When Jason Crouch sent me an email from the "Family Ties" group, inviting me to the “Inspired By Song” group, and their contest, I got very excited about it, but didn't realize the affect my own post would actually have on me. LOL! Here's one I bet you didn't see coming, thought I'd change it up a bit from my usual style of post that many of you are getting used to. (or should I say sick of) LOL! When you think of the American Dream, what goes through your mind? The American Dream for me, may be different than for you, but it is still something we all relate to in our own unique and special way.
Having grown up in a musical family for the better part of my years, music has played a more than significant role in my life. While I was considering what to submit in this post, The “American Dream” is what kept going through my mind. It is such a common and widely used term. What does it really mean? I guess that depends on who you ask. Can the quest for the American Dream have alternate consequences? On the surface, I’d have to say no way, but after I saw this first video, it inspired me so much, I had to create the second video to go with it called, “I Wanna Be Just Like You.” The words in these songs are so powerful; they can gladly replace any text that I would have written in their place.
I am dedicating this post to YOU and to anyone that will take the time to watch these. I also dedicate this to my family and most of all, my kids. This changed my perspective on things in relation to working so hard for the American Dream. It was like these songs and videos were written just for me, but I know they are for you too. :-)
I can't watch these without them emotionally clobbering me upside the head, EVERY SINGLE TIME! Maybe it’s because I am just like you, a hard working person, who is doing my very best to provide for my family. But maybe I was missing something very important in the whole process. In writing this post, I realized, just how much it has changed my entire outlook and focus on the "American Dream" now!
Even though I can really relate to this, it may not have the same impact on you, but I hope it touches you, even if in some small way. Thanks Jason for inviting me, and for helping me realize through your contest, what is truly important in the pursuit of the “American Dream!” This was a great “Lesson In life” for me. :-))
"American Dream" was written and performed by: Casting Crowns.
“The American Dream”
"I Wanna Be Just Like You" was written by Dan Dean and Joy Becker It is performed by Phillips , Craig and Dean The Video was produced at home with photos by Brad Andersohn
“I Wanna Be Just Like You”
Am I "Inspired by Song?" Absolutely and Positively YES!
My son always tells me, "When I grow up Daddy, I wanna be just like you!" We are all touched in so many different ways by music, and to each of us, it's a personal and sometimes very emotional connection. These songs have had a huge impact on me and my life, I hope you'll enjoy them too.
Music and Life will be forever entwined, I am so grateful for what it does in, to, and for our lives!
Brad, What a wonderful and touching video of your son. I can tell you are very proud of your son and you are a great father. The song was also very touching. Thanks for sharing.
Brad - I can't imagine anyone being tired of your talented and informative blog/posts! I know I'm not!! What a great entry for the "Inspired by Song" contest. I enjoyed each song. I have to admit, I leaked!! I always do. I am also a fanatic for pictures as you can see by my posts. You did an OUTSTANDING job on your video with your son. Wonderful dedication to your son and family. As parents we are very blessed to be selected to be parents of God's children. Wonderful post as always! Good luck! Greetings from Arizona.
Brad, I am blown away !! The video you created is amazing and the music you put it to is awesome. Not only that but your music blog !! The pictures of you are great, I'm going to listen to everything. Music is so important in our lives, my family is so into music....... all the way from both grandfathers to son's and to now to my sons. Thanks so much for sharing, I hope people click on your musical family link!!
Brad, This is a great post! Thanks for sharing with us. How could we be sick of your posts? They are too remindful and educational for us to be sick of them. By the way, I haven't called you yet because I moved to page 4 (you know what I'm talking about!). Don't know when, why, or how...but it happened. I still am planning to call you sometime though just to touch base. Take care, my friend.
Wow- I just sat and cried for the last 15 minutes. What a wonderful video. I feel I know you and your family a lot better. I also have 3 boys around the same ages as yours and most of the time its great!
Irina - thank you for saying that, It's my goal in life to be the best role model I can for my kids. I know I fall short on many occasions, but there is no manual, and it's just not that easy sometimes. These videos really had an affect on me and some of my friends, it's always good to be checked and accountable for all we do in our purpose driven lives!
BTW - I love it when you Facebook "poke" me all the time! LOL! :-)
Brad - Thanks for your entry for our contest (and for the mention). I will be commenting on all of the entries after the contest is finished and the winners have been announced. Have a great day!
