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My Kindergarten Story - NOT!!!

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Real Estate Agent with Weidel Realtors

My Kindergarten Story - NOT!!!   In his post announcing this contest, Charles Beull theorizes that none of us are too old to have not gone to kindergarten!  I have to disagree. I grew up in a wonderful working class neighborhood in what today is known as Lower Northeast Philadelphia. Ours was a very parochial neighborhood - in both senses of the word. Most, not all, of the children in the neighborhood attended the local Catholic elementary school -  St. William. It was the same school my Mother had attended in the late 1930's and early 1940's and my nieces and nephew attended in the 1990's and 2000's. Kindergarten was not offered in our school at that time. I cannot remember whether kindergarten was offered in any Catholic School in the Philadelphia Archdiocese at that time. Today, of course, it is offered and many children attend.

My parents' other option would have been having us an attend Kindergarten at the local public school - Lawndale School, an excellent school with wonderful teachers. However, that school was 10 blocks from our home. We had five children in our family and since it was a simpler time, our family did not have a second car to ferry kids back and forth to school and even the ubiquitous activities that kids attend today. Since most of the children in my immediate neighborhood walked two very short blocks from my house to St. William School,  there were no older "publics" as we so kindly called them, that a parent could hire to walk their kindergartner to school. So, no Kindergarten for me.

In those days, toward the end of the Baby Boom, the Catholic schools were overcrowded, as I assume were all schools. My first grade class had 85 children in the class, with one teacher, no aide. Needless to say there was very little extra space in those classrooms. My older sister, who started first grade three years ahead of me actually had 100 children in her class. In those days, most of the teachers were Religious (Sisters), who dedicated their lives to educating children. In these days of classrooms limited to 40 children, these huge class sizes are hard to fathom. And with all of issues that many kids are dealing with and sometimes bring to school with them, I doubt any educating would be going on.

Still, we learned. We spent first grade learning our letters and numbers and maybe how to tie our shoes. (my shoes may have had buckles, I can't remember). It was a simpler time. Many of today's first graders are reading when they arrive at first grade - or even kindergarten.  My oldest son was reading by the age of three and entered first grade with a 6th grade reading and comprehension level.  Also, there would be no tolerance today for the mimeographed sheets and home made flash cards that were the staple of my early education. I remember proudly telling my Mother that her homework was the take the sheet with all those letters on it, paste it to a piece of cardboard and cut out the letters to make flashcards. Then she was to review the flashcards. At which point Mom reminded me that she knew her letters and I needed to review them and learn them with her. Oh!!!

How many children enter school today computer savvy? And let's not discount the role of Sesame Street and other educational programming teaching pre-schoolers to recognize letters and numbers, count, etc.

My Kindergarten Story - NOT!!!  Today's post is brought to you by the letter A and the number 7.

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Anne M Costello 



Anne M. Costello
REALTOR®, ABR, CDPE, ePRO, GRI, GREEN, SFR, SRES
SALES DIRECTOR
Weidel Realtors Newtown/Yardley Office
10 North Main Street  • Yardley, PA 19067
Cell: 215 771-1642 • Office: 215-493-1954
Email: acostello@weidel.com
URL: www.AnneMCostello.com
 
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

Had not ever thought of that Ann...our parochial and public schools were geographically close together...so

kindergarten could easily be attended in public school and some children changed to the Catholic or Lutheran elementary schools...and...all the TV was largely entertainment as opposed to education....M I C...c u real soon !

Aug 18, 2011 12:00 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Never went to kindergarten had enough of school during my 14 years of class

Aug 18, 2011 12:03 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

I never went to Kindergarten.  Neither did 4 of my 5 children.  Kindergarten is not mandatory.  Public education has convinced far too many parents that putting their children in a state run institution as early and often as possible is a good thing.

I'm not so sure.

 

Aug 18, 2011 12:07 AM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Anne, i remember bits of kindergartner but not a whole lot to tell you the truth..it didn't inspire me!

Aug 18, 2011 12:07 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

I remember those "publics" well.........you made me LOL Anne.  Overcrowded is an understatment.  Were you in any split classes like 3rd and 4th grade combined?  I was in several of those........morning the nun taught one grade then gave us work to do.........afternoon, she taught the other grade.  It was quite distracting to say the least.  Great story.

Aug 18, 2011 01:57 AM
Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

Sally & David: I don't know, I think Captain Kangaroo had some merit. At least he would read stories....and I still remember him, Mr. Greenjeans and Bunny Rabbit!

James: I probably would have enjoyed it. I like the social stuff.

Lenn: I think some working parents today rely on the schools for support. My children went to parochial school and to a private Catholic Academy. They are 5th generation Catholic school. By the time I hit high school in 1968, Catholic parents were paying for the schools. It started small and now tuitions are challenging for many families. It was a choice. Today, the catholic school system is threatened in most of the country.  Not making a political argument here - just stating facts.

Debbie: I ran into my first grade teacher (Sister Maria Francina) at my 20th reunion from St. William School. She taught first grade for 30 years before moving up to the big grades (3rd). Now that's a job, career and a vocation! First grade was distinguished by my willingness to help at school, and my absolutely terrible handwriting. That, and the Careless stamps it generated on my papers were a nightmare. No Blessed Mother, St. Joseph or Baby Jesus stamps for me. Sister Francina was mortified that the Careless stamp was my biggest memory of first grade. Then in second grade, the lay teacher borrowed her Careless stamp to mark my papers. It's a wonder I wasn't scarred for life!

Roger: You are too funny! We little Catholics didn't mean any disrepect to our publics - it was more Catholics went to Catholic school and Publics went to Public School.  At one point, we had 17 children living in the first three rowhomes - so we didn't need to go around the corner and meet the other kids. I am ashamed to admit I still don't know their name, and it's possible that their parents are still there - my Mom certainly is. I tried to take a more universal view in raising my own children. They went to Catholic schools, but we did venture out of the neighborhood and were involved with many activities, children and experiences across the spectrum.

Aug 18, 2011 04:40 AM
Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

Roger: I forgot to tell you there were 3 first grades all with 85 kids.

Aug 18, 2011 05:56 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Anne, great post and I wish there was some way to accomodate people that had other pre-school experiences---perhaps the contest could have gone that direction if I had thought harder about it :)  I think no contest on AR includes everyone though I guess.

Aug 18, 2011 07:22 AM
Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

Charles: I didn't expect to win, just wanted to acknowledge the contest, which I think is great! 

Aug 18, 2011 07:30 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Awesome Anne, and of course you can still get the extra points for finding a creative way to get an entry in :)

Aug 18, 2011 08:21 AM
Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

Hi Charles: I think the memories people are sharing are terrific! I didn't enter The Why I Chose Real Estate Contest because I don't have access to my earliest photos; however, when people share, we really get to know them. It's the know, like and trust thing, ya know!

Aug 18, 2011 09:17 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

To see and hear about the experiences of the child within us remains precious. Good share Anne

Aug 20, 2011 01:41 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Anne, interesting story. I did go to Kindergarten, as it was a way for my parents to feel good that I was being looked after by someone else. Like yourself, there was no real reading or writing until we reached first grade, much different today.

Aug 23, 2011 08:35 AM