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A Day Without Complaint. Is That Possible?

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty

A Day Without Complaint.  Is That Possible?

Well we’ll see.   I vow that I will live  this day without complaint both in the physical world and cyberspace.  Nope, not a single one.  That’s a tall order in the world for which we live and work and I hope I can pull it off.

Can you take a challenge and do the same?  Are you up to the task?

SIDENOTE:  Those who live to complain are excused from this challenge?


 

Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Nice Charita.  Complaining is like a cancer that slowly eats and errodes your joy.

Aug 26, 2011 01:43 AM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

If some did not complain they would have nothing to say.  As for me, I shall try, very hard. 

Aug 26, 2011 01:43 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Charita, It's something I have to watch myself for.  Got home from a business trip late last night, expected there would be no one on the airport shuttle bus but me, but a full load, and I was the last stop in the parking lot.  Part of my tired brain was in whine mode about the full bus and being last....and it's midnight and I've got a 45 minute drive home and still have to get up and go to work in the morning....but then the recalibration mode kicks in and remember, got a job, got home safe from two plane flights, everything is really fine....all just petty stuff that was stretching out the night :)  Bill

Aug 26, 2011 01:46 AM
Susan Morrison
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Franklin, MA

Hi Charita-complaining is sometimes a form of venting-we all need to vent on occasion.  I think it's normal as long as it's not continuously done.

Aug 26, 2011 01:48 AM
Nancy Pav
Century 21 Redwood Realty - Ashburn, VA
Nancy Pav, Your "GottaHave" Realtor

I agree with Susan.  I've had a very challenging week and if I wasn't able to vent, I think I would just about explode!

Aug 26, 2011 01:50 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Charita, I know I will complain about the weather. We have had heavy rains for three weekends in a row. Now Irene is on her way.

Aug 26, 2011 01:51 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Paula continuous complaining can definitely cause erosion.

Thanks for trying Gary.  That's all we can hope for.

BLiz thanks for sharing that fabulous story. To be honest it brought a tear to my eyes simply because it reminded me of how very much I have to be grateful for.  Thanks.

It is normal Susan.  I don't dispute that for one minute.  I'm just committing to living this day without complain.  This one day is all I'm asking for right now.  Just one day.  I think we can do that.  Don't you?

We understand the vent and rightly so Nancy.  No one wants to deny us that.  But is it too much to ask to dedicate just one day to a day without complaint?  Just one day.

If it were me Gita, I'd be praying rather than complaining, but I understand your point.

 

Aug 26, 2011 02:01 AM
Michelle Francis
Tim Francis Realty LLC - Atlanta, GA
Realtor, Buckhead Atlanta Homes for Sale & Lease

Charita, 

You go girl!  I am with you 100%.  I have a lady chasing me down to complain and I think start a fight.  I am going to be nice and defuse the situation, as I just don't want to go there.  

I am going to have a great day!  I hope you do, too:-)

All the best, Michelle

Aug 26, 2011 02:49 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Thanks for championing the cause Michelle.  Don't let her get to you.

Aug 26, 2011 03:07 AM
Laura Giannotta
Keller Williams Realty - Atlantic Shore - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
Your Realtor Down the Shore!

I've already failed today, can I start tomorrow???

Aug 26, 2011 03:56 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Good one Charita!  I've had a few complainers coming after me this week with their whiny complaints and it's just weird to me.  Kind of like a little kid jumping up and down screaming if they don't get what the want in a store.  Shhhhhhhh!  Stay on the positve side and good things will happen!

Aug 26, 2011 04:03 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Laura every single day, you get a do over.

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!  I'll be sure to keep it low when I spread the word about "do complaint day." But I'm hopeful others will shout it out Anna.

Aug 26, 2011 04:20 AM
Jennifer Prestwich
Henderson, Thornton, Broomfield and Westminster - Henderson, CO
Madison & Co Properties

I love this, Charita!!  It has been "one of those" weeks, so ending on a high note is a FANTASTIC idea.  Thanks!

Aug 26, 2011 05:47 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Jennifer just being committed to a day without complaining has been an awesome feeling.

Aug 26, 2011 05:55 AM
Donna Paul
Keller Williams Realty Gold Coast - Dix Hills, NY
Long Island Home Specialist,All About Real Estate

I'm up for the challenge... although there are many things to complain about it best not to. I always think that someone else maybe having it harder than me. BTW I love the song

Aug 26, 2011 06:18 AM
Scott Hayes
(512) 786-8300 - Austin, TX
Realty Austin, Broker Associate

Charita, 

 

I listened to the attached audio, and I can tell you I wont complain about Reverend Jones's voice.The man can go

Aug 28, 2011 04:43 PM