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Community Support the 20th Anniversary Desert Aids Walk in Palm Springs

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Real Estate Agent with Teles Properties

The community of Palm Springs came out today to support the Desert Aids Project with their participation in the 20th Anniversary Desert Aids Walk.  My partner Jeff and I, went to Francis Stevens Park to support our friends who were participating in the walk. 

When we got to the park just before 9:30am, there were about 2000 people waiting to start the walk.  There were groups from the different real estate companies, families with their kids & pets, and others from all walks of life who came out to participate in this great cause.

It was a beautiful day, despite the smoke & haze from the fires in San Diego.  Jeff and I decided at the last minute to do the Walk.  We ran into local Palm Springs City Council Candidate, Sheila Grattan, who was out in full force with her bag of T-Shirts.  She gave us a couple of shirts to advertise her campaign.

As we were walking, I looking at the all the groups, and the messages & signs they were carrying.  Although we were walking for this particular cause, everyone around, including myself , was trying to get out their own message.  Whether it was advertising for a political candidate or for another cause, to me it seemed that message of trying to combat AIDS was getting lost. 

 I started thinking about the partner and all the friends that I have lost during the last 20 years.  I wanted to cry right then and there.  Everyone was having such a good time, not a care in the world.  I wanted to yell "What are you so happy about, this in not over!!"  I hadn't felt this way in a long time.

 

 I started thinking about the partner and all the friends that I have lost during the last 20 years.  I wanted to cry right then and there.  Everyone was having such a good time, not a care in the world.  I wanted to yell "What are you so happy about, this in not over!!"  I hadn't felt this way in a long time.

When we finished the walk, I came across a section in the park that had all of these pinwheels  stuck in the ground.  Being the curious person that I am, I decided to investigate.  I noticed that the pinwheels  had notes attached to them.  I kneeled down to read one of the pinwheels.  The note said "Eloy, we love and miss you".

The note touched my very soul.  People haven't forgotten what the Walk is all about.  It's about fighting to put end to this insidious disease and to remember the ones we have lost.  It's about living life to the fullest and being grateful.  Thank you everyone for reminding me.

Article also posted on BlogoftheDesert.com

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Harold Watts of Scott Lyle Realtors has been a REALTOR in Palm Springs since 1999. Focusing on the 2nd & Vacation home market, Harold has been helping Buyers and Sellers achieve their real estate goals. If you want to know what is happening with the Palm Springs Real Estate market, give Harold Watts a call at 760-218-8209 or email him at Harold@HaroldWatts.net

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Ginger Wilcox
Sindeo - San Francisco, CA
Harold, I am sure this was a very difficult day for you.  I am glad you found the pinwheels.  I am certain that many people who were smiling and laughing also felt a tremendous sadness for those they may have lost as well.  Sometimes we just have to laugh to get through it- and you are right- live each day to the fullest!!
Oct 27, 2007 09:43 PM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV
I did a walk yesterday too, but I haven't blogged about it yet.  Ours was a breast cancer awareness walk.  I walked with a friend of mine who is a 12 year survivor.  I brought my camera (of course) but instead of the walk, mostly I took pictures of the beautiful fall leaves.  And rather than talking about cancer, we talked about friends and family and life.  We didn't forget the fight -- we were walking to raise money so that hopefully more people will go on to live longer lives ... so that they can walk and talk about friends, family and life.  It didn't seem off topic to me at all.  (But we did all wear breast cancer awareness shirts!)
Oct 27, 2007 11:22 PM
Harold Watts
Teles Properties - Palm Springs, CA
Palm Springs Real Estate Blog

Ginger,

The pinwheels were a godsend.  Even after 18 years, I still think about my partner and how young he was when he died (He was 26). It is hard to believe that after 25 years, we are still dealing with AIDS.  But there have been great advances in medicine, and the disease is not the "death sentence" it once was.

Oct 28, 2007 02:32 AM
Harold Watts
Teles Properties - Palm Springs, CA
Palm Springs Real Estate Blog

Sarah,

I had to be reminded that everyone at the walk was there for ONE cause, to raise money to fight AIDS.  After seeing all the different signs, I felt that message of the AIDS Walk was being lost.  I'm glad I did the walk because it reminded that there is much more to do to fight this disease. 

Oct 28, 2007 02:51 AM