Are You Asking Your Buyers the RIGHT Questions?

 Determining the needs of our clients in paramount in order for us to be effective helping them find the home that meets their requirements. While experienced buyers may have a much better idea of what they are looking for, first time buyers often do not.

It is critical that we ask the right questions to make sure we obtain information that will be helpful to us so we can, in turn, assist our clients. And certainly it is true in other areas of our business (mortgages for example) that the right questions must be asked.

I think many folks assume that buyers tell us what we want know when we ask - how many bedrooms, how many baths, how much room, and all the other standard questions we ask. But if we don't ask the right questions we may miss important information.

  • LISTENING to what the buyers tell us is key to determine what other questions to ask
  • Understanding the buyers' lifestyle will give us important clues, perhaps even visiting their current home to see how they live
  • I find it helpful to use a checklist ("What's Important to You?") that I email to folks so I make sure I get the details of what I need to know, as well as finding out what is MOST important vs. those things the buyers are willing to trade off.
  • While open ended questions may be useful for starters, it is often necessary to drill down further and get specific about what the buyers want, or think they want
  • Reiterating what you are told is a good way to confirm that you heard the information correctly, plus you can ask a confirming or clarifying question
  • Don't assume that the buyer has told you everything important - you MAY have not asked the RIGHT QUESTIONS

I made a mistake recently that illustrates my point. I have some new buyers who found me through my blogging (yippee). I had a very nice conversation on the phone to gather details of what they wanted (they want to move but do not need to, and the next house must meet certain criteria). I usually am pretty thorough with my questions and thought I had what I needed, especially since they told me what the home MUST have.

We recently went out to look at the homes they wanted to see from the list I sent them. Turns out having a single story home is REALLY important (or a downstairs master) which is not easy to find given their other criteria. Normally I ask about this but for some reason I did not. Fortunately we had some single story homes to look at, but it clearly shows that a simple omission can make a huge difference in your ability to effectively help your buyers.

The other point I would add is to realize that the criteria may change over time for a variety of reasons, and that's OK. Getting on-going feedback and asking more questions about the buyers' needs are important to stay on track.

Our buyers often have a good handle on what they want and need, but it is up to us to ask the RIGHT QUESTIONS to tease out that information. It's all part of tuning in to our clients' needs and how best to service them.

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26 Comments on Are You Asking Your Buyers the RIGHT Questions?

Jeff - some really excellent advice, especially the 'listening' part. One other thing that is critical early on in the process - who is in charge? When dealing with couples, who is on point? Who is going to influence the buying decision the most? I've had situations degrade because I wasn't sensitive enough to this....

10/19/2007 08:12 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


How true it is.  If a buyer contact you about a specific home they found on your IDX page, it's easy.  You know exactly what they're looking for. 

But, when they call for an area and price range, you may discover what they like when they run into it.  They may not even kow themselves.

Selling homes is always an adventure. 

 

10/19/2007 08:19 PM by Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Real Estate


Another one of those key skills that so many in our business lack. If folks could finally realize how much time and effort asking a few question can save, maybe they would do it more.

10/19/2007 08:33 PM by Robert Whitelaw, Broker, CEO, Realtor®, ePro (Whitelaw & Sons Real Estate Services)


Jeff, In this market where buyers take longer to buy criteria do change faster than you might think. I have a buyer that need an extra bedroom now because they are expecting another baby (we have been looking for 6 months).

10/19/2007 08:38 PM by Camarillo CA Real Estate Agent/ Mana Tulberg (Beach View Real Estate)


Jeff - I have found that you can have all the criteria in the  world and they'll drive by a house that doesn't even come close to what they want and they fall in love...go figure!

10/19/2007 09:59 PM by Linda Scanlan ~Selling All of North Texas (Hall Team Homes)


How true. I think many times their criteria is still evolving and even they don't realize it.

10/19/2007 10:29 PM by Keisha Hosea- Realtor, Chino Hills, CA (Keller Williams Realty Chino Valley Market Center)


Rich - that is so true. I have actually asked people who will make the decision, and many times they know and they tell you. Good thing to be aware of. I, too, have sometimes missed the dyanmics or made assumptions when I should not have done so. Always a learning experience.

Jeff

10/19/2007 10:47 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Lenn - that is so true. And sometime even what they think they want, or insist on turns out to not be right. It often is a moving target (and having been a buyer many times I understand this). Asking lots of questions helps me help them, adn also assists them in clarifying the issues.

Jeff

10/19/2007 10:50 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Robert - that is such a good point. I think it is more common than not that agents make assumptions, or don't take the time to really get to know their clients and truly understand their needs. The problem I see sometimes in this market is that there is SO much to consider and choose from that some buyers cannot focus or make a decision.

