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Reblogger Dana Smithers
Education & Training with PRES Staging Resource Centre

 

Good post Philip. It happens to us as home stagers all the time as well. My first instinct is that they are going through something emotional about selling the home - because in all honesty you are about to make the most amount of money you have ever made by selling your home - and all of a sudden you are not available to do business. Hmmm much to ponder with those potential clients.

Original content by J. Philip Faranda License # 49FA1074963

This has happened before, but I have never written about it. Today at my office, right after an appointment with a nice lady who listed her home in Yonkers with me, I was alone and catching up on returning phone calls. Line 2 rang while I was on line 1. Line 2 doesn't have voice mail, so I asked line 1 to hold briefly, answered the phone quickly and the person said that he was calling about selling his daughter's home in Mahopac. I explained that I was wrapping up another call and asked if he could hold or if I could call him back in 5. 

"Nope," he answered. "I am walking out the door."

Walking out the door? You just called me! 

Now, am I crazy to think that making a call about a possible 6-figure transaction is not something one does right before they run out for an errand? Would a reasonable person budget, say oh, I don't know...10 minutes for a real estate discussion? Are we pricing perennial bulbs? Confirming show times for a film? Why do people make a phone call on something as significant as real estate when they are running out the door? 

As it turns out, he did call me back 15 minutes later and we spoke, but it isn't the first time this has happened. As a matter of fact, I have had people make offers on my listings which were accepted, and when we began the discussion of inspection and contracts, been told that they'll sort that out after they get back from an imminent 2 week trip abroad.

Huh? Why would you promulgate a real estate deal the day before you leave the country? Are we to hold a vigil until you clear customs? Maybe I am unreasonable, old fashioned, or set in my ways but some things require just a tad of planning. Real estate is not an afterthought in between Thanksgiving errands. 

Oh, our friend in Mahopac- as I said, we did catch up a little later. As it turns out, I already saw the house in 2009. They didn't do business with me. It has been on and off the market, unsold, since 2008. I do not believe that to be a coincidence. 

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Kathy Sheehan
Bay Equity, LLC 770-634-4021 - Atlanta, GA
Senior Loan Officer

Doesn't really sound like they were serious about the transaction.

Nov 25, 2011 03:31 AM
Dan Hopper
Dan Hopper - Gold Way RE - Westminster, CO
Colorado Broker / Referral Services

Does make wonder what the true motive was of that phone call.  You are right... why the HURRY?  Some take buying and selling as not a big thing, and perhaps they just need to be educated about the process.

Nov 25, 2011 03:39 AM
Cindy Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - White Pine, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

If it has been on the market for that long, you know there is something wrong somewhere.  Maybe the price!

Nov 25, 2011 03:41 AM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Hi Dana--thanks for the reblog.  Yes, we see this "hurry up and wait" syndrome all the time.  Can't wait to meet with the stager and then if there is the possibility that they might actually have to do some work to their home--well, let's delay that meeting until next year (and, of course, hope by some miracle that it sells in the interim!).

Nov 25, 2011 05:58 PM
Dana Smithers
PRES Staging Resource Centre - Vancouver, BC
PRES Staging Training, Redesign Training & Busines

Kathy- I agee, we never really know the psychological reasons why people do what they do!

 

Dan - Yes, what were they thinking????

 

Cindy- So true Cindy, we need to go deeper into understanding their 'why' they are selling.

 

Janet - my pleasure Janet. Yes hurry up and wait...as the years go by I have better radar than when I first started so I ask more qualifying questions now before I rush out.

Nov 26, 2011 04:40 AM