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Hesitant Buyer? Get his Mom on the phone to help close the deal!!!

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Prudential California Realty/Gem Mortgage

When in doubt about buying a home, you had better call your mother and get her blessing.  Today I took a loan application from a young man that was hesitating to purchase a home because he felt the payment was too high.  It was kind of a strange sale in that everytime I communicated to him, his mother, who had picked up the other phone at his home, would just sit there and pass comment on everything I said.  She  was like a play by play sportscaster criticizing everything I was talking about and re-explaining to her son what I was communicating.  Was he dumb and I deaf?  Even though the whole conversation was in English, I felt like I had an interpreter translating every word that I spoke, can you imagine?!!!  At least Mom finally caught on and started to push for the sale.

We ran a couple of options for him and concluded that if he put down 10% on a $460000.00 purchase that the new debt could be broken down into to parts:  a 80% first trust deed of $358,000.00 which would be a low cost, conventional loan.  Also, the second trust deed would  be a $46,000.00 mortgage.  By splitting up the loan this way, we can save at least $200.00/m in Private Mortgage Insurance.  It's what we refer to as an 80-10-10 in the business.

The end result of this approach was that his new 1st trust deed would run with a payment of about $1800.00/m with an interest only mortgage of aroung 5.875% and the new Second trust deed would run approximately 7.125% for approx. $300.00/m.  The end result of this was that we would save about $6-700/m in mortgage payments which would suddenly make this home affordable!

Remember, Mother knows best.  By the way, what's for dinner?

Comments (7)

Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes
Best of luck on this one. You gotta do what you gotta do.
Oct 16, 2007 06:03 PM
Kirk Mulhearn
Prudential California Realty/Gem Mortgage - Long Beach, CA
Yes, bob, got to sell the parents!
Oct 16, 2007 06:05 PM
Ulises Romo
Realty One Group - Phoenix, AZ
I know in my culture we talk things over with our family to get their advice, so if you have to sell the parents/family too, then that's what you have to do.
Oct 16, 2007 06:23 PM
Kris Wales
Keller Williams Realty - Lakeside Market Center - Macomb, MI
Real Estate Blog & Homes for Sale search site, Macomb County MI
Kirk, this isn't unusual.  Parents routinely have more than a word or two to say (or ask!) when their child is purchasing their first home.   I'm glad Mom understood the program and that you have a happy client.
Oct 16, 2007 10:31 PM
Anonymous
a mom

There is nothing wrong with getting a parent's input on a major financial decision. Mom is presumably aware of her son's saving and spending habits, his approach to risk taking and his reasons for wanting to buy a home now.

Perhaps you could recommend your young client consult a financial advisor who could do the math for him. He can then decide if it's in his best interest to invest $46K in a depreciating asset and commit to a loan payment he is not comfortable with, or if he wants to delay his gratification and invest the $46K in a growth opportunity, rent until housing prices decline further, and take his chances on future rates on a 30 year fixed interest loan.

BTW, when you refer to the interest only loan as conventional I presume you just mean that the rate is fixed. How about that other $46K loan? If tht is that an ARM, can he afford the adjustment? ....Fiduciary responsibility.

Oct 17, 2007 12:48 AM
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Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Hi Kirk,
Aren't you glad Mom was on your side? It could have gone the other way.  
Oct 17, 2007 01:41 PM
Kirk Mulhearn
Prudential California Realty/Gem Mortgage - Long Beach, CA
Hey everyone, I love my Mom, and I love your Moms too!  Moms rule the day!  Hurray for Moms! God Bless Moms!  Moms have the most important job in the world! Love, your son, kirk
Oct 17, 2007 05:38 PM