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Showing Homes - New York Style

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Real Estate Agent with Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103

As I read blog posts here I am reminded once again that real estate is indeed area specific.  In many other parts of the country sellers are told to leave the house whenever it is being shown.  We've never done this in downstate New York.  If the seller happens not to be home, great.  However, more often than not, they are.  The only thing I ask my homeowners is to relax somewhere and not to offer information unless specifically asked.  It is very disconcerting when sellers feel the need to tell prospective buyers about every little change they've made to the house, or worse, to proudly let them know that everything to totally original.

I've had homeowners tell me that they didn't like the way an agent showed the house; that they didn't point out one thing or another.  I try to let them know that the agent usually knows this specific buyer and is responding to their needs and concerns.

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Ed DeChristopher
Fredericksburg Realty, Inc. - Fredericksburg, VA
CRS Fredericksburg VA

Geri you are 100% correct, "real estate is indeed area specific."

Here in the Fredericksburg Virginia area most of us encourage sellers to be away from the home when it is shown.  Too often a question like "Why are you moving?" Elicits a response like "It is too small for our family."  "And how many are in your family?" "Oh, we have 3 children now."

Guess what, the prospective buyers have three children too!

"Why are you moving?"  "Oh, we have a new job in New York."  Prospective buyer interpretation - "They are desperate to move."

There sure are area specific ways of showing homes.  Agree with you too that sellers' perceived need to tell prospective buyers every little change they made (or have not made) to the house is disconcerting.

Jul 29, 2006 11:17 PM
Jim Lee, REALTOR, CRS, ABR
RE/MAX Shoreline - Portsmouth, NH
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Sellers at home during showings; gosh, that is different.

I've found that buyers feel more comfortable and less inhibited about looking in closets, opening cabinets, and taking a closer look with sellers gone.

I advise all of my sellers to "get lost" whenever we show the house.

Aug 12, 2006 05:09 AM
Al Stetson
Philipstown, NY

Leaving the home while it is shown is much more desirable but certainly not mandatory. The comment regarding seller response is spot on. What is never stated doesn't need to be explained.

Nov 22, 2006 05:04 AM