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When your prospect tells you that they have a "friend" in real estate, what do you do?

By
Real Estate Technology with BIC Services, LLC

From David Knox, a Real Estate motivational speaker, here is some good advice when dealing with a client that claims to have a "friend" in the business...

 

Whenever you get this objection, the most obvious curiosity is why, if they have a friend in the business, did they call you?  If they were definitely going to list with that friend you would've ever even been invited. (An exception to this if they are a FSBO and you have prospected them.) The fact they are interviewing you indicates there must be SOME reason that they want a comparison. Find out what it is.  Do some investigative work and don't give up too easily...

Remember the basic rules of responding to ANY objection; Pause, Acknowledge, Isolate and Question before any Answer.  Ask them some of these questions:

ISOLATE

"Other than your friend in the business, would you consider listing with me?"

"If you didn't have a friend in the business, would you hire us?"

QUESTION

"Knowing you had a friend in the business, why did you want to interview me?"

"Under what circumstances would you consider listing with someone other than your friend?"

"Have you definitely decided to list with this friend?"

"How long has this person been in the business?"

"What is their area of specialty?"

"How much work do they do in this area and price range?"

"How comfortable are you doing business with this person?"

ANSWER

"The fact that you invited me here indicates you have some concern about listing with that person. Based on that would you prefer to hire me?"

"I understand the conflict between friendship and needing to have your home sold. Given the importance of this move, it might be a better business decision to let me handle your move."

"Some of my clients have found it difficult to discuss personal matters and confront the agent with problems when that person is a friend. Perhaps you would feel more comfortable allowing me to handle this."

 

Work with them and show them you are good and they may soon realize that you are the better choice!  Professionalism and persistence can separate friendships when it comes to doing business.  Give them a reason to pick you so they can explain to their "friend" or others that share the same friendship.

As you are selling yourself, don't forget to mention your mortgage services that you have that also helps you pre-approve and close your clients quickly and smoothly that their "friend" might not have.  This can be the difference that they needed to pick you!

And, when you need help with a mortgage, don't forget that YOU have a friend with me that would love to help you with that!

 

Posted by: Sam Thompson

Southern Trust Mortgage - 910-852-9415

Senior Loan Officer - NMLS# 70388

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Yvonne Van Camp REALTOR
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          Interesting that you got picked to do the interview.   Practice, Drill, Rehearse is the mode I go to.

Oct 03, 2011 02:18 PM
Former Agent
None - Adak, AK

I thought David Knox's schtick is something along the lines of, "do you want to keep them as a friend? Real estate transactions can get very intense."  :) 

Oct 03, 2011 02:34 PM
Daniel H. Fisher
www.FisherHermanRealty.com (704) 617-3544 - Charlotte, NC
MCRP - Charlotte Real Estate, NC or SC

I have a friend is easier than I have a family member (e.g. my mom) who recommended I use_______. I just cannot disappoint her.

Oct 03, 2011 03:44 PM
Sam Thompson
BIC Services, LLC - Fayetteville, NC
BIC Services, LLC

thanks for the comments. 

Oct 04, 2011 12:18 PM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

These were some really well thought out comebacks. I guess the point is to keep the conversation going during which time you can possibly gain some headway.

Oct 04, 2011 03:25 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Sam -- it's very important to be prepared and ask questions, lots and lots of questions.  It's a sure fire way to find the truth.  

Oct 08, 2011 04:05 PM