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Life Can Change in an Instant...

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Real Estate Agent with Associate Broker, Momentum Realty

This is not my story to tell, but I am going to tell it anyway...and I think you will see why. It is not about real estate or even my local community. But it is an important story for all of us to hear.

It was a beautiful Summer afternoon in August and a couple of 16 year old friends went down to the James River, Richmond, VA,   to swim. One of them, Cole Sydnor, dove in and struck his head on a rock.  His good friend noticed that Cole  wasn't coming up from his dive, and further, that Cole's body was moving quickly toward the rapids. He jumped in and with the help of another friend, pulled Cole to safety, saving his life.

The ambulance was called and Cole was rushed to the hospital.  In the diving accident, he shattered his C5 vertebrae.  He spent 11 days at MCV in Richmond, VA before transferring to the Shepherd Center in Atlanta, GA where he is continuing his rehabilitation. He is fully paralyzed from the waist down and working really hard to regain as much use of his arms and hands as is possible without  his C5 vertebrae, which was surgically removed.

The journey Cole and his family are undertaking has been at times heart breaking, awe inspiring and amazing. Cole is a strong young mad with fierce determination.  He had just gotten his driver's license before the accident. In May, his high school, Atlee High school, won the 
Boy’s High School Lacrosse Club State Championship at
Sportsquest. Cole was a 16 year old boy who was ready to take on the world. And in an instant, his goals and dreams changed.

I don't know Cole personally. My husband and I went to college with his father, Clem.  His accident, however, has affected me deeply. Maybe it is the connection we have with his father. Maybe it is the fact that I have a 15 year old lacrosse playing son. Maybe it is just that it is so unfair that doing something so wholesome--swimming in the river on a summer day--can result in such a devastating, life changing situation.

I am posting this story as a way of continuing to create a web of support for the Sydnor family. They will need a lot of support, both emotionally and financially, in the years to come.  There is a community Facebook page for Cole where  you can learn of local fundraising efforts in the Richmond, VA area.  Last week,  they had an event where they raised $700 dollars  at a local restaurant, Texas Roadhouse,  and there is another one scheduled for tomorrow at Marty's Grill. If you live in the Richmond area, please consider becoming a fan of Cole Sydnor (community page)  and eating out at one of the local restaurants who have offered to help.

Another way you can help is by making a tax free donation. Every little bit helps. A site has been set up to benefit the Sydnor family and the many unforeseen expenses that they face. Besides what is not covered by medical insurance, there will need to be extensive modifications made to their home before Cole returns. If you can help, please do. The site where you can make the donation is,  Cole Sydnor,
NTAF South-Atlantic Spinal Cord Injury Fund.


Please keep this family, and this young man, Cole, in your thoughts and prayers.  He has made amazing progress in short time. He has many folks cheering him on, but he will need all the support we can rally!

Go Cole... you have the whole world cheering for you!

There is a new website that allows you to track Cole's progress,  all the efforts on Cole's behalf, as well as ways that you can help: www.rollwithcole.org.

 

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Comments(9)

Adam Tarr
MavRealty - Phoenix, AZ
PC -GRI, ABR, CDPE, RSPS, ePro - Designated Broker

It is always sad to hear stories like this.  I am aware of many.  It is a reminder to all that life is precious and family is more important than anything else.  Don't let the mundane get in the way of life.

Sep 18, 2011 09:34 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I lost my nephew last spring to a foolish accident and none of our lives will ever be the same.  I will pray for Cole and I hope his recovery is as much as it can be.  Thanks for sharing his story. 

Sep 18, 2011 09:34 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

I heard about this story and I believe this boy lives in Mechanicsville, VA where my friend who told me this story lives.... My heart goes out for this family and the community.

Sep 18, 2011 09:46 AM
Jen Giraud
American Home Shield - Dallas, TX

Thanks for sharing Cole's story. I think it it fantastic that you are doing something to help Cole and his family. I can't even imagine what they've been through, and what they still have to endure.

Sep 18, 2011 09:47 AM
Holly Weatherwax
Associate Broker, Momentum Realty - Reston, VA
A Great Real Estate Experience

There is just so little we can do...I want to do whatever I can.

Loreena, this is the same young man. What a very, very hard thing for everyone.

Sep 18, 2011 09:52 AM
Linda Blumenthal
631-819-2913 - Westhampton Beach, NY
NYS Licenced Real Estate Salesperson, CBR

My thoughts and prayers go out to you Cole.  You've been through so much at such a young age.  The best to you always.

Sep 18, 2011 10:04 AM
Frances C. Rokicki
Fran Rokicki Realty, LLC - Bolton, CT
Broker-Mentor,CRS

Holly, Hoping and praying that this young man has success with his recovery.  With every day, a new technique is discovered.  Maybe, one that will enable him to gain some of his physcial strength back.

Sep 18, 2011 11:10 AM
Diane Grady
Endless Summer Realty - Saint Augustine, FL

Cole is in my prayers. I knew of a young boy who did that when I was growing up. He was a paraplegic after the accident. There is great hope for Cole all of these years later. God Bless him and his strong spirit.

Sep 22, 2011 11:27 PM
Holly Weatherwax
Associate Broker, Momentum Realty - Reston, VA
A Great Real Estate Experience

There is a new site that has all of the fund raising efforts and updates on Cole available in one place: RollwithCole.org. I hope you go by and check it out.

Oct 03, 2011 03:46 AM