There was a comment on my post from "Helpful" who directed me to nightterrors.org.  While there I kept seeing a common thread in that the kids were always sweaty.  Well.....good news!  I also noticed that Chandler was quite sweaty during an episode, so I have eliminated one of his blankets and he decided not to use his pillow.  It looks like we may have found the solution!  Chandler has not had a night terror in over a week!!!  (Hopefully I didn't just jinx it!!).  I have always bundled him up since he was a baby mostly because I'm always cold.  Since removing the blanket and pillow he hasn't been cold and he's sleeping like a baby!!  THANK YOU HELPFUL!!!

 

 

 

I decided to write this post because my 8 year old son, Chandler , suffers from Night Terrors almost every night.  When he was invited to spend the night at a friends house I explained to the mother about Night Terrors and she replied that she had them as a child and never knew what they were.  My little Chandler, bless his heart, tried staying awake all night because his friends mother might not know how to take care of him.  He finally nodded off about 3am.  When he'd spend the night at my sisters he was OK because he knew his aunt would be able to help him.  I reassured him that if he ever spends the night somewhere I wouldn't let him stay if I didn't feel confident that they'd be able to care for him.  So I thought I'd provide some useful information on the subject so if your child is experiencing Night Terrors you'll know what to tell friends parents so your kids can experience sleep overs like normal kids. 

webmd.com has the following information about Night Terrors:

Night Terrors Overview  

The sleep disorder of night terrors typically occurs in children aged 3-12 years, with a peak onset in children aged 3½ years.

Sleep is divided into 2 categories: rapid eye movement (REM) and nonrapid eye movement (non-REM). Non-REM sleep is further divided into 4 stages, progressing from stages 1-4. Night terrors occur during the transition from stage 3 non-REM sleep to stage 4 non-REM sleep, beginning approximately 90 minutes after the child falls asleep.

Night terrors are distinctly different from the much more common nightmares, which occur during REM sleep. Night terrors are characterized by frequent recurrent episodes of intense crying and fear during sleep, with difficulty arousing the child. Night terrors are frightening episodes that disrupt family life.  

An estimated 1-6% of children experience night terrors. Boys and girls are equally affected. Children of all races also seem to be affected equally. The disorder usually resolves during adolescence.

Night Terrors Causes

Night terrors may be caused by the following:

  • Stressful life events
  • Fever
  • Sleep deprivation
  • Medications that affect the central nervous system (the brain)

Night Terrors Symptoms

In addition to frequent recurrent episodes of intense crying and fear during sleep, with difficulty arousing the child, children with night terrors may also experience the following:

  • Tachycardia (increased heart rate)
  • Tachypnea (increased breathing rate)
  • Sweating during episodes 

Unlike nightmares, most children do not recall a dream after a night terror episode, and they usually do not remember the episode the next morning. 

The typical night terror episode usually begins approximately 90 minutes after falling asleep. The child sits up in bed and screams, appearing awake but is confused, disoriented, and unresponsive to stimuli. Although the child seems to be awake, the child does not seem to be aware of the parents' presence and usually does not talk. The child may thrash around in bed and does not respond to comforting by the parents. 

Most episodes last 1-2 minutes, but they may last up to 30 minutes before the child relaxes and returns to normal sleep. 

If the child does awake during a night terror, only small pieces of the episode may be recalled. Usually, the child does not remember the episode upon waking in the morning.

When to Seek Medical Care

Sleep disruption is parents' most frequent concern during the first years of a child's life. Half of all children develop a disrupted sleep pattern serious enough to warrant physician assistance.

  • In children younger than 3½ years, peak frequency of night terrors is at least 1 episode per week.
  • Among older children, peak frequency of night terrors is 1-2 episodes per month.  

If your child seems to be experiencing night terrors, an evaluation by the child's pediatrician may be useful. During this evaluation, the pediatrician may also be able to exclude other possible disorders that might cause night terrors.

Chandler experiences all the symptoms mentioned.  Often times he is out of bed or trying to pull his bedding off.  He's even pounded on the walls.  We have spoken to our pediatrician however there is little research in children's sleep disorders.  For adults experiencing sleep disorders often time medication is prescribed to help them sleep.  While I hate seeing Chandler so fearful, I also hate the idea of medicating him.  So we will just ride them out and hopefully they'll end when he's 12.

We have found eating dinner no later then 5:30-6pm helps as well as strictly limiting his sugar intake during the day.  We discovered when he was three or four that fruit snacks seemed to really increase the frequency even if he'd eaten them very early in the day.  We also discovered last year that regular chiropractic adjustments significantly decreased the severity of his episodes.

So if your kids are experiencing Night Terrors be patient and loving when they occur.  And keep in mind they most often will pass.