Roberta - I'm glad you enjoyed these. When I watch them, it reminds me what's really most important today and everyday. I am a very proud Father, but I think we can always do better. It takes love, kindness, peace and patience everyday to set the best examples for those around us. That's not as easy to do in today's environments. Still, we must give it our all every second of the day. Thanks for your wonderful comment! :-)
Paul - I'm honored to be apart of your group and the contest. If this post helps a single person in their pursuit of the American Dream, then we are ALL already winners! :-) Looking forward to your comments and the results all this may have. :-)
Jackie - thanks, I do get some comments on my other posts that say"Enough Already" but I know they are in jest. Glad this was timely for you (not sure in what way, and would love to know), I hope you'll come back after you bookmark it and expand on that a little. Have a great day building and pursuing your "American Dream!"
Brad, that was awesome. Nice job. God certainly has given you a gift in your kids and we all should never take that for granted. How can they grow up really knowing about God and what he wants for us if we are never around to teach them that. Thanks for your post.
Brad - this is a wonderful reminder that we need to keep our priorities straight. Too often we let outside thoughts and 'gotta haves' intrude and derail our intentions.
Brad. I clicked on your name to see what blog you might have done most recently as I knew I wouldnt' be disappointed. Wow! All I can say is thank you. Your first song made a huge impact on me personally. Going forward, I'll be thinking about that castle... Secondly, I also leaked during the second video. Your son is adorable and I just loved the song.
WOW Brad... you can give up your full time job for singing... Your song really brought tears to my eyes... my daughter was looking at your post too and she loved it...
you should think about going on American Idol.... WOW.. I was so blessed my the words of your song..... Little eyes and ears are watching us..... I want to be just like God too.. so that My girls can be just like me...... Keep up the good post... one day I'll put something together on"You tube" too.. but I know it won't be as great like yours.... but It's worth a try...... Keep up the good work......
p.s. you family is beautiful ....... Great Job!!!!!
Chris and Maria - he's one of three of my very best friends in the world!!! Thanks for checking out my video, hope you got as much out of it as I did! :-)
That video of you and your son is beautiful. Thank you for sharing this. Loved the music as well. You are so talented, Brad.
Janet - I'm sure glad you enjoyed this. It was one of those posts I was hesitant with, but finally decided if the message was good for me, maybe it would be good for someone else who needed to hear or see it! The American Dream is such a loosely used term in our industry, I hope I didn't insult anyone with this message! :-)
Brad - I can't imagine anyone being tired of your talented and informative blog/posts! I know I'm not!! What a great entry for the "Inspired by Song" contest. I enjoyed each song. I have to admit, I leaked!! I always do. I am also a fanatic for pictures as you can see by my posts. You did an OUTSTANDING job on your video with your son. Wonderful dedication to your son and family. As parents we are very blessed to be selected to be parents of God's children. Wonderful post as always! Good luck! Greetings from Arizona.
Candace - my friend, coming from you, that really means a lot to me. I know how you are with and about photos, so I am happy you approved! It's more than a blessing to have to right and honor to raise kids, but they are not really ours, they are his, and we are responsible! This is one of the greatest tests in life and it doesn't come with a workbook or manual. There's really only one way to do it right!! It's not our way either. Sorry you leaked (that was cute), but that means it did touch you in some small way, and that was all I wanted. Contest or no contest, I have to thank Jason again for bringing this out of me. It's all his fault!! LOL! :-)
Brad, I am blown away !! The video you created is amazing and the music you put it to is awesome. Not only that but your music blog !! The pictures of you are great, I'm going to listen to everything. Music is so important in our lives, my family is so into music....... all the way from both grandfathers to son's and to now to my sons. Thanks so much for sharing, I hope people click on your musical family link!!
Missy - thank you soooo much! I wasn't sure how this would go over...being it wasn't an instructional post showing how to put a youtube video together! hahaha! :-0 I hope you'll enjoy some of the other stuff on my music website. There was the before songs and then the after songs...you'll see (hear) what I mean. Thanks again for your wonderful comment, and good luck to you and your "Mercy Me" post! I absolutely LOVED it!
Brad, This is a great post! Thanks for sharing with us. How could we be sick of your posts? They are too remindful and educational for us to be sick of them. By the way, I haven't called you yet because I moved to page 4 (you know what I'm talking about!). Don't know when, why, or how...but it happened. I still am planning to call you sometime though just to touch base. Take care, my friend.
