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Why I chose real estate when I was jobless, homeless and friendless

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Real Estate Agent with Alain Pinel BRE 01367196

Did I choose real estate, or did it choose me? It seems that there were signs that this would be my ultimate and final profession, but I was too blind to see it.

Love of architecture

As a little girl, I was fascinated by the models that my playmate's architect father would have of a house or building he was designing. And no, I didn't look at these models as doll houses.

In college, I had a moment of insanity when I thought I could make it in Fine Arts. In the library, I'd wander from the Art and Humanities section of the library, and go to the Architecture section where I'd pore over books by world renowned architects like Frank Lloyd Wright.

The thrill of the hunt

As a grown up, I was seduced by corporate life. Each time I bought a home at different stages of progression and relocation, I enjoyed the thrill of the hunt. I simply loved going to Parade of Homes and seeing all the fabulous ideas and new technologies.

When I moved to New York, I actually even went to Harlem (during the day) to drive around the forgotten neighborhoods with the most interesting buildings.

Everywhere I traveled, I'd turn into a swivel head, marveling at the various architectural styles of homes in historic locations.

Involuntary career change

CRASH!

Corporate mergers and acquisitions, downsizing, reengineering, reduction in force, layoffs --- all corporate-speak for "You're out of a job" --- were the impetus for me to sell my house, pack up and move to California to be near my aging parents. This was the period of my life when I was literally "homeless, jobless and friendless."

I was even interviewed for a  2002 newspaper article titled "Resources dry up as joblessness drags on"

Tried consulting...but that meant going back to a corporate structure and routine. There had to be a better way.

One day, my sister casually said that since I like looking at homes so much, that perhaps I should try real estate. Not knowing if it would be my calling, I even consulted with a REALTOR cousin in L.A. She encouraged me to try it.

No license, no experience, but can I join your firm?

So I set out to see if I could be a REALTOR and tried to interview with local real estate companies. None of them would even talk to me unless I already had my license and at least one year's experience. Except one: Gallagher and Lindsey in Alameda CA took a chance on newbies, provided and arranged for courses in real estate, helped us through our practice exams, held our hand as we went through the process of getting licensed and guided us through our first deals.

The continuing education sustained me through the ups and downs of being a newbie. I learned. I thrived. And as other newbies came along, I paid it forward and tried to help them like the company's mentors helped me.

Eight years later, I moved on to Alain Pinel Realtors.

And yes, I'm still here! 

Real Estate is my passion, my bliss.

If I have any regrets about being a REALTOR, it's that I didn't start sooner!

 

Comments (14)

Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

Pacita: We all get here in our own way. I think the experiences we bring benefit our firms, colleagues and clients. Love the photo!

Jul 29, 2011 10:31 PM
Phil Leng
Retired - Kirkland, WA
Phil Leng - Retired

Pacita,

Gripping title.

Fascinating story.

Happy ending.

Thanks for sharing

Phil

Jul 29, 2011 10:34 PM
Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
Luxury service in Central Maryland

Good things come out of bad times. I have the same regret as you do about not starting sooner.

Jul 29, 2011 11:10 PM
Marco Giancola
Beachfront Realty - Miami Beach, FL
Realtor (305)608-1922, Miami Beach Florida

Pacita-a always enjoy hearing peoples ideas. Yours like mine started with amazing architecture as a child. My favorite and practically only toy was Legos and I would spend days building sub-divisions! Continued happiness and success. Ciao

Jul 29, 2011 11:14 PM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Pacita,

Fun, clever story...thanks for sharing your journey into Real Estate!

Jul 30, 2011 12:01 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Pacita. I enjoyed every word of your story and the picture.....just special. Your support of animal rescue is also a passion of mine. I think you are one interesting lady. Wish you lived closer.

Jul 30, 2011 01:23 AM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Anne -- coming to this country with just a few dollars in my pocket, I have been down and out enough times that I knew perserverance, determination and some smarts will get me out of any hole I find myself in.

Phil -- nice comments. Succinct. Much appreciated.

Ellie -- but at least we started ;)

Marco -- Legos? Subdivisions? You knew!

Lisa -- happy to be in real estate, and happy to be in Active Rain.

Sheila -- nothing like hugging my dogs to give me a little lift every day.

Jul 30, 2011 07:00 AM
Lloyd Binen
Certified Realty Services - Saratoga, CA
Silicon Valley Realtor since 1976; 408-373-4411

Pacita, East Bay offers you a great variety of architectural styles to keep your interest.  Interesting story and I like the baby picture.

Jul 30, 2011 08:47 AM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Lloyd -- you are so right. I live in Alameda, a small island of 70,000 plus inhabitants --- and we have a fantastic collection of Victorians, Craftsman, Tudors, bungalows. I'm in heaven!

Jul 30, 2011 09:02 AM
Steve Stenros
Poway,La Jolla,Del Mar,Mira Mesa,Carlsbad,Escondido,Temecula - San Diego, CA
CREIA MCI, ICC, ACI Home Inspector,San Diego

You are a survivor, Pacita! Life sometimes gives us lemons- so make lemonade! Congratulations on your accomplishments!

Jul 30, 2011 02:58 PM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Steve --- Survivor. Glad you think so....because I surely would want to always survive whatever catastrophe comes my way.

Happy selling!

Jul 30, 2011 04:20 PM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

It seems that real estate was not the path that we started on...it is the path that had led many of us to happy careers and that is what's important...glad it worked that way for you.

Jul 30, 2011 11:15 PM
Deb Brooks
Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX

Pacita, you were quite the huntress! Awesome story here and well told. Thank you,

Deb

Aug 16, 2011 11:30 AM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Sally and David...how true. I didn't even know what a realtor was while I was growing up

Deb --- and what a thrill it was.....

 

Aug 16, 2011 09:46 PM