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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843

I started showing Jack and Jill homes last fall.  I showed them a few homes in Southwest Fort Wayne but nothing quite fit.  We took a little break over the holidays and then started looking again in early 2011.  

THEN WE FOUND IT!!!!

It was an A frame home on a few acres and they fell in love with it.  We wrote the offer in January and then we waited...

And waited...

And frickin waited...

We finally got the home under contract at the end of March.  They were so excited and happy that they took me out for some chicken wings!  I love chicken wings FYI.  

The process was a long and drawn out process and we had to jump through hoop after hoop.  We finally got very close to closing this last month but at the very last cotton pickin minute...

The damn thing fell through.  I won't get into any details but it was pretty heartbreaking for Jack and Jill.  

We regrouped and continued our search.  We saw a few more homes but what they were looking for was very unique and these homes didn't quite work.  

Then I got the call.  

Jill:  "Hey Jared.  I hate to do this to you, but I think Jack and I are going to buy his Grandma's home.  It's the kind of home that we have been looking for and she recently decided to sell it.  She gave us first shot before she listed it and if we buy it she doesn't want to have any real estate agents involved.  

If we change our mind we will let you know and continue searching with you.  We feel so bad because you have worked so hard for us and have done such a great job.  We will definitely refer any other home buyers or sellers in Fort Wayne to you.  I hope you understand."

Me:  (Laughing)  "Well hell, at least I got some chicken wings out of the deal!!!!"

We both chuckled and I told her that I totally understand and there are no hard feelings.  I told her to keep me posted and if it doesn't work then we will continue to search for the perfect home.  I also asked her to give her Grandma our information if she ends up in need of a REALTOR®.  

What are your thoughts?  Would you have handled it differently?  

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Fort Wayne Realtors Jared and Amanda Christiansen with Century 21 Bradley

Amanda Christiansen is an award winning Realtor with Christiansen Group Realty.

 

Jared Christiansen is a business partner and in charge of marketing and taking care of things behind the scene.

 

Enough about us...

 

Tell us what you want your real estate experience to be, and we will do it YOUR way.

 

Buying a home in Fort Wayne? Tell us your wants and needs. Let us know how you envision your family living.  Tell us what's important to YOU, and we'll find the community and home that fits.  

 

Selling your home in Fort Wayne?  Our job is to make you the most money possible in the shortest amount of time. We offer our sellers professional staging, professional photography, and more internet marketing than most. 

 

We are committed to giving you everything we have to offer.  We are both full time agents and will work around your schedule.  Do nights and weekends work better for you?  NO PROBLEM. We are here to help YOU at YOUR convenience.

 

Amanda can be reached at 260-704-0843, and Jared can be reached at 260-704-0842, or you can email us at JaredChristiansen@gmail.com, or Amanda427@gmail.com.

 

 

Comments(16)

Pat Champion
John Roberts Realty - Eustis, FL
Call the "CHAMPION" for all your real estate needs

I think you handled it perfectly this has probably happened to all of us at one time or another. Think positive you have built a relationship with them they may refer you to someone in the future.

Sep 09, 2011 06:04 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

You did all you could do - have a sense of humor and move on.  It's rotten that we get paid only for what we close on - all those wasted hours of showings sometimes mean zero $$.

Sep 09, 2011 06:06 AM
Marco Giancola
Beachfront Realty - Miami Beach, FL
Realtor (305)608-1922, Miami Beach Florida

It is a huge disappointment for surebut you handled it like a champ!

Sep 09, 2011 06:08 AM
Jennifer Patton
LiveNow Internet Marketing - Cleveland, OH

Hi Christensen Team,

Great blog/story!  It grabbed my attention and I read through to the end.  No!  I wouldn't have handed it differently.  You were gracious and thats matters more than feeling glum and vibrating it outwardly.  Great Job!

By-the-way!  I am new to active rain and your blog caught my eye while on my way to doing other work.

Jen

Sep 09, 2011 06:08 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

HI Jared - I also think you handled it extremely well if they decide to sell, I am sure they will use you. There is nothing like being gracious!

Sep 09, 2011 06:11 AM
Mike Yeo
3:16 team REALTY - Frisco, TX

I would have offer them if they need anyone to act as a transaction only agent. You could charge them a set fee so that they have everything documented properly. Other than that, I think you handle it well.

Sep 09, 2011 06:12 AM
Liz Johnson
Keller Williams Realty East Valley - Chandler, AZ
Realtor Selling AZ Homes ~ Chandler, Tempe, Marico

I love chicken wings too!  I had a buyer client buy a house from a relative lately too.  I am curious how those things work out.  What are the negotiations and inspection process like?  

Sep 09, 2011 06:14 AM
Steven Cook
No Longer Processing Mortgages. - Tacoma, WA

You showed true professionalism throughout this process.  I am sure they will end up referring many other clients your way in the future.

Sep 09, 2011 07:12 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Nah....that's all you can do. It happens and they did call you to tell you. Bummer, though

Sep 09, 2011 07:32 AM
Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

Thanks for the comments everybody.  

Mike:  I had that same thought, but Grandma has a friend at the title company that is going to help them for a very low fee.  Unfortunate, but hey, we have a lot of other business going so time to move on.  

I appreciate you all stopping by.  

Sep 09, 2011 07:48 AM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Jared, it's a tough break that you really can't control in the end I guess I would be happy for the buyer...especially if they were honest and a nice couple.

Sep 09, 2011 08:58 AM
Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

I know they appreciated you being so understanding.  No doubt in my mind they think you are the greatest!

 

Sep 09, 2011 09:32 AM
Donna Harris
Donna Homes, powered by JPAR - TexasRealEstateMediationServices.com - Austin, TX
Realtor,Mediator,Ombudsman,Property Tax Arbitrator

I would have reminded them that they would probably need help filling out the contracts and you would do it for $X.

Sep 09, 2011 01:20 PM
Eric Michael
Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI - Livonia, MI
Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519

I love me some chicken wings! Jared, I woulda done the exact same thing. Make sure you keep in contact with them, they might know someone who could actually use you.

Sep 09, 2011 03:18 PM
Nathan Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Davenport, FL
Your Central Florida Real Estate Expert

You had me at chicken wings. :)  I think you handled it perfectly. It's always a touchy subject when a client walks away. A lot of people get upset and burn their bridge and that just isn't the right way to handle the situation. Word of mouth advertising is the best form of advertising. I never burn a bridge and I always try to part with customers on good terms. Well played sir.

Sep 10, 2011 09:39 AM
John Cannata
214-728-0449 http://TexasLoanGuy.com - Frisco, TX
Texas Home Mortgage - Purchase or Refinance
I think you handled it correctly. What r u going to do? And at least you did get those wings.
Sep 10, 2011 04:34 PM