David - Page 4???? What the ....?!?! You better call me soon so we can rant and rave and figure out what the heck is going on. You got my number buddy, it's like BeetleJuice, just say it 3 times and I'll appear! LOL!! Seriously though, I look forward to hearing from you sometime soon!! :-)
Wow- I just sat and cried for the last 15 minutes. What a wonderful video. I feel I know you and your family a lot better. I also have 3 boys around the same ages as yours and most of the time its great!
Judy - if you have three boys just like me, well now I know why you spent 15 minutes crying! I don't need the video for them to make me do that! LOL! Just kidding, my kids are great, and sometimes I feel I don't deserve them. Since I posted this, I have not watched either video again.
When I said in the post that they clobber me upside the head EVERYTIME, I really meant it! My computer keyboard isn't waterproof, and I just can't see the letters on it anymore after I watch these. Still, I have to share and be honest, I think every man on the planet who has kids goes through some kind of emotional moment if they watch these.
Even my wife stood over my shoulder as I was proofing and editing this post and balled her eyes out. Then my 11 year old Brandon came into the room, saw what I was doing on youtube, hugged me from behind, and started crying as he said "I love you Daddy".....ok.....darn.....I'll be right back............ (5 minutes later) I'm ok now, just got a little ya know!! Thanks Judy, love those boys with all you got! They'll do what you do, not what you say! :-)
Hi Brad, We are models for our kids, we must make the decision if we will be a good one or a bad one. Powerful and inspiring video. Thank you.
Cynthia - I think sometimes we are good, and sometimes we are bad, never intentionally bad, but we grew up just like someone else too! No one is perfect, but seeking perfection in parenting is ok to do. If we were all perfect and great parents and spouses, these videos would mean nothing and have no emotional effect on anyone. There is nothing to be ashamed of when we make mistakes, it's not recognizing them and trying to correct them that's the big mistake! I believe in the "American Dream" and I want my kids to wanna be like me, but only the good parts of me which I thank God exist!! :-)
Brad, are you trying to make me feel guilty for driving a BMW? I want you to know it is because of the gas mileage.
Anyway, It is a very good post, but don't stop doing what you usually do. I need the help.
Thanks again for everything.
Bill - Lose the BEAMER!! Just kidding, you'll need it to drive over here so we can go do lunch!! :-) Since you get great gas mileage an all....hahaha! I'll be back to posting useful stuff for you, hope that you'll find parts of this post useful too! Thanks my friend! Be well and Be Blessed!
Brad, Oh my gosh, I am just blown away by your son's dazzling eyes and the beautiful father-son song you have dedicated to him.
Mana - thank you, he's a beautiful boy and one of my best friends! My life is lived for my wife and kids, but I have found myself at times doing the very things in the first video that contradict that statement! Now, I work all day, and try to spend more time with them at night! I've had to cut back on blogging even though I wait till they are asleep, it still takes a toll on me. Balance, Balance, Balance! Thanks!! :-)
Jason - thanks again for the invite, and I know you can't comment till after your contest, but I hope this post was worthy of being here and in your group. I could have done 100 different things, but this one just kept coming back and sticking in my mind. It took me 2 hours to create the youtube video and it has since passed any of my other youtube type videos ever created. On one of the sites, it has had over 500 views in less than 2 days, and has already got me a 4 star rating! WooHoo as "Sally" would say! Thanks again my friend! :-)
Beautiful stuff Brad... what a fabulous slide show you put together. I did get a little misty watching that, you can just see the closeness you have with your family and its a wonderful thing to see these days. On the technology end, how do you put the slideshow together? You make me realize that for all the hundreds (maybe thousands) of photos of my kids, I really should do something with them more than just store them . . .
Brad - this is a wonderful reminder that we need to keep our priorities straight. Too often we let outside thoughts and 'gotta haves' intrude and derail our intentions.
This post should come with a "Kleenex Alert"
Thanks for sharing.
Carol - thank you. It is a great reminder, and after I comment back to folks here, I'll probably watch them again tonight. Just can't do it till I'm all done. It affects my vision and workflow too much if you know what I mean! LOL (Big Smile)
I am so frustrated, my old home computer is bugging on me and I can't play anything :( After reading all the great comments, I will be anxious to pull it up at work tomorrow where I can listen too!