Jeff

10/19/2007 10:52 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Mana - I have found the same thing a few times, too - good point to keep in min.  I certainly don't expect buyers to know exactly what they want all the time, nor that these criteria might not be altered. Guess that's why i like to keep asking wquestions to see if things are remiaing essentially the same or not.

Jeff

10/19/2007 10:55 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Linda - yep, that can happen. I think for some it's better just to rely on the feeling rather than establishing a rigid set opf critieria. But not having some thoughts on the subject certainly can make it hard to be helpful. Thanks for the thought - I know others who have had the same experience. I've also had buyers tell me they though they knew what they wanted but realized over time that they did not.

Jeff

10/19/2007 10:58 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Keisha - I think you are right. I have found this especially with new buyers.

Jeff

10/19/2007 10:59 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


I have the time of my life with military relocations here. For one, I make sure they understand they will get SMALLER. Another is the neighborhoods. I end up driving around to show them different neighborhoods, homes and finally.....they walk in that home that they "feel" is that right home. I love the excursions!

10/20/2007 12:46 AM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), HAWAII Real Estate & HAWAII Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


JEFF:  Good post.  I created a homebuyer worksheet that I ask potential homebuyers to fill out.  It is build around the search functions on my MLS, so once they fill in the blanks, it allows me to tailor the home search to their needs.  You make a good point about keeping the dialog going as sometimes buyers don't know what they want until they go and see some homes first.

10/20/2007 04:36 AM by Adam Waldman - Long Island REALTOR® (RE/MAX Best)


Jeff,

Back in NY when I dealt with buyers on a more regular basis...I made a list of questions I would ask to qualify them..not as much about how much they could afford but more of their real agenda. Same goes for the sellers...just a different type of questionnaire. It really saves you time and the agony if they are just pulling you chain. We all want real clients but face it...some just use us for information...I can't figure it out.

10/20/2007 08:40 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


As mentioned here, I use a probing question series to see a)if they're financeable, b)if they're serious enough to move today should the deal be right, and c) are able to work with a compromise situation.  If they pass these 3 big categories they go into my "buyers" file.  Otherwise they are filed as prospects... 

10/20/2007 10:07 AM by Jeff Geoghan MBA - Lancaster PA Real Estate Expert (Coldwell Banker Select Professionals)


Thanks, Sally. Sounds like a good working system you have there.

Jeff

10/20/2007 10:26 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Adam - thank you. I find it is a learning process for me just as it is for many buyers, especially when new or relocating. It's a big part of what I enjoy...the challenge of solving the questions.

Jeff

10/20/2007 10:27 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Neal - I think alot has to do with the value we demonstrate, or not. Anyone can provide information but the value has to be there. But I agree some consumers are simply looking for the info and are not ready or willing to commit - agents are a resource just as websites are in some cases. And given all the options they have, or think they have, it is not unreasonable that some will just keep looking and looking.

Jeff

10/20/2007 10:31 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


That's a great approach, Jeff. Getting down to the real agenda and the ability to actually do something is the challenge, but so important to do for everyone's sake.

Jeff

10/20/2007 10:32 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Thanks for the words of wisdom and the encouragement.   This is always a good blog to read right before you get in the car of a relo.  By the way I received a call yesterday  from someone moving to Long Grove from California.  Blogging does work! 

10/21/2007 07:01 AM by Judy Greenberg- Coldwell Banker Long Grove/ Buffalo Grove Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


Judy - thanks for the compliment. I really enjoy relocations, but they can be complicated because there can be so many other issues to learn about. So many questions to ask.

Hey, congrats on the relo call. Good luck.

Jeff

10/21/2007 07:04 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


"Reiterating what you are told" is such an important part of it.  Great point.  Sometimes we misinterpret what we hear, and sometimes things don't come out exactly as intended.  If we would just take a few minutes to say, "Let me make sure I've got this right," it would save so much time and frustration.  Great post, Jeff.

10/22/2007 10:14 AM by Amber Riviere (411 Real Estate Place & Cenla Moves, LLC)


Thanks, Amber. I think it makes alot of sense to confirm so everyone is on the same page. Not hard to do and worth it in the long run.

Jeff

10/22/2007 02:17 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Jeff, one other tip to remember when asking questions of buyers, they don't know they don't know the answers. Until they see homes they don't even know what they are missing. Just keep in mind they don't have all the answers even for themselves. It's a discovery process on EVERYONE's part.

10/27/2007 07:59 PM by Gary Woltal - REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty)


Gary - I think you make a very good point. I have found that often. I think we have to be careful about not asking questions that they cannot answer - it could put them on the defensive. It is definitely a discovery process. Thanks for a valuable contribution to the discussion.

Jeff

10/27/2007 09:43 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


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