Sandy Noll
Realtor, eAgent
Keller Williams Realty
425-890-0878
sandy@sandynoll.com
http://www.letsachieveyourgoals.com/
Woodinville, Kirkland, Bothell

For another useful link click here to go to nightterrors.org

 

Sandy Noll
Realtor
Keller Williams Realty Kirkland
425-890-0878
sandy@sandynoll.com
www.letsachieveyourgoals.com
Your Kirkland, Woodinville, Bothell Home Expert

 

 


 

26 Comments on UPDATED.........NIGHT TERRORS

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04
2007
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Sandy, I hope Chandler outgrows these terrifying experiences soon.  I'm sure they're stressful to you as well.  Thanks for providing this information for other parents.
10:50pm • #1

Our five year old has experienced what we term night terrors for several years.

She starts off crying and thrashing around her bed and although her eyes are open, we know she doesn't see us or know what is going on.  She definately never remembers it the next morning.  They do last usually 10 minutes or so.  She shares a bedroom with her older sister, so most of the time we bring her out of bed and rock with her in the living room. 

But, we did start putting her on the potty, and that actually seems to help some times.  So we started wondering if she wasn't waking herself up because she has to use the restroom. 

Her doctor never seemed too concerned and we have noticed them declining.  But, we do let the sitters know how to handle if it comes on. 

Thanks for the info, nice to hear from other parents with experience!!!  We'll be riding them out as well!

10:54pm • #2
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Brian they were a little stressful in the beginning, now it's like part of our nightly routine.  Thanks for commenting.

Jennifer a few times Chandler has had to go to the bathroom as well.  10 minutes is a long time, Chandler is more the 1-3 minute duration.  My sister said she had heard that you should put their feet on a cold surface to wake them quickly but that doesn't seem to work because Chandler is a big kid and getting him to the bathroom floor isn't always easy!  I'm glad to hear your riding them out.  I think so often parents turn to meds for convenience.  Feel free to email/phone me to compare stories.

11:05pm • #3
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Hi Sandy - I certainly relate to this terrifying experience. My sons are grown now, but when they were preschoolers, they simulatineiously were having these bouts of terror that seemed hallucinogenic. They stared, screamed, ranted, got out of bed, were afraid to go to sleep.

The doctor had no answers whatever, so I set about trying to find out what I could. This was 30 years ago now, but I found a book written by a doctor who suggested a variety of things among which was food colorings.

In those days I had no idea of the danger of food additives. My kids had jello and cool-aid everyday! I removed all food coloring from their diet. Niether of my sons ever again had the terror eposides.

It was recently announced that reasearch shows food colorings affect sleep abd anxiety in children. I just laughed - they're only 30 years late! 

11:06pm • #4
My youngest son had night terror for a little bit when he was about 5 yrs old. I had no clue what was going on at first until we ended up in ER one night because he couldn't catch his breath and was flipping out and the doc told us it was night terrors. They actually went away shortly after that. They are pretty scary.
11:12pm • #5
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Deborah it's funny you mentioned food coloring because that was one of the first things my mother-in-law said.  She said she was allergic to red food coloring and maybe Chandler was too.  That was about the time we cut out the fruit snacks!  Two at a time WOW, you had your hands full.  At least now when your kids have kids you'll have some answers for them.  Even now like I said in the post, doctors haven't done much in the way of sleep disorder research for children so they don't really have answers.  We just started paying attention and found the fruit snacks, eating late, lots of sugar all are triggers.  Thanks for sharing your experience!
11:13pm • #6
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Sherry OMG the ER!  We have not had to go there, but it is very scary in the beginning when you don't know what's going on.  Thanks for sharing!
11:14pm • #7
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Best wishes for your family, Sandy and in dealing with everything. I know how hard it was feeling so helpless to do anything for my sons. When the whole thing was finally resolved it was such a relief.

Blessings 

11:46pm • #8
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Not having any children, I can't imagine what you as parents go through when your child has night terrors.  It must be very frightening to see your child in such a state!  My heart goes out to you and the kids!

11:50pm • #9
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05
2007
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Sandy - I have had friends whose kids have experienced night terrors, and I know that they are no fun.  We have certainly dealt with our share of medical issues with our children, but not these (thankfully).  I pray that he will outgrow these soon, as I am sure it is draining.
12:01am • #10
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Deborah thank you very much.  That's very kind of you.  I'm looking forward to the nights when he sleeps straight through.......like tonight!

Nancy thank you.  It was a little scary in the beginning.  It's not so bad now since we've been dealing with it for so long.  There are nights when we even get a little chuckle because it wasn't so terrifying, just very disoriented and he was saying funny things!

Jason the good thing is that Chandler goes to bed a lot earlier then I do so it usually just means a trip or two upstairs to comfort him.  But I will be glad, for his sake, when they finally end.  I feel bad for him not getting a good nights sleep.  Thanks for the prayers, maybe they'll end sooner rather then later.  Thanks for reading and your continued support.  It means a lot to me.