Brad, that was awesome. Nice job. God certainly has given you a gift in your kids and we all should never take that for granted. How can they grow up really knowing about God and what he wants for us if we are never around to teach them that. Thanks for your post.
Rob - I'm really glad you enjoyed this. I do take things for granted sometimes and it's nice to be humbled, no matter how much it hurts. We have to come down out of the clouds, or get our heads out of the sand and see what's really the most important things in life. (referring to me, not you) These videos really hit home for me. Every word is convicting to me.
One time, I had to perform this song on stage, at a church for an illustrated sermon, and my kids walked out one by one to sit on the stage at my feet, and look up at me as I played "I Wanna Be Just Like You" on an acoustic guitar. Talk about a "Life Changing" experience, MAN, that was a turning point for me. I totally lost it!! I will never forget that day the rest of my life!!
Brad. I clicked on your name to see what blog you might have done most recently as I knew I wouldnt' be disappointed. Wow! All I can say is thank you. Your first song made a huge impact on me personally. Going forward, I'll be thinking about that castle... Secondly, I also leaked during the second video. Your son is adorable and I just loved the song.
Natalie - your comment makes me feel normal and human again. I was so worried I'd be all alone in this one, but now I know that others are getting a great message here as well! Thank you so very much for sharing your personal feelings here, and I am glad that you will build your shack on a rock instead of a castle in the sand!!!
WOW Brad... you can give up your full time job for singing... Your song really brought tears to my eyes... my daughter was looking at your post too and she loved it...
you should think about going on American Idol.... WOW.. I was so blessed my the words of your song..... Little eyes and ears are watching us..... I want to be just like God too.. so that My girls can be just like me...... Keep up the good post... one day I'll put something together on"You tube" too.. but I know it won't be as great like yours.... but It's worth a try...... Keep up the good work......
p.s. you family is beautiful ....... Great Job!!!!!
Donna - thanks! Wanna be my manager?? LOL! I want to see your youtube video! Do NOT be held back by anything or anyone. If you have a message to get out there or just something to say, you need to JUST DO IT! I would be happy to help you if you need. It's not that hard and there are plenty of FREE tools to help you do it! I'll be waiting for your response or for your post!
If little eyes are watching, and little ears are listening, then you better do your youtube video, so you can show and tell them how to chase and do the things they really want to do....right? :-)
Brad...It's good to see Brad again! Not that I don't like the Blogs you've been doing...but have missed YOU
If those wonderful pictures are any indication....you are raising one very happy little boy! Good job Dad...and he looks just like you!
Joan - it's so good to see you too!!! I really mean that!! He's a great boy, and he wants to be just like me, and that's what scares the crap out of me! I DON'T WANT HIM BLOGGING ALL NIGHT LONG!!! LOL! Just Kidding. He likes to do all the things I do, Music, Photography, The Arts, Camping, Fishing, he's even closing escrows!! Ok, not the last part, but I want to be the best example I can be while his eyes are still so innocent and his spirit is still so FREE! I Just want to do it all right and have no regrets!! Thanks Joan, I'll lighten up on the tecky stuff and see if Brad can just come out and play once in a while. Thanks for telling me that, you are a dear and honest friend! :-)))))
Brad - I have to blame it on Jason for sure! This contest again has me reflecting and of course sharing my gratitude to my children for the opportunity to be their Mom. A calling indeed important that God has entrusted me with. It is our responsibility to make sure they return with honor! Check out my latest contest entry with a new slide show that I'm thinking of having it be my next tutorial, that and the scroll text!! Those are both simple fun things!
Beautiful stuff Brad... what a fabulous slide show you put together. I did get a little misty watching that, you can just see the closeness you have with your family and its a wonderful thing to see these days. On the technology end, how do you put the slideshow together? You make me realize that for all the hundreds (maybe thousands) of photos of my kids, I really should do something with them more than just store them . . .
Catherine - thanks for your sweet comment! I got ya covered!!! When we meet, we are going to get you dialed in with the photo/video stuff and you are going to be able to produce even better shows than mine. You need to use those photos of the kids and create some digital media to share with other family and friends. I will also show you how to use these for marketing etc.... details to follow next week.....unless you just can't wait! You can always call me if that's the case! (Big Smile) ;-)
Beth - sorry about your computer buggin out on you tonight. I hope the one at work allows you to watch these videos. Even more, I hope you'll enjoy them. Let me know if you get it working or not! :-)
Brad I'm honored I'll see you next week, though I may have to call you beforehand but only because you know everything :) You may not be able to get rid of me, I already have so MANY questions for you!
