With clients and even ALL people in our lives there is a harmony with them or a disharmony with them. Do you know in business you ought to be trying to find your IDEAL clients? Those that are a best fit for the services you provide. With friends or significant others, ideal would be people who are GOOD FOR YOU with who you are in life. With this process in mind
We Are Constantly Checking Our Meshing With Others
It truly takes time to see if the puzzle pieces or teeth on two different size gears MESH WELL together.
With all people or friends/acqaintances we will not be that PERFECT fit or even close to ideal some days, but they are still someone we can work with. That personality fit of the OTHER hopefully not you, where they say does not work or play well with others, hopefully those people are few and far between. But meshing well with others you find out about along the way. How do they operate when things go well? How do they behave when everything goes badly around them? How are their values and what is important to them match up or compare with your values and what is important to you? We don't want clones of ourselves naturally and we learn from differences and variety spices up our life. I do think sometimes it is true that opposites attract, but more importanly after that, similarities endure.
Work to mesh well yourself and seek out others who mesh well with you.