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6 Comments on Is she Black?
Yes, any racist remark is distasteful.
You'll may be very pleased to hear that racist remarks or incidents are extremely rare in Silicon Valley and throughout the San Francisco Bay area and, I think, throughout CA. I've been a realtor out here since 1976 have never really heard a racial slur while working. Caucasions are less than 50% of the population.
John,
It's a tough enough job as it is without having to deal with that crap.
Rich
Well, John Dear. Dear John. You may be looking for racism where it doesn't exist. You exhibited that tendancy when you accused me of being a racist when the AZ immigration law was passed.
Sadly, we are at a time of Political Correctness where the mere utterance of the word "black" brands a speaker as a racist.
Such a question really has no answer. It could be simple curiosity, which is now not PC for folks who go through life looking for racists in our midst.
Is there racism in real estate practices?? HA! Of course there is. It's alive and well. Deal with it.
Lenn Harley........... you are a person respected by many. I happen to think you share words of wisdom that would enhance the lives of any reader.
I may be looking for racism where it does not exist. That might be the result of my being hyper-sensitive to racism. I just don't like it. I don't like it when anyone is judged on their race, creed, color, sex, ethnicity, sexual preference, size, weight, etc.
I have spent my life in a white person's body. I have spent the majority of my life around white people. I have been in professional (?) settings where racism was the basis for profiling. I have been in social settings where racist jokes have been told. While I have lots of acquaintences, I don't have a lot of friends.
People don't like to be called out. I suppose one of the reasons I am a real estate agent is that I never fit in the corporate or retail world. I have always been the "asshole" that has to point out the implications of racist jokes or comments.
Regardless of my sensitivity, I do know when a question is asked, what the root of the question might be. The question is usually part of a conversation. The question usually is asked with a tone of voice that can not be mistaken.
The mere use of the word "black" is not the problem. Political Correctness is just a stupid label created by those that fear using the correct term (i.e. racist, sexist, mysogynist, etc) when describing a comment or action. With or without Politically Correct guidelines, you can not put lipstick on a pig.
To the point of your final sentence. "Deal with it." I am. I deal with it by writing blogs, correcting strangers, speaking up and speaking out.
I am not self righteous but I do answer to a higher authority.
A disassociated question like "is she black?" has no place in the transaction. Any more than asking "is she Catholic, is she Gay, or is she Republican?"
It has no bearing on their credit-worthiness, and I would have no problem responding "Now why would you ask such a question? You know I can't respond to that!".
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First they came for the communists, and I didn't speak out...
then they came for the union members, and I didn't speak out...
then they came for the Jews, and I still didn't speak out...
then they came for me, and there was no one left to speak out...
Paraphrased from Martin Niemöller.
This question was asked by a listing agent for a rental for which I am working with a tenant. My initial reply was does that really make a difference and she said I just wanted to let my owner know. I said I don't think you are even allowed to ask that question. Her reply was I'll take that as a yes. I was steaming a bit at this point and then she said you should know that we are working with two other offers. At the start of this conversation the agent asked what my customer was offering. I told her the asking price. I don't know if I should tell my manager now or wait and see if I can get my customer the apartment, Its in a two family house, so I don't think the owner is at any risk. But if it was their request that the listing agent filter out certain tenants than the agent should have passed on the listing. I don't know if this piece even belongs in this blog.
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