Natalie - the one song for my son, I made the picture/video. This is not my recorded version of the song though. It was sung by Phillips Craig and Dean. I have performed this song on a few occassions, and I have to tell you, it's a tough one to sing. It's almost as hard to sing as it would be to sing Butterfly Kisses at a daughters wedding. I had mentioned above, where I had to sing this for a large audience, with my boys walking out on the stage, one at a time, and sitting at my feet while I played. A Priceless and Unforgettable Memory!!
The first Video/song is done by a group called Casting Crowns, and we do plan on performing this one as well. We may even do a recording of our own version. Great tunes...awesome message!! Thanks Natalie :-)
Brad - Greetings from not so sunny Tecate, Mexico. Thanks for pointing me here. I look forward to watching and commenting on the videos when I get home.
Brad... touching. I remember you talking about your family and your kids. Also about one going off to college. I think you also mentioned that he liked playing a certain instrument? In any case, just a FYI, but the 2nd video doesn't work now. It said something like not available now. thanks for sharing this.
Jeff - I just checked it with both Microsoft Internet Explorer and Firefox and the 2nd video seems to be working just fine. Not sure why your system won't let you play it, try again and see if it works. I have no problems with either on my end. Hope you're doing well, it's great to see and hear from you again! Thanks Jeff!
Hi Friend. This is absolutely beautiful!!!!!!!!! The first video is so very moving, and the storyline really hits home. Great song, talented writers and singers too.
Your video with Brandon is awesome! What a treasure it is, and how wonderful for you to let us all into your heart and family like you do. Your photos tied in so beautifully with the words of the song. You are truly talented. I know your mama is proud! As she should be. Thanks for sharing. Debbie and the boys are lucky to have you.
I must admit I held up pretty good until you made the comments about singing it in church with the boys at your feet, and then it was all over. Oops, it is okay to cry for happy.
Linda - this was one of those posts that took me two days to hit the submit button. I didn't want to let Jason down, but this one was also very personal. I wasn't sure how much of the 'door' to open, but these are all my family and friends here now, so I went for it. Thanks for your sweet comment, and for just being a great friend! I feel very fortunate to have friends like you here and outside of Active Rain. I'll be in your area tomorrow, I'll try and stop by to say hi! Have a great night Linda, and keep me posted on the other stuff. :-)
Brad - I'm back, bet you thought I wouldn't be, after all these posts! What I wanted to say was my children too say they want to 'be like me' and so your post has caused me to take a step back and re-evaluate what I want them to 'be like'. I want them to know their Mom has an "identity" in something and some ONE much greater than this business I own, the responsibilities I have, the friends and loved one's I associate with and tasks that keep me running.
Thank you again for a terrific post. BTW, I didn't play the video's again, I don't have time to cry right now, I have work to do!
Linda - it was great seeing you today, I hope I was able to give you enough insight to move you ahead and not overwhelm you. There is so much to learn here, just take one day and one bite at a time! Have a great weekend, and call me anytime if you need any assistance at all! :-)
Jackie - that was beautiful, thank you for sharing. The best examples we can set for our kids and families are those that create memories that will live with them forever. I want those memories to be the very best I can give to my children. They deserve the very best, so I need the very best to learn from. There is no other way I would have it. Thanks again Jackie for coming back and commenting with such conviction! You're a great mom, and I'm sure that's the part your kids will grasp as they grow up to be...just like you! :-)
Trace - I am really glad you enjoyed these songs and videos. They are very timely in today's RUSHED and busy society! Life goes by so quickly, we must stop to realize what's really important in life and how hard we try and work for the American Dream. All the while the little ones are watching and learning from everything we say and do!
OK, you didn't warn me I was going to be ‘leaking' when I came to visit. I always end up crying in church when they sing songs like this.
I love Casting Crowns and PC&D. Your video is awesome, you couldn't have chosen a better song. Brad, I'm betting you are one of the all time best fathers around. I suspect there are some boys/young men thinking the same thing.
I am really glad you shared this post and pray it will be a blessing to all who read and watch.
BTW, I have most of your posts bookmarked too.
I have to go see what Missy is up to with Mercy Me...
