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Taking positive steps to “learn from experience.”

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Richard Weisser Realty

Taking positive steps to “learn from experience.”We all know the old cliché that “experience is the best teacher.” Perhaps that doesn’t tell the whole story.

More appropriately it should be “bad experiences are the best teachers.” We tend too take missteps much more seriously and reserve special places in our gray matter to avoid satisfying Einstein’s definition of insanity.

But do we assign as much weight to our experiences when the results are positive? I often find myself wondering why I no longer do some things that were very productive in the past. Why did I stop? Who knows?

If we only change our behavior as the result of “hard knocks,” we are relegated to the status of being reactionary. How much better would it be to take affirmative steps that produce measurable results without being prodded by errors?

Nobody is perfect. But that shouldn’t stop us from trying!

Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Great food for thought.  I have recently been through some negative experiences and keep beating myself up to make sure I have learned from them.   Yes, there are many more positives than negatives, yet the postives are not taking up as much space in my head.    It is much more effective to take "affirmative steps that produce measurable results."  I like it. 

Have a great week and thanks for the motivational boost on Monday!

Oct 24, 2011 02:00 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

As a former teacher I have always tried to convey this concept to my students.  Sometimes what appear to be failures are the best learning experiences.

Oct 24, 2011 02:01 AM
Stephen Proski
Real Estate Kailua Kona, Hawaii - Kailua-Kona, HI
Real Estate Kailua Kona Hawaii

Richard great post, yes it is amazing that things we did that gained us much success we sometimes stop doing and try something new.  After reading your post today I've decided to go back to the things I did which made me successful in my business and that is stay in touch with my data base on a monthly basis.  Thanks

Oct 24, 2011 02:05 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Coral...

You summed up my post perfectly! Hard to chase those bad things out, while the good results are often ignored. THX.

Paula...

As lond as we don't do them over and over. Thanks so much.

Stephen...

I'm right there with you. It's time to get back to what works! Thanks for the nice comment.

Oct 24, 2011 02:15 AM
Diane Grady
Endless Summer Realty - Saint Augustine, FL

The only true failure is the failure to try. Live and learn. Bad experiences are the best teachers and living through them gives us strength! Great post!

Oct 24, 2011 02:20 AM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri - Des Peres, MO
SelectAnn.com

Richard,

Focus on the positive....  The world gives us enough negatives in one day, maybe in one hour to last a lifetime!

Ann Hayden in Wildwood, MO

Oct 24, 2011 02:22 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Bad experiences are many times the best teacher...when and if we survive!

Oct 24, 2011 02:57 AM
Ken Brandon
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage (Jacksonville, NC) - Jacksonville, NC
Camp Lejeune, Jacksonville, NC

I can't remember who said it or where I read it, but I absolutely believe that the attitude to have is "Sometimes we win...sometimes we learn." Thanks for the reminder that things that don't work out quite like we envisioned can still have a positive impact on our lives and our businesses.

Oct 24, 2011 02:57 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I love the line that bad experience is the best teacher, similar to we learn from our mistakes I guess...

Oct 24, 2011 03:13 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Hi Richard -

Bingo! Stay focused and stay on the positive side.  Change is good and is a constant in all we do.  Suggested!

Best regards from the Q

Oct 24, 2011 04:25 AM
Don MacLean
New England Real Estate Center Inc. - Easton, MA
Realtor-Homes for Sale- Easton, Mass 02356

Richard, If at first you don't succeed try, try and stick to what works and add to it.

Make sure you learn from the mistakes if not them become shame on you's

Enjoy the day

Oct 24, 2011 06:16 AM
Connie Goodrich
Keller Williams Realty - McKinney, TX
CRS ABR (McKinney Realtor)Texas

Oh, we like to be creative, get bored and want to try new things.  We often loose sight of what really is productive activity in our pursuit of trying to be different.  I have found that my business comes from just good old basics, working your referral base and my listings want me to sound in foundation of the business with a few standout marketing pieces.  Straying too far from tried and true basics will yield poor results!

Oct 24, 2011 11:35 AM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

It seems to me that most business seems to be reactive and not proactive. I keep putting my 2 cents in a gently non descriptive way... and so far no go.

Oct 24, 2011 05:44 PM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Good morning Richard,

Excellent post and points to ponder...although growth necessitates trying new technologies and ideas, success is using those that produce results.   

Oct 24, 2011 11:32 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

So true... Richard!  Our not-so-great experiences end up being the impetus for change... I suppose we are creatures of habit  ;-)

Oct 26, 2011 03:33 PM
Digital Digital
Alachua, FL
full service

Hi Richard,
Thanks for sharing this positive message.
We all stumble sometimes but we have to get back up and stay focus.
I love comment # 8 sometimes we win and sometimes we learn.
Keep up the good work!

Oct 26, 2011 03:49 PM