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Dogs, Chickens & Monkeys... Oh My!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

Dogs, Chickens & Monkeys... Oh My!Dogs, Chickens & Monkeys... Oh My!  I've seen it all.  But, when I saw this sign at the entry to one of my favorite restaurants in Southern Oregon, I had to laugh.  It made me think of several buyers I've showed property to, who thought it best to bring along the family pet.  Ode' to joy!

Don't get me wrong, I'm a pet friendly Realtor.  In my younger days, our family had the gamut of pets... from dogs, wolf, horses, chickens, rats, turtles, fish and birds... you name it.  Bringing them along for the ride, when we looked at prospective homes to buy, was never a thought that entered my mind.  However, I've worked with plenty of clients who did just that.  And, on some occasions, there were dog bites, cat fights and a few contentious snares with words flinging in the air. 

What's the proper etiquette for bringing along the family pet on a home-buying tour?  I'd love to hear your thoughts.  My feeling is this... always ask your Realtor BEFORE you arrive at a prospective home with your pet in tow.  Why?  Because it's quite possible that the Seller, of your future home, might not be pleased with your decision.  They may have pets of their own who become territorial at the sight, sound or smell of your pet.  And, the last thing you want to do is offend the owner of your future home.

Not all Humans and Pets are created equal.  Some humans (Realtors included) have pet allergies.  Some pets have human allergies... nervous dispositions that might not be conducive to long car rides with strangers.  Let's face it, those of us (pets included) who would otherwise have a lovely/adorable disposition, may get a little cranky when placed in a compromising position.   

Being courteous, when it comes to commingling Humans & Pets, is key to having a pleasant home viewing experience.  Perhaps you might ask to bring along the family pet AFTER you make arrangements with your Realtor and owner of a prospective home.  I've found that many clients on both sides of the aisle are very amenable to being courteous when asked.  And doing so, eliminates the element of surprise when it comes to Dogs, Chickens & Monkeys... Oh My! 

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Mel Peterson

 Melinda Peterson, ABR, CRS

 Oregon Principal Broker

 Real Estate Cafe LLC

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Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Mel, I think the proper etiquette for bringing along the family pet is to leave the pet at home. I had to laugh, I'll bet at one time someone brought in a chicken and a monkey into the restaurant.

Nov 29, 2011 01:08 AM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home is where the hearth is.

Sorry... the pet belongs at home, not on a house-hunting tour.  What if the seller's family is highly allergic to whatever part of the menagerie that you're bringing through the house?

Nov 29, 2011 01:17 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Mel - I can't imagine bringing my dog to a home tour, and you KNOW how much I love my dog. It's a ridulous and rude proposition to assume that it's okay to bring a pet into another person's home.  Naturally, the rest of the animals are a big no-no too.

Nov 29, 2011 01:33 AM
Joan Congilose
New Jersey Properties - Manalapan, NJ
Helping Sellers & Buyers

I have never had buyers bring pets to see homes but I have had a few bring children that acted like animals in a sellers home. I remember one couple brought their pre-teen aged son who opened the kitchen cabinet and broke a glass on the counter & then while we were viewing the bedrooms, opened a bedroom closet and starting touching things. That was the 1st and the last time I allowed him to come with us to see homes.  

Nov 29, 2011 02:15 AM
Tyler Rackley
The 20/20 Team - Richmond, VA
www.gorichmondrealestate.com

 

It would never cross my mind to bring my pet with me anywhere unless it was a pet outing, like the park, or beach etc. but never on a showing. For the very reasons you've listed, allergies, unfriendly pets already at the house etc. I do think there are some people who have needs and use a pet as a service animal. I would think that the person would notify you beforehand to make sure it was alright. People use small animals as security blankets or fashion statements and it really is not a fade that I am partial too. I am and animal lover and always had animals growing up. But animals belong in a safe environment that they can enjoy. Not globetrotting all over the state with you.

 

Nov 29, 2011 02:17 AM
Steve Mattison
Canyon de Chelly National Mo, AZ
Vietnam Veteran

I had a buyer bring her monkey and children so they rode in their own car and followed me, and we left the monkey in the car when the sellers were home:)  You never know what to expect in this business.

Nov 29, 2011 02:28 AM
Adam Todd
LeadTrader PRO - Miami Beach, FL

I object to the blatant anti-monkey sentiment in this post......

Nov 29, 2011 02:48 AM
Mary Stewart
HomeTrust Real Estate, LLC, Homes for Everyone - Wilsonville, OR
Wilsonville and Surrounding Portland Metro Areas

Mel I have not had this happen to me however I would not want a pet to come along, nor would I want it in my car. If absolutely necessary, then I agree with Steve #44, they can drive their own car and leave the pet in the car when viewing.  I am a huge animal lover but also believe animals belong in their own environment where they are safe and secure especially if you are out for many hours.  Good conversation.