Doreen - WOW! What an awesome comment to wake up to this morning!! Thank you so much Doreen, you made my day. I was hoping this post would touch someone, anyone in some small way. I am happy with the comments I am getting here but more than that, I know someone else who is even happier! :-)
Brian - coming from a fellow musician, I can't tell you how much I appreciate your comment! Actually, I guess I can...I really appreciate your comment and thank you for it! :-) Can you play "Misty" for me? LOL!
Hi Brad, I agree. It is good for our children to see (and hear) that we make mistakes but when we do, we acknowledge them and try to correct them. Now that is a good example and learning experience for our children. I also believe that the words "I am sorry" is a powerful tool.
Brad, Silence and stillness have enveloped my room. You never cease to amaze me. A couple of days ago I was listening to an old Amy Grant "My Father's Eyes" as I drove from one appointment to another. I was singing along (aren't cars great) and thinking of the legacy I was creating for my daughter and loved ones. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, your wisdom, your family and your life. I wanna be just like you!
... it is an awesome tune, but when you add some of your personal photos and memories into it, then BAM. something takes over! It becomes very personal when you look into the eyes of your children. :-)
Cynthia - the words "I am sorry" are some of the most powerful words on the planet, they are also some of the most difficult to use for some people. We are all learning all the time. Loved your comment, thanks! :-)
Joddie - does your husband still sing professionally? Are we starting the AR Band? I think I know enough members now that we could build the "American Band" literally! LOL! I'm glad this song is one of your favs too! It gets me every time.. I think other AR members are calling it "leaking" :-)
Susan - what a great description of the exact same thing I experience when I watch these videos. You are so on it!! :-) Music is such a POWERFUL thing. It's what makes any good movie, any good at all. It sets us up and creates emotions based on its sound and style. Music can make us sad, happy, even inspired.
My Fathers Eyes is a great song! My good friend had to sing "Butterfly Kisses" at his daughters wedding a while back, I don't know how on earth he did that without cracking!! Thanks for poppin by Susan, it's always great to see you, the door is always open for you. :-)
Jeff D - this song reminded me of the "Cats in a Cradle" song. Another great tune that stops you in your tracks and makes you think. Thanks for the email and your awesome offer, I'll get back to you after I get the chance to do some more research. Hope you had a great weekend my friend! :-)
OK, my husband is going to ban me from AR if ya'll don't stop making me cry!!!!!
I think I'll make him watch these. Makes me rethink the whole real estate thing sometimes. The first song really got to me, because that is exactly what I keep thinking -- "Only a little longer..." Beautiful songs, nice point. Something we ll need to remember every now and then. Thanks!
Marlene - looks like these songs touched you in more than just a small way! :-) You should have your husband watch them, from a man's eyes, it may really have an impact on him so be prepared. I know the first time I ever saw the first one, I liked it and didn't feel to guilty at the time, but now, it sucker punches me! LOL!
The second video was just as important to me because of the memories it stirs that I have had with my kids. They are all just a little bit like me, and some of the things, I don't want them to be. When I see my little guys face to the words of that song, well........I leak! Show your hubby he just might too! Thanks Marlene, really appreciate that comment!
Tom - How to? - I have a home "studio" where I can utilize photos, videos and music. Putting these types of photo/videos together is something I do on the side. Let me know if you need any assistance, I can do wedding photos, baby dedications, Old Photo Restoration, family and friends, pretty much any photos you have we can work with. Also add your favorite songs for the background. Call me or shoot an email! Thanks! :-)
I hope you'll enjoy them, you can also just download the songs you want off the internet for 99 cents each. That way, if you don't want the whole CD, you can just get these songs! :-)
Brad are you kidding me?? You need a disclaimer that a box of tissues is needed for this one! What a beautiful dedication to your son. I have been struggling lately with working too much and not spending enough time with the kids. My 8 year old really wanted me to go fishing with him or go to his drum lessons and I figured well dads there, why does he want mom there? (I'm still crying BTW) those are dad kind of things. Sometimes it takes a smack in the head (or touching post) to get the message loud and clear. He wants to share his experiences with both of us and I need to get off the computer and share them with him. I know they grow up all to fast, my daughter is soon to be 20!! Thanks for the gentle nudge!
Sandy - that was very touching! Now get off the computer, (BIG SMILE) it will be there long after the kids are grown up and gone...and now I need to go practice what I preach! LOL! Signing off..... TTFN!! :-)
Congratulations on the contest, Brad! This, despite being a tear jerker, is very uplifting and I'm so glad you shared it. It would be much longer than 5 minutes to cover my 4 kids over the past 26 years, but it sure does fly by!
