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Forgotten Social Graces

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Charlemagne International Properties BRE# 01147470

I bought a Get Well card for a client yesterday.

After work on Friday I stopped by a client's house for dinner and to participate in their housewarming celebration.  I sold the house to them last month and I was quite surprised to see new hardwood floors and tile throughout most of the house.  The recently retired husband wanted a fixer and it was evident he was already fixing the flaws of the charming Old Spanish house.

The party was in full swing when I arrived.  I did not immediately see the host or hostess.  When I finally connected with the wife her first words were, "My husband is in the hospital."

"What happened?" I inquired.

"He fell off the ladder and broke his leg," she replied.  "He was putting in the last screw on the new water heater installation when he fell.  He insisted the party must go on."

So as we sat enjoying the delicious feast my buyer was in surgery.  I asked his wife to give him my best wishes for a speedy recovery, but I also took the time to shop for a card filled with a 'heal soon' message.  Cards may be considered Old School in this e-age, but do social graces ever go out of style?

I believe social media is here to stay, but that doesn't necessarily mean we should let all other forms of social graces fade away, does it?

Comments(2)

Cathy Criado
Criado Realty - San Antonio, TX
Making Real Estate Profitable

You were very kind to send a card. I am not sure why so many people find "traditions" or things of the past to be a negative. For hundreds of years people have been writing cards - I mean, even in the Victorians did this very well.  I send out note cards on a regular basis and it is ALWAYS more appreciated than an email or text. I think sometimes even more than a phone call. 

Nicely done.  Be you. Be genuine.

Oct 31, 2011 03:08 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Cathy - Yes, the email would have been faster, but like you, I enjoy picking up the pen and writing a few personal words on a note or card.

Oct 31, 2011 03:14 AM