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Pay it Forward - Skyping a wedding

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Pay it Forward - Skyping a wedding

Wedding ringsThe other day I got a frantic call from my neighbor.  Her grandchild was about to get married and due to their ill health, she and her husband (who had just been released from the hospital two days previously) were unable to travel to attend the wedding.  It was  taking place right then in Israel. 

They were really down and out about missing the event, a milestone in their lives.

Why the panic?  Her son, wanting to include his parents in the festivities, had brought his laptop to the wedding and was trying to connect with them on skype.  Though my neighbor, a retired IBM project manager, was not computer illiterate, his system, as computers go, was old and did not have a built in mike or camera.  Though they had heard of skype, they weren't quite sure just what it was and had no idea how it worked. She called me to see if I could come over to help them connect.

I grabbed my laptop and headed over there to set them up.  In no time at all they were chatting with their son and had a chance to meet and visit with the bride and groom, dance for them (if not with them) and give them their blessings.

Not quite as good as being there in person, but close!  Instead of waiting for the photos and videos of the event they got to see it in real time and to be a part of it.  And I had the pleasure of knowing that I helped make that happen for them!!

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John Watson
Century 21 LAD Realty - Aptos, CA
Santa Cruz Real Estate (831)428-3296

That is definitely a pay it forward moment!  So sweet!

Sep 10, 2011 06:50 PM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Tye and John - WHy, thank you!

Sep 10, 2011 06:56 PM
SunnySellsOC Putting The Green Back Into Orange County One Fami
REeBroker - Anaheim Hills, CA

Wow Leah,

It's really nice to see a random act of kindness in today's world.  I read your post and it makes me think that there are many ways in which we can help one another, money is not always the only way.  Time i believe is the greatest gift we can offer someone and you did just that, you gave them time with their family at such a milestone in their lives.

You have restored my faith in humanity... I think there is hope for us after all :)

Thanks for sharing !

Sunny

Sep 10, 2011 07:24 PM
Larry & Jacque Ficek
Alaska Dream Makers - Wasilla, AK
Realtors - Wasilla Alaska

Very sweet Leah, Larry did this for his little brothers wedding too so that their grandparents (in Montana) could be at the Oregon wedding with the rest of the family. This was very nice of you and a definite 'pay it forward!'

Jacque & Larry

Sep 10, 2011 07:44 PM
Cliff Keith
SF Bay Homes - Redwood City, CA
Redwood City Real Estate

Very nice thing to do for someone.

It's amazing how techology can be so helpful.

Skype is a cool system to have in any Realtor's tool bag.

Sep 10, 2011 10:04 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

What a great story...........with your help, they were able to feel like they were at the wedding.  Excellent pay it forward!

Sep 10, 2011 10:52 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Oh, that is so great.  What a wonderful idea for those that can't make it.  That is so great that you could help them enjoy this important moment.

Sep 11, 2011 12:10 AM
Mitchell J Hall
Manhattan, NY
Lic Associate RE Broker - Manhattan & Brooklyn

That's a great story thanks to your help. Today's technology is amazing. Last year I had a coop board that wanted to interview the buyer's father because he was a guarantor. The father lived in Florida and was ill and couldn't travel. The buyer suggested a skype interview. Everything worked out great.

Sep 11, 2011 01:25 AM
Daniel H. Fisher
www.FisherHermanRealty.com (704) 617-3544 - Charlotte, NC
MCRP - Charlotte Real Estate, NC or SC

Skypeographers - A new business concept!  What a nice gesture to allow family to see this event.  Smartphones can skype now too.

Sep 11, 2011 01:26 AM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Leah, how cool is that. I think this is one of the best Pay It Forwards. To help an older couple participate in the wedding is awesome. A tribute to you Leah!

Cal

Sep 11, 2011 04:24 AM
Christine Smith
Buyers Brokers Only LLC - www.BuyersBrokersOnly.com - Canton, MA
Exclusive Buyer Agent & Attorney, Canton, MA

That is a great story.  How cool that they were getting married in Israel & even better that you were able to help them "be" there via Skype!  And thank you for sharing such a happy story today!

Sep 11, 2011 06:59 AM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Susan - that's exactly the point of all these pay it forward posts.  It's not to sing our own priases, but to inspire others to do for others.

Jacque - I'm sure the grandfolks loved being able to attend virtually.

Cliff - and the ways we can use it just keep multiplying.

Roger - THey were so excited to be able to partake in some way and I was happy to be able to "Pay it FOrward " for them.

Debbie - Just another use of Skyoe!

Mitchell - Clever of you to ave thought of it!

Daniel - Great to be able to Skype on the handheld devices, but for old eyes, the big screen is still the preferred way.

Cal - Thanks for the kind words.

Christine - DOn't you love how technology can make it all possible.

Sep 11, 2011 04:17 PM
Debbie Walsh
SHAHAR Management - Middletown, NY
Hudson Valley NY Real Estate 845.283-3036

What a great feeling that must have given you- you TECHIE!  Great job!

Sep 11, 2011 11:40 PM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Debbie - Not quite a techie, but I do know how to use Skype.

Sep 12, 2011 03:18 AM