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Requests for donations from the elderly exceed harassment.  Having just returned from the second of two trips to visit my very sick and elderly mother, I feel I cannot go a moment longer without expressing my concern on this issue:

In a period of 14 days, my mother received over 100 (ONE HUNDRED) requests for charitable donations, many of which she had already contributed to within either several weeks or months!  My mother has every right to contribute to whatever organizations and charities she wishes to, but it becomes harassment when a person receives not one, two, three, but multiple requests from the same organizations even after a contribution has been made. 

My mother is dying and yet she spends hours at the table reading through all of this junk ( and I mean junk) mail asking her to send money, because she feels like she needs to respond. She then spends hours looking at her hand-written journal of whom she has given to and when.  Her hours should be spent enjoying her friends, her family and whatever else she loves to do. We all agree that she can leave whatever she wishes to these organizations in her will.

I am asking for help in how to curb this excessive mail coming to our home. I know this is an issue for many people across the country. The post office should be charging extra fees for this commercial mail....many of these requests come from the same clearing house.  Trying to contact these organizations to ask to be removed from their mailing lists is difficult, because most times they do not give a phone number, or email address to respond.

I would like very much to make this a viral communication as so many of our family and friends are inundated by these harrassing requests and many feel obligated to respond.

If you have resources, please share. If you can contact your representatives, even better.  Thank you

 
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3 Comments on Requests for donations from the elderly exceed harassment!

OCT
06
261,265 Points 7 Featured Posts Called Shot Master

Hi Emelyn. This is such a difficult story to read. OMG, this is scary. Perhaps you could call your Mom's congressman and see if he or she wouldn't be of some help. Clearly, even with the do not call lists, businesses violate the law. I guess they figure it is the cost of doing business, pay an occasional fine but make a killing on the others. I will write my congressman and wish you and your Mom well.

7:20pm • #1

I am also trying to do this as well.  I am just want everyone to understand that this is going on everywhere and we need to have a national effort to make it stop.  Thank you so much for responding and your comments. Please pass the word.

Emelyn Morris-Sayre
7:44pm • #2
OCT
07
563,135 Points 31 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

Emelyn, I just experienced a very similar thing last year while getting my folks settled into assisted living.  I couldn't believe the amount of calls and mail they got asking for donations.  It's really very sad to learn that some folks prey on our elderly parents and friends.  just makes me sick!  I like Sheila's idea.  But unfortunately even putting them on the DNC list - charitable organizations are EXEMPT!
Pamela

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