Nov 29, 2011 03:08 AM
S. Leanne Paynter ☼ Broward County, FL
United Realty Group, Inc. - Davie, FL
Davie, Plantation, Cooper City & Weston Specialist

I've certainly had many "interesting" experiences in my real estate career but having a buyer bring their pet along (or even ask to) is not one of them... thankfully!

Nov 29, 2011 03:12 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Mel,

I think Brian made a good point with the shoulder bag chihuaha.  However, I would think that proper etiquette would be to leave pets at home, or in their car.  Seeing eye dogs would be of course allowed.  I love how this post generated so many comments.  You may want to report the spam to AR, they are very good about tracing the origin and stopping further spamming on your blog.  Just "report a concern", and they will handle it.  All the best, A

Nov 29, 2011 03:24 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Mel, I've had buyers bring their dogs with them, and they don't bring them into the house.  Doggy gets to check the back yard while his humans are inside.

Nov 29, 2011 03:58 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

So, this place looks like it will allow me to bring my pig... Will you? I agree that bringing your pet along is not a great idea. I'm not letting you bring your dog in someone else's house and if it is hot out, leaving it in the car is mean and can be deadly!

 

Nov 29, 2011 04:17 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

It happens all the time here Maureen ;)

There are some exceptions to that rule Eric ;)

The Christiansen Team ~ It's definitely not a joke, but I lol at your comment of bringing the parents along ;)

Judi ~ I'm starting to believe this is a west coast thing!

That's a nice suggestion Richard!

That's usually what I suggest Jan, although it doesn't work real well in the summer time in 90+ temps in the car ;(

Gabe ~ I'm almost relieved to hear it happens to you too... I was beginning to think we're a little crazy on the west coast ;)

Agreed Michael... and yes, I know the restaurant owners very well... and it's happened more than once!

I happen to be one of those peeps that's allergic to the menagerie Alan ;)

I totally know you're a dog lover Debb... but I also know you're kind, sensitive and caring... and you wouldn't think of doing such a thing.  Curious to know if it happen much up in your neck of the woods?

Nov 29, 2011 04:23 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Joan ~ I've had a few kid/animal experiences too... In some cases, a leash should've been provided at the door!

I totally agree Tyler... 'pet outing, like the park, or beach etc. but never on a showing!'

Ahhh Steve... you're the first to admit a monkey sighting!  Thanks for sharing!

Love it Adam!  Cute pic... now, I must check out your site!

Hi ya Mary!  I wondered if you've had any experience with this in our northern end of the state.

Lucky you Leanne!  We encounter it all the time here in Southern Oregon!

I too, agree with Brian... Alexandra!  I just like to tease him... sorta tongue in cheek!  I could bite my tongue for a 5 million dollar sale... but I would still be courteous and make a request of all parties concerned. 

Oh Patricia... I'm almost relieved to hear that... especially in your high-end neck of the woods.

Speaking of pigs Todd... my first showing experience in Southern Oregon, included a view of a 900 pound pig giving birth to little piglets in a bedroom!  I couldn't believe it!

Nov 29, 2011 04:33 AM
Kristin Moran
Owner - RE/MAX Access - KristinMoran@Remax.net - San Antonio, TX
San Antonio,TX - Real Estate - 210-313-7397

NO way, Jose in my car! I can honestly say no one has even attempted to either!

Nov 29, 2011 07:24 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life


Hope it is a good image.  I just let it run around a little. Smiling

Nov 29, 2011 09:20 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

You're pretty fortunate Kristin... they do it all the time here!

Devil girl Sharon!  Smiling ;)

Doesn't surprise me Richard... you have that look... don't you dare ask to bring your pets in MY CAR!  JK... silly!

Nov 30, 2011 04:26 AM
Anonymous
Brian Park, Brokerr

From my stay in Grants Pass, the list should be much longer. I did have a couple buying in a expensive area, paying cash, but the house choice was up to their two little precious darlings who didn't apparently like anything they visited. So I found a home I thought the humans would really like, and then prior to the showing I visited the house and salted it with doggy treats and the two little house choosers gave the house their OK. Passed the dog negotiating 101 course with flying colors.

Nov 30, 2011 06:11 AM
#56
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Well Brian... that surely generated a smile and a laugh from this chicky!  Very clever!  I bet you could make a killing teaching the 'Dog Negotiating 101 Course' to Realtors around the country ;)  Thanks for stopping by!

Nov 30, 2011 07:24 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

That is what the girlfriend thought too. I thought she would have a heart attack. Just a little harmless fun with NO animals injured and YES the girlfriend survived too but the best blessing is he didn't MARRY her. Smiling

Nov 30, 2011 10:10 AM