12:36am • #11
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I am glad to hear that, Sandy.  It seemed awful to imagine getting up in the middle of the night every night. 
12:37am • #12
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Jason that would have been awful.  The Night Terrors usually occur within an hour of falling asleep.  He has one or two episodes about a half hour apart then it's over.  But I don't think he sleeps very sound afterwards because even a door creaking or a flushing toilet can set him off again.  But as long as all is quiet he makes it through the night.  In some ways it's worse then having a baby in the house!  If he is able to get to sound sleep, like tonight, I can do the laundry, open doors, put things away in his room and he doesn't even stir.  It's very strange.

12:53am • #13
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Sandy - It sounds manageable, but bothersome and tough for Chandler.  I need to write sometime about the medical stuff we went through with Brandon when he was a baby (three different surgeries - all correctable things, thankfully). 
12:57am • #14
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Jason you should.  I didn't write this post for sympathy (I'm sure you know that) but rather to educate people out there about a nuisance called Night Terrors.  I am so thankful that this is all I've had to deal with.  I often wonder if the fact that Chandler had 16 ear infections in 19 months (his first 19 months) before he got tubes, which then led to sinus issues so his adenoids were removed, which led to chronic strep throat so his tonsils were removed; I wonder if all of this didn't somehow prevent him from developing good sleep patterns from the git go.  After I started seeing the chiropractor last year, I took Chandler in (my sister-in-law Audra takes her kids days after they are born) and discovered his Atlas (very top vertebrae near the base of the skull) was something like 333% off.  I've become VERY educated in chiropractic treatment and only wish I had followed Audra's lead and maybe Chandler wouldn't have suffered through all he has.  So.....I say if you have something to share that could help another family deal with medical issues and their kids, put it out there.  You've got nothing to lose and who knows who'll read about it.
1:09am • #15
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Sandy - I know that you wrote this to be helpful, and I hope that someone is able to use the information here to help with their own child.  My son also had many ear infections, and the tubes didn't help him at all.  I think his medical issues ended up causing some anxiety problems later.  I .will give some thought to writing a blog about our experiences.  I like the way you did this one, with the extra info from WebMD.
1:14am • #16
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Thanks Jasonfeel free to use the same format.  webmd.com is a very user friendly site.  I always like to back up my claims (if I can) with documented information.  I hope Brandon is OK.  He's got you for a dad and from the posts I've read he's one lucky kid!

1:22am • #17
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Sandy - Thanks for that.  Maybe we can talk again sometime soon. 
1:25am • #18
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Sandy, Poor Chandler, and you too!  I know it is terrible to see your kids hurt in any way.  Just makes you feel so helpless!  I hope he outgrows it soon.
8:52am • #20
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Roberta it is tough sometimes.  You just want your kids to have an easy time at things and when he can't even get a good nights sleep it does get tough.  Thanks for commenting.
4:47pm • #21
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Thank you for sharing Sandy. I was very lucky neither of my children really went through that, but now I have the knowledge to help others if they do.  Thank you.

7:23pm • #22
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06
2007
You can also check the message board at www.nightterrors.org. In the kids section, parents have been brainstorming and have come up with some interesting ways to reduce night terrors. There is also a pagecalled "Darlene's cure" that has worked very well.
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7:17pm • #23
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11
2007
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Sandy- Keep your son off any meds. I am so proud of you for not putting him on meds. Stay tuned, I am doing a post on meds with kids and some of the things we need to be aware of and watch out for. Make sure he eats nothing with artificial or natural colors. Natural is a lie. Colors and additives are the major cause for all childhood illnesses and diagnosis of disorders. Get as much organic foods as you can and try to keep away from dairy products. I am a natural health care advocate and have been coaching and training in this area. Katerina
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Sandy-I hope your little guy gets through this soon. I'm so sorry he is going through that.  My little girl is now 4 and she had them quite frequently until about 8 months ago. The scary thing too is that when they are having them, they are just completely delirious. My little girl didn't recognize us and insisted something was there that really wasn't.  This sounds so odd, but while she was having the night terrors we would take her into the restroom per the docs suggestion.  Once she went potty, she would calm down and the night terror was over.  We now make sure she doesn't have much to drink a couple of hours before bed.  Since then, she never has them. 
5:04pm • #25
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Amy that was the main reason for my post to put information out there to help others.  I'm glad you didn't experience Night Terrors with your kids.  Thanks for commenting.

Helpful thank you for the additional website.  I'll check it out.  I'm going to add the link to my blog for others too.  Thanks!! 

Katerina I will never put him on meds for this problem and I love that our pediatrician isn't a pill pusher either.  We do try to buy organic foods and he loves fresh fruit.  My mother in law is allergic to red food dye and she suggested that perhaps Chandler is too.  Thanks for your support.  It's really appreciated.

Julie those are the same things Chandler goes through and once dinner is over other then a little drink with teeth brushing we too avoid lots of liquids before bed.  Unfortunately it hasn't lessened the occurrences for us, but we are managing.  Thanks for sharing your experience.

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