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Who Is Jac Kass?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408

It was shortly after immigrating to the US. We went to Department of Motor Vehicles in the Bronx to register a car. There was a huge crowd. A Russian guy standing in line commented dirty about the black guy in front of him in line. He did it in Russian, sure that nobody else would understand. The guy in front of him turned and asked in fluent Russian «Why are you insulting me?» And it was just the beginning.

It was a very awkward moment for the guy. He did not expect a black guy to know a word of Russian, and here he was, standing in front of an angry black guy, who spoke nearly perfect fluent Russian (he studied in Moscow for 6 years to become a doctor) and who could curse in Russian like a sailor...

Jac KassIt was a good lesson. Never say something unless you would be comfortable to repeat it in front of a person. Or  you will be sorry.

A couple of weeks ago I ran into a blog 'It Seems to Me That Maybe Pretty Much Always Means No......' (I guess it has been removed, as the link did not work when I tried)

 Buyer’s fictitious and very telling name was Jac Kass. Yep, as you rightly figured, the Buyer was a Jac Kass. There were plenty of comments, as usual in the best traditions of AR they were all agreeable, and many found the name funny and appropriate.

And I could not help thinking that if that's how we think of our customers/clients, what do we expect from them? What type of attitude do we expect from those «Jac Kasses»?

How many times you run on AR into customer/client bashing in the blogs? How many times you ran on AR into customer/client bashing in comments?

Would you write about Jac Kass if you knew that your customer/client speaks Russian would read your blog?

And if they do, guess who is Jac Kass?

*Image courtesy of greeblievia Flickr.com under Creative Commons License

Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

I hope it was a Member's Only post!!

Sep 25, 2011 10:20 AM
Kirsten Lindquist
Pacific Union International - Sonoma, CA
Realtor - Sonoma Wine Country

Jon:  Client bashing is a loser's game.  There's a mind-set behind it that is based on an agent's ego  It's ususally all about the agent---not the client.

Sep 25, 2011 10:50 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

I don't believe in Members only posts anymore.  If you can't say it in front of the public as you intimated in this post, then don't say it at all.

I think this is a shining example.  Thanks, Jon.

Sep 25, 2011 10:50 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Margaret - bashing is happening on public posts.

Sep 25, 2011 11:03 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Kristen - of course. But I see very little on AR where we demonstrate the ability and willingness to see the other side.

It is so about us, it is simply unbelievable. And it will be fine, if the money were coming from us, but they don't. They are coming from customers/clients, and who pays the money, orders the music

Thak you for the comment

Sep 25, 2011 11:12 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Ron - I do not really believe in Members only myself. Nice to think better about ourselves, but looks like the public does not have high regards for agents

Sep 25, 2011 11:13 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Jon, your story is a great reminder of how careful we must be. It is a fine line we walk, all of us, when we want to get a point across using a story.

I didn't see the post, and I am glad of that.

But the name is funny...

Sep 26, 2011 12:03 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Andrea - it is like if on the blog of auto-mecbanics they would write about all these idiots who come to them because of something insignificant happening to their car and these idiots do not know what they do.

And then mechanics would promote their blogging platform and invite public to participate, to read, etc.

Forsome strange reason tis is what we often do.

Sep 26, 2011 02:23 AM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Jon

About the only places on Active Rain where I see some kind of negative back-and-forth were always on the political forums.

When someone says something about one's candidate, etc., he is sure to get an equally nasty response.

We have to keep reminding ourselves: internet is forever.

 

Sep 30, 2011 07:06 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Pacita - oh no... It is our rants about bastards Sellers and schmucks Buyers, who do not listen to us. Political - there is at least disagreement. here the worst part is that everyone agrees (for the most part)

Sep 30, 2011 08:18 PM