If you ask for an opinion from someone, accept it graciously whether or not you agree with it!

I have to laugh because it happens so often, it like some people are programed to argue.

Richard, there are so many people that really don't want our opinion but rather a reaffirmation of their own.

Have you ever had some one stop and ask you for directions, and when you give it to them, they argue with you that it can't be correct?  Kind of the same thing. 

When I ask for someones opinion, I am usually looking for a different perspective. I will mull it over and the opinion will help me to decide what to do. It is definitely not always the best way to do it, it is just information and another viewpoint.

Good morning Richard,

I agree with Gabe. Many are not looking for your opinion just a reaffirmation of their own. They just want to justify their way of thinking :).

Good morning, Richard....if it's a controversial subject, I avoid arguments....they lead nowhere....sometimes it's better to give an answer that's not an answer!!!  just like a politician.

If someone gives me their opinion after I ask for it, I never argue just accept.  But when someone asks me their opinion and they don't like what they hear, they want to argue.

Great post Richard.

The best way for someone to expand their consciousness is to ask the opinion of someone who you know has a different opinion then you. 

I can speak for the women on this one...never ask your hubby, do you think I am fat, how do I look, etc without heeding your advice ! LOL

I agree with you but know that there are so many people out there who just feel like they have to cram their opinions down your throat.  And, don't you just love those people who are always right?

Oh yes, this is common sense, but apparently common sense is not very common at all.

Richard, I'll only give my opinion if its to someone that I think will respect it.  There are all too many people around that think their way is the only way and just want affirmation that they are right.  THey're not interested in anything that may differ from what they have to say.

A great post and unfortunately so true.  As Lenn Harley says why waste everyone's time by arguing write your own blog with your point of view, simple solution.  But, the "arguing" won't stop the folks who do it.  They may feel they are debating but it is definitely not the same thing.

Sue of Robin and Sue

Richard

My guess is that it is simply human nature, and for many having the last word or otherwise showing that they feel they know more is important. We get this often when agents ask for feedback. Hey it's my feedback, or my buyer's, isn't it.

And it's certainly true in all other aspect of life, not just the RE biz.

Jeff

Richard,

If someone asks my opinion and then starts debating me, I just excuse myself and walk away.

Rich

Richard - Not sure why some people do this. It's a little strange, and a bit rude if you ask me.

It drives me crazy!   If you don't care about my opinion, don't ask!  

LOL, Richard, I find when someone gets upset with my answer they don't ask me very soon after.  Not allbad.

Richard,

I have to agree with my fellow Austinite Dorie. People don't want opinions, but affirmation

People are always looking for someone to support their own position.  And when you do not provide the reassurance, the challenge arises!