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The Power of One

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The power of one! How often have you felt you cannot make a difference? Or that your voice is not heard? I have been contemplating this since the story of child abuse and the institutional inertia present at Penn State University, which led to the firing of Joe Paterno and Graham Spanier.

An assistant coach, Mike McQueary, has been a subject of much discussion related to this scandal. He witnessed the rape of a ten year old boy by Jerry Sandusky. He told Joe Paterno about what heThe Power of One witnessed, but did not intervene in the locker room. Nor did he go to police when administrators did little in regard to what McQueary witnessed.

It is easy to see more should have been done. One wonders if McQueary had actually believed in the power of one, if history may have been different?

A landlord left on a trip and gave three persons some of his property for them to oversee. One person was given 5 shares, one person 2 shares and the last one share. The first two put their shares to work and eventually doubled the value. The third person simply buried his share, desiring to preserve it. When the landlord returned from his trip, he commended both of his stewards who doubled the value of his property and chastised the one who buried his property to simply preserve it.

How often have you failed to believe in the power of one, like the third steward? Like McQueary? Because of fear, lack of confidence, or feelings of inadequacies, you may have failed to believe in the power of one.

Do you have the audacity to believe that you can make a difference? What you do on a daily basis in caring for your children, matters! The way you represent your clients and handle your matters with the highest ethical standards, matters! Your voice in speaking out against injustice, intolerance, hatred, and unethical behavior, matters. There is the power of one.

It may seem as though your voice is not heard. Your speaking out is ignored. You may even lose relationships or clients because of the resistance to your voice. However, know, there is the power of one. Eventually, if not in your lifetime, that power of one will begin to grow until humanity resists the injustice and intolerance which is now accepted. There is the power of one.

Now is the time to persevere. Now is not the time to grow weary. Now is the time to believe in the power of one. You and I can and will make a difference in this world when we actually believe in the power of one. The power of one.

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Diane Grady
Endless Summer Realty - Saint Augustine, FL

I agree. Everyone can make a difference. As for the Penn State tragedy... McQuery is the one that I question the most. Who in their right mind could see this happening and walk away from it. What was he thinking!!! He was the only one that could have stopped it and made an immediate difference. I am with you on this question. He will have to live with his decision now. They all will.

Nov 12, 2011 02:59 PM
Kathy Toth
Ann Arbor Market Center Keller Williams - Ann Arbor, MI
Ann Arbor Real Estate Experts - Kathy Toth Team

I feel for those that were hurt from the lack of action by adults.  Just so sad.

Nov 12, 2011 03:00 PM
Eric Crane -- Your Full Service, Discount Fee Realtor®
DPR Realty LLC - Gilbert, AZ
Greater Metro Phoenix Arizona

Hi, Cal -- good post.  It is always useful to remember that one person can make a big difference, when they try.

You may have heard the story about a young lady who is out on the beach and notices the large number of starfish who have washed up from the ocean.  Bending down, she picks up a starfish and tosses it back into the water, so that it can go on surviving.  A person passing by says "with all the starfish on the beach, do you really think you're making a difference?"

She looks up and says, "It made a difference for that ONE". 

Amen.  have a great Sunday, Eric ^0-0^

 

 

 

Nov 12, 2011 03:01 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Diane, I think persons become innoculated to troubles when the power of institutions ignore our voices. I am not justifying what McQueary did, but unfortunately have found myself disillusioned and kept my voice quiet. I have failed to exhaust all that I could do because I did not believe my voice would make a difference. Thanks.

Cal

Nov 12, 2011 03:03 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Kathy, yes it is the least powerful, those who have no voice that are most deeply affected. May God's healing be with them.

Cal

Nov 12, 2011 03:05 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Eric, I have always liked that story. You have a great Sunday as well.

Cal

Nov 12, 2011 03:05 PM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Cal - one is not a team but a team is not a team with out the ones ..... one person can and does make a difference ..... it only takes one to start the ball rolling and we all know that once it is rolling many will join to keep it in motion.

Nov 12, 2011 03:06 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Ah yes, Kathy! It always must start with one.

Cal

Nov 12, 2011 03:09 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Powerful post my friend.  So sad what happened to the 10 year old boy and the actions of the adults.  I do believe in the power of one, we all can make a difference.

Nov 12, 2011 10:27 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Thanks Roger and I agree about the sadness felt for those impacted. Have a great weekend.

Cal

Nov 12, 2011 10:50 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Cal,

This story takes me back, way back to when I was a child, age 13. I was attacked, beat up by a gang, left on the ground, stars were jumping in my head, my clothes were torn, I could barely move, I thought the beating would never end. When the cloud of dust disappeared I got to my knees. I was surrounded by adults watching... just watching. They did not intervene. They did not offer to help. I found within me the Power of One - the strength to push through the crowd. Parts of my clothing remained on the fence I had to climb over to get away. I was angry that no one even tried to help. I was angry for a long, long time. My power came from within, I was betrayed by the human race...

Patricia

Nov 13, 2011 02:25 AM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Oh Patricia! Thanks for sharing your story. May it motivate everyone of us to not be silent, watch and not intervene, to do something for those who are being beaten and abused. You were betrayed! No more.

Cal

Nov 13, 2011 03:38 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Cal we can and will make a difference if we will just do what we know is rigtht.

Nov 13, 2011 10:26 AM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

So true Mike. May we each commit to remain faithful to do what is right.

Cal

Nov 13, 2011 10:37 AM
Debbie Walsh
SHAHAR Management - Middletown, NY
Hudson Valley NY Real Estate 845.283-3036

That situation is such a tragedy.  What is even worse is there will probably be more coming forward who have been hurt also.  To have let it go without reporting it is unforgivable.  The power of one in certain situations is always the best answer. 

Nov 13, 2011 11:44 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Debra, it is very tragic. It reminds me to never give in to the belief that I cannot make a difference.

Cal

Nov 13, 2011 11:46 PM