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Phew...lost...and then found...thank goodness

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Home Builder with The Flooring Girl

Do you know that feeling when you lose something very important to you and you think you may never find it again? 

It's really an awful feeling.  It's ironic because I was just having a conversation about this w/ my afternoon customer.  They were away and lost their puppy July 4th weekend (he was terrorized by the fire works).  3 days later they found him...he was all raggedy but happy to be re-united and they were thrilled. 

And, that puppy is such a cutie, and I could so relate as we had a very similar experience when I was 13 and we lost our dog...and found her 5 days later.  While I was always thrilled to see my dog, never had I been so happy to see her w/ tears running down my eyes.

Well this is not quite the same thing because it didn't involve a life, but I'm in Starbucks (what else is new?).  I go to pay...and I'm speechless as I look down at my hand..and I see my sapphire is missing from my ring!  Of course I love my ring...but really I love what it symbolizes. It was a gift from my grandmother from almost 28 yrs ago - her last gift to me before she passed away.  It's my birthstone and I designed the ring.

I looked all around for it in the store (and several people helped me).  Went out to the car, traced my steps, looked in my car, looked in my purse.  Nothing.  Sick to my stomach.  I have a ton of work to do but can't concentrate nor even drink my cofffee since I'm so upset.

I then completely emptied my purse (since a nice customer told me abt how she lost a diamond bracelet in NYC and had finally found it there), and voila...the very last thing I scooped up is that lovely beautiful shiny blue sapphire.

I love you Grammy Jean, and I always will!

Have you every lost something dear to you and then found it?

Comments(24)

Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Virginia - wow, another coincidence.  Yes, I'm so glad you were reunited too.  I love happy endings.

Christie - Oh, my gosh.  So much in common.  Wow, in the ocean.  Now, that STINKS.  I feel you pain.

Aug 01, 2011 10:48 AM
Judy Klem
Transition Stage LLC - Shelton, CT
Home Staging, Senior Move Management, Fairfield/New Haven counties

Hi Debbie - How great is it that a customer who helped you mentioned that you should look in your purse? I'm not sure that would have occurred to me at all.  I'm so glad you found your sapphire and can make your ring whole again.

Aug 01, 2011 10:53 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Debbie, I can so go there! I lost my diamond once and found it next to where I park my car at home! Glad you had a happy ending!

Aug 01, 2011 10:59 AM
Kristine Ginsberg
Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC - Short Hills, NJ
NJ Home Stager

Debbie - two things: first this happens all the time to dog when there are fireworks and all dogs should be put insides so they can't run away and I'm so glad your friend's pup made it home.

Second - I'm so happy you found your grandmother's ring - my grandmother gave me her engagement ring and I know how much I treasure it! Thank goodness it all ended well!

Aug 01, 2011 11:47 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Judy - Yes, it was very lucky.  Very scary, then very lucky.

Connie - Wow, now that was super lucky.

Kristine - Yes, you are so right. And, yes, thank goodness it did.  Glad you can relate.

Aug 01, 2011 01:17 PM
Brian Madigan
RE/MAX West Realty Inc., Brokerage (Toronto) - Toronto, ON
LL.B., Broker

Debbie,

Just about everyone has been through this experience, and it is far from fun.

Brian

Aug 01, 2011 01:30 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Brian - Yes, you're right. It isn't fun at all.

Aug 01, 2011 02:28 PM
Gail Robinson
William Raveis Real Estate - Southport, CT
CRS, GRI, e-PRO Fairfield County, CT

Debbie - That's a terrible feeling.  I threw my $350 keys to my Mercedes in the trash a few weeks ago.  I turned the house upside down looking for them and then finally decided to undertake the ugly task of emptying out the kitchen garbage can.  Yep, they were there at the yucky bottom.

Aug 01, 2011 02:41 PM
Kathy Burke
Sensational Home Staging~~Danville, CA - Danville, CA
S.F. East Bay Home Staging

Debbie.....I know exactly how you feel.  About 10-12 years ago I went thru a very difficult time with my corporate career.  Went to dinner with some friends and all of a sudden noticed that a "charm" that was originally on my father's key chain.....then on my mother's key chain....was missing from my key chain.  I went a bit crazy....my friends thought I had lost my mind.  But as I retraced my steps to my car and for "some reason" decided to check the gutter near my car there it was.....waiting for me.  I really felt that my Mom and Dad were both looking down and guiding me to that charm.....which is now safe and sound and NOT on my keychain.  I also knew from finding it that was my parents way of saying..."all was going to be all right with life and career!"

Aug 01, 2011 05:35 PM
Fred Carver Real Estate Consulant
Retired BC Realtor - Victoria, BC
Accredited Real Estate Consultant

Hi Debbie...Great you Found your Sapphire stone and your clients found their Best friend. My wife lost her Old Gold Bracelet and it's still missing, we think it's in the garden of a house we built in the early 90's.

Aug 01, 2011 06:03 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Kathy - Yes, it does sound like you can relate.  What a sweet story and wonderful way to look at things.

Fred - Oh sorry that you still haen't found it.  I hope it turns up soon.

Aug 01, 2011 10:58 PM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Fabulous story with a wonderful ending!  Sometimes, though, we lose things that we cannot get back.  Like people.  But THAT is a part of life.  So take advantage now!

Aug 01, 2011 11:57 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Jay - Yes, this one lucky.  Oh, and yes, I hate losing people.  We need to cherish evvery moment.

Aug 02, 2011 12:31 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Debbie-glad you found your ring-it is so disconcerting when we lose something - but it feels so good when you can find it-it has happened to me with sentimental jewelry too many times-of course, it's just a thing but the symbolism tugs at the soul.

Aug 02, 2011 01:38 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Joanna - Exactly, exactly. It is the symbolism.

Aug 02, 2011 01:42 AM
Jeremy Wrenn
Winslow Homes - Youngsville, NC
VP of Finance, Winslow Homes

Debbie, so glad you found that!  You had quite the day yesterday!

Aug 02, 2011 06:16 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Oh, yes, I really did.  I was EXHAUSTED when I went to bed.

Aug 02, 2011 06:25 AM
Jeremy Wrenn
Winslow Homes - Youngsville, NC
VP of Finance, Winslow Homes

I'd say you had to be!

Aug 02, 2011 06:37 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

We lost our 2 dogs when a wind storm blew their kennel over. (We had attached a tarp over the top for shade - so the wind just picked the whole thing up and dumped it over the hill.) I found them a couple of miles from home - up the mountain. Or really, they found me. I had driven and driven and finally turned back. On the way back down one of them came bounding out into the road - happy as a lark for having found me. Both of them were covered in mud, but I didn't care. I spent the next 2 hours shampooing my car seats.

I'm glad you found your sapphire!

Sep 25, 2011 04:34 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Marte - Oh my goodness.  What a relief that must have been.  It's so great when you are reunited w/ your pets.  I've had it happen a few times, so I know how it feels.

Sep 25, 2011 08:46 AM