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You Have to be Prepared to Say No

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty 2021016812

One of the hardest words for a salespeople to say is no. No

Inexperienced agents in the business all go through the same process of growth.  Initially they chase every piece of business they can find, whether it be good business or not.  After all they have nothing better to waste their time with.

Many times a client or prospective client who will push inexperienced agents in places they do not want to go and should not go.

  • Overpricing listings
  • Holding more open houses than practical
  • Overspending on advertising
  • Making them available all types of hours
  • Showing buyers properties they wouldn't buy in 100 years.
  • Submitting ridiculously low offers that would never be taken serious

We have all seen new agents take buyers to see properties without a proper pre-qual to only find out later that they were not credit worthy.  I have received offers from agents who have not pre-qualed the clients.  You guessed it when we pushed for the pre-qual they shriveled up.

As we grow in the business our time and resources become more valuable.  We mature and learn lessons from past experiences.  The most important lesson we learn is to say no.

Many times just saying no is the best and only reasonable answer. 

One of my best and favorite clients, started by me refusing his listing.  He was stunned, how could I turn down this piece of business?  This seller was a very experienced investor who had beat up more than a few Realtors in his life.  I decided up front that I not be the next scalp on his pole.  This is the most important part of the story. You can say no without insulting people.

The end result was we sat done and talked heart to heart about how I could make him more money without jumping in quick sand.  He liked what I had to say, he adjusted his business model and we have since built a great business relationship and friendship.  I have also received quality referrals from him.

You will know when you have turned the corner in your career when you can say no and turn questionable clients into good clients and filter out bad clients.

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Randy L. Prothero, REALTOR®

Broker-in-Charge, ABR, AHWD, CRB, CRS, e-PRO, GRI, MRP, SFR

eXp Realty

Team Leader - "The Prothero Group"

Randy Prothero is well established as an expert in working with military / VA clients and first time home buyers.  His home seller's (listing) campaign is one of the most aggressive marketing programs in the area.  His luxury home listings sell faster and for more money.

Based out of Mililani, Hawaii. Randy services the island of Oahu (Honolulu County) Performs mediations and ombudsman services for the Board of Realtors.  To improve overall professionalism in his area Randy also offers classes for real estate agents. 

www.HawaiiRandy.comOahu (Honolulu County) Property Search  Hawaii Military Relocations

Comments(16)

Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
Randy, No is my favorite word. I use it all the time. Real customers/clients appreciate working with someone that is not a "yes man". My time is valuable and they know it. And because of that they want to work with me.
Dec 09, 2006 08:16 AM
Chris Griffith
Downing-Frye Realty, Bonita Springs, FL - Bonita Springs, FL
Bonita Springs Listing Specialist - Agent
I'm finding it easier and easier to say no, too.  I'd rather spend the time doing something I WANT to do than spend it getting jerked around.
Dec 09, 2006 08:38 AM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645

Bryant - Great points.  If you don't respect the value of your time why would someone else?

Chris - I agree I find with age I have less tolerance for being jerked around.

Dec 09, 2006 09:17 AM
Shari George
Coldwell Banker Tomlinson - Lewiston, ID

I've learned that word very quickly!!  It can save you lots of money.

Dec 09, 2006 09:42 AM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
Shari - You are a fast learner.  I see weak agents after several years are still afraid to say no.
Dec 09, 2006 10:11 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

YES ! ! !

I can say NO ! ! !

Thanks.

Lenn

Dec 09, 2006 10:20 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Randy, that simple two letter word is hard to learn in this business, but like you said, it comes easier with experience. But then again so do most worth while things in life.  It is a shame that we don't learn it sooner than later.

 
Dec 09, 2006 10:32 AM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645

Lenn - Thanks

George- You are right.  Its part of paying your dues.

Dec 09, 2006 11:57 AM
Dave Spencer
Spencer & Associates - Roselle, IL
I assess the customer/client in the first 1.5 minutes. Then its go or no go.
Dec 09, 2006 12:02 PM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
Dave - I am not that good yet.  1.5 minutes?  If I could do that I would probably be a better poker player too.
Dec 09, 2006 12:43 PM
Norm Fisher
Royal LePage Saskatoon Real Estate - Saskatoon, SK
I hardly started enjoying life until I learned to say no. Today, there's not much I do that I don't really want to do.
Dec 09, 2006 01:13 PM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
Norm - That is the place we all want to be.  That is exactly why I chose this profession.
Dec 09, 2006 01:41 PM
Brian Brady
Matthews Capital Markets - Tampa, FL
858-699-4590

No is another word I like to use when faced with an unrealistic borrower.

Gosh how they hate to hear it.

 

Dec 09, 2006 05:25 PM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
Brian - But I bet your day goes better after saying no.
Dec 09, 2006 05:33 PM
1SG (Ret.) David Kucic
Hawaii Military Realty, Inc. - Ewa Beach, HI
President and Owner
No is a pretty easy and simple response.  I only use that when I know that the client is worth trying to save.  If they are way out to lunch I like to throw in a little bit of flavor with phrases such as:  "You have got to be joking" or "Do I have dumb_ _ _written on my forehead?"  I keep a few business cards from "preferred agents" and I give them one of those cards to help them find a new realtor that would be a better match for them.
Dec 10, 2006 02:06 AM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
Dave - I know a few choice agents you can send the bad ones to.  They will probably get along great.
Dec 10, 2006 02:50 AM