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From Nursery School to Kindergarten to Real Estate

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From Nursery School to Kindergarten to Real Estate

Kindergarten to Real Estate - Kirsten's Sonoma Real Estate Blog

Life is a series of contrasting experiences and few of them are simply black and white.  I've been blessed with many educational opportunities that have taught me that life is a big rainbow of events that sometimes burst forward from the occasional shades of gray.

My childhood years in Sausalito, California were both charmed and challenging.   My father and mother got divorced when I was five.  Mom was left with three kids to raise.  She decided to get her teaching credentials and went back to school.  My generous and loving grandparents stepped up to became our care-givers and for awhile we enjoyed a lifestyle beyond the means provided by Mom's measly pay.  Gram and Gramp had a beautiful home in Sausalito with gorgeous gardens, a swimming pool, and sweeping views of San Francisco Bay.

My view of the world expanded after Mom found her first teaching job in nearby Marin City.  It's a low-income community---originally founded to house World War II shipyard workers with a more recent history of socio-economic problems---on the other side of Highway 101.  It's a world apart from affluent Sausalito, although both places share the same ZIP code.   Marin City is where I went to Kindergarten.  I was five and my brother was three and he and my younger sister were enrolled in daycare there.

My mom had no other options.  We'd moved into a rental property in Tiburon and due to the logistics and demands of her new job, we had to go to school close to where she was teaching.  This was also a time when affordable daycare and early learning institutions were scarce.  In fact, the Marin City daycare facility was the only one between San Francisco and the Oregon border.  It had been established, in the early 1940s,  by Eleanor Roosevelt for the children of the Sausalito shipyard workers.

It was a time of major adjustments for all of us.  My siblings and I were the only white kids in a community that had become, essentially, a ghetto.   Desipte our different backgrounds and skin tones,  I soon learned that my classmates and I had a lot in common.  We all missed our Moms, every one of us loved using crayons the colors of a rainbow, and we all played together on the same playground on the dreariest of gray winter days.

What I learned in Kindergarten has greatly helped me in real estate.   In this business, I've always felt that one of the keys to doing well is having the ability to work with a diverse clientele.  It's an acquired ability that comes from exposure to different cultures and lifestyles.

Kindergarten, a German word, literally means "child's garden."  My Kindergarten experience in Marin City provided me with the fertile ground I needed to grow into an agent who believes she shares a lot in common with anybody she meets.

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Amy Hahn
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Morehead City, NC
Realtor/Broker - Crystal Coast, NC

Kristen - This is a wonderful post, and what wonderful lessons you learned from your experience.  I have no doubt that it has made a difference in everything you have done, especially real estate!  Nice Job!

Aug 31, 2011 10:55 PM
Kerrie La Guardia
ActiveRain, Community Manager - Kirkland, WA
Let it Rain!

This is a fantastic post about the innoncence and equality that children possess.  I wish more people could take the fundamental values of kindergarten long into their lives.  The world would be a much better place for it.  Sweet post Kirsten!

Sep 01, 2011 07:09 AM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Kerrie:  Thanks for the read...and kind words.  We can all slip back into the best of our Kindergarten behaviors....can't we?  Have a great weekend!

Sep 01, 2011 07:13 AM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Amy:  This was a nice idea for a topic...thanks to Charles Buell for the concept!

Sep 01, 2011 07:34 AM
Sondra Meyer:
EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Kirsten, congratulations on your third place win out of 117 people!  That is great.  Your win is very well deserved. 

I found your story to be very touching.  Your mom sounds like a wonderful and strong woman.   My grandparents helped me a lot when I was raising my kids as a single mom also. 

Your point about one of the keys to doing well is real estate is the ability to work with diverse clientel is so true.  I'm re-blogging your post.

Sep 11, 2011 10:00 AM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Sondra:  Thanks for reading the post...and sharing a little of your story.  Who we are as individuals plays an important role in our real estate business.  Revisiting my Kindergarten years reinforced that belief for me.  Thanks for the re-blog!

Sep 11, 2011 11:17 AM
Robert Hammerstein -
Christie's International Real Estate - Hillsdale, NJ
Bergen County NJ Real Estate

Kirsten,

Your post actually brought tears to my eyes.  I can only imagine how difficult it was for you.  My daughter was also from a divorced family as I split from her biological father when she was just about the same age as you.  She had a difficult time until I married Bob but that just complicated her already fragile life.  Children are so precious but somehow they are so resilient.  My daughter just recently became a teacher herself so your life seems to have had some parallels to hers and your Mother's life had some with my own.  Guess that's why your post touched me.  I loved the fact that you give the definition of the word - that's fantastic!  You must be a super realtor with a great deal of compassion for your customers and clients.  Congrats on your placing in this contest.  It was a great deal of fun for me and I'm so glad I got to meet you through your entry.

 

LISA

Sep 12, 2011 12:00 PM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Lisa:  Thank you for such a thoughtful comment.  Children are very resilient. as I have learned for myself and witnessed in so many others.  Your daughter has made a wonderful decision to teach at a time when good educators are needed so badly.  I hope she finds it gratifying.  You must be proud of her.  Glad to meet you!  Let's stay "in touch."  I value realtors who show compassion and appreciate that you shared yours with me.   Hope you have a fruitful fall!  Kirsten.

Sep 12, 2011 02:13 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Kirsten,

I want to applaud you for  becoming one of the most wonderful Realtors in Sonoma Wine Country. Who would have ever thought this is where you'd end up in life - but you did it! You did it because of your innocense, beautiful heart, determination, and the family values that were instilled in you since birth.

Congratulations! You truly deserve to be recognized and applauded! I'm proud to get to know you!

Sep 12, 2011 04:57 PM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Patricia:  Wow!   What wonderful and kind remarks.   I'm so glad that I've been getting to know others here in the ActiveRain community.  It's truly an amazing place and the value of it to me is still unfolding.  Real estate is such hard time-consuming work that I think many of us hunker down to stay on it until we make it. ( Whatever that is, I'm not sure.)  We interact with so many people for fleeing periods.  I'mbegining to understand the notion that AR is really like a family...a family of folks with similar joys, frustrations, and challenges.  It has become a support system and I thank you Patricia for throwing your arms around me like this!  I'm also happy to get to know you.

Sep 12, 2011 07:41 PM
Melissa Ostrom & Melville Capps Newton MA - The Mel and Mel Team
(617) 388-3151 | Century 21 Commonwealth - Newton, MA

Kirsten, congratulations on third place in the contest. 

Melville

 

Sep 13, 2011 12:04 AM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Melville:  Thank you very much.  Sure was an interesting memory test...going back all those many years!

Sep 13, 2011 09:20 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kirsten,

Loved your entry into the contest and glad to see you won the third place..it is well deserved. The innocence of children in kindergarten is certainly portrayed in your story :).

Sep 20, 2011 12:38 AM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Thank you Dorie.  I think we can still conjure up that innocence if we want to.   It's a wonderful thing.

Sep 20, 2011 05:09 PM