOL G

Jul 14, 2011 01:54 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Maria ; I think a patient market says it all..  not negative but just factual..  Basically who can wait out the other longest.. If they love it enough  They WILL step forward..

Jul 14, 2011 01:55 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Joy: What a GREAT name.. Gay!

Jul 14, 2011 01:56 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Brian: I try to continually share stats with my clients.. sometimes their home (to them) simply was not included.. LOL G

Jul 14, 2011 01:57 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Donald: Bess you -  YOU know our market...  it is difficult and seemingly uncomprising at times.. but if our clients listen to us - it can be successful. LOL G

Jul 14, 2011 01:59 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

John: How many times have we heard  ' they have a Realtor friend' as if it us who isn't selling their home.. and their Realtor friend will

Jul 14, 2011 02:00 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Mike: I think that people are desparate, and grasp at straws..   Best, G

Jul 14, 2011 02:01 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Michelle: Well I constantly tell them that! Ha!  No.. we win some and lose some. I am always disheartened by those I lose as I know (and I know they always realize afterwards) that I was the hardest working agent on their behalf.. if only they had listened..

 

 

Jul 14, 2011 02:03 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Lisa and Robert: Thank you - we all experience this.. and it is nice to support each other. LOL G

Jul 14, 2011 02:04 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Michael: We all have clients who feel that bad market news is being negative - it is simply being objective.. LOL G

Jul 14, 2011 02:06 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Faye: There are so many nights I simply do not sleep, wondering what can I do next to sell my clietns' homes... when in fact, we all know what it is... after the brochures, photography, open houses, broker's open houses, the blogs, the internet coverage.. it is simply lowering your price - if only by a little.... no harm - no foul .. ... LOL G

Jul 14, 2011 02:08 PM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Gay,  You are exactly right.  We are in this day in and day out. They hired you because you are the professional.  And, as such, they ought to listen to you.  Otherwise, they will watch as the homes around them sell while theirs just sits.  I've seen this happen time and time again. 

Jul 14, 2011 04:22 PM
Tim Peterson
Wisconsin Realtor Safety and Concealed Carry Classes - Madison, WI
Realtor Safety Training Classes

Hi Gay-right on target. Making money and friends and helping all you can

Jul 14, 2011 08:28 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Elyse  - miss big time home seller (LOL)  so true...Best, Gay

Jul 15, 2011 12:56 AM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Tim: I always feel frustrated when I am speaking from the heart.. but they know more...and they don't

Jul 15, 2011 12:57 AM
Nina Rogoff
Boston, MA
Wix Websites for Real Estate Agents

Congratulations on the feature, Gay! As others said, I also love the phrase "a patient market". Your honesty and expertise is what makes sellers and buyers in Larchmont, NY and New Rochelle, NY so lucky to have you as their Realtor!

Jul 30, 2011 03:14 PM
Michael Morgan
Remax - Altamonte Springs, FL
Serving Seminole County FL

Great feature Gay, Honest with our clients, What a concept, I read and reread it just so I did not miss anything.

 

Sep 30, 2011 06:12 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Nina - hope you are well...  best, G

Oct 01, 2011 12:33 AM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Michael: Thank you so much! G

Oct 01, 2011 12:35 AM