Brad, this was a magnificent entrant for our contest. The writing alone was worthy of your placement, but the video you produced was even more amazing. Adam, Jason and I were all blown away with the sheer effort that must have gone into it. Thank you so much for participating, and for taking the spirit of the contest to heart. Congratulations on your placement amongst the winners!
Brad: WONDERFUL!!!!! Your son is too adorable...and I LOVE that song. EXCELLENT tribute to your son. I KNOW that he is so proud of his daddy. CONGRATULATIONS AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Brad - Your entry was one that I pretty well knew was going to place well in this contest, even early on. I love Casting Crowns and Phillips, Craig, and Dean, although that really wasn't what made this entry special. Your heartfelt video for your son, Brandon put you over the top in this contest. Terrific job! I need to learn how to make those myself. Wanna train me? But seriously, I wanted to congratulate you and thank you for spending time creating this awesome post. Also, I wanted to mention that I am good friends with Jesse Reeves, who co-wrote "How Great is Our God", "Forever", and other Chris Tomlin songs. He also plays bass in the band. We have helped a number of Christian artists with real estate purchases in and around Austin. Take care and God bless you!
BRAD: Congratulations on being one of the contest winners with your outstanding entry. As someone who is inspired by my father and who tries to inspire my son, this one really hit home with me. You put so much effort into creating the YouTube video, and I really appreciate the fact that you went the extra mile to make this a great entry. I was moved by the sentiment and impressed with the quality. Thanks for being a part of this, Brad.
Brad, Congratulations on your entry. You can clearly see how heartfelt it is and your dedication to your son was just beautiful. We really do have important jobs as parents especially when they do want to be just like us. There's nothing greater than the joy you receive from your children. I have a son who enlightens each and every one of my days as I am so blessed by him. Thanks for your efforts here and for sharing the music!
Keith - I'm glad you enjoyed the videos! This was a fun post to put together, but became much more personal as it was being created! Thanks my friend! :-)
Congratulations on the contest, Brad! This, despite being a tear jerker, is very uplifting and I'm so glad you shared it. It would be much longer than 5 minutes to cover my 4 kids over the past 26 years, but it sure does fly by!
Lisa - 4 kids and 26 years sounds like it would be a "GREAT" post, 5 minutes doesn't matter when it comes to sharing something as touching as that! Go for it, I'd love to read a post from you talking all about it! :-)
Brad, this was a magnificent entrant for our contest. The writing alone was worthy of your placement, but the video you produced was even more amazing. Adam, Jason and I were all blown away with the sheer effort that must have gone into it. Thank you so much for participating, and for taking the spirit of the contest to heart. Congratulations on your placement amongst the winners!
Hey Paul - thanks for the contest and this comment! You guys are ALL to be commended for your efforts and creativity in putting this together. I am truly honored by your selecting me as a finalist in the contest, and I am even more pleased with the results this post had on many of these members and readers. I know how tough it was to select 3 winners, I spent the evening last night looking at the majority of posts and they were all winners. I couldn't get to all (81 I think), but the ones I did read were awesome! Great job, and thanks again for all the hard work and effort that you all put into this!
Brad: WONDERFUL!!!!! Your son is too adorable...and I LOVE that song. EXCELLENT tribute to your son. I KNOW that he is so proud of his daddy. CONGRATULATIONS AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Elizabeth - thank you so much! He is an adorable little guy, and when he sees this post and watches the video I made, he cries and says, "I love you so much daddy, you're my best friend in the whole world!" That means more to me than anything in the entire world! I am truly blessed to be the chosen father for my kids!! :-)
Brad - Your entry was one that I pretty well knew was going to place well in this contest, even early on. I love Casting Crowns and Phillips, Craig, and Dean, although that really wasn't what made this entry special. Your heartfelt video for your son, Brandon put you over the top in this contest. Terrific job! I need to learn how to make those myself. Wanna train me? But seriously, I wanted to congratulate you and thank you for spending time creating this awesome post. Also, I wanted to mention that I am good friends with Jesse Reeves, who co-wrote "How Great is Our God", "Forever", and other Chris Tomlin songs. He also plays bass in the band. We have helped a number of Christian artists with real estate purchases in and around Austin. Take care and God bless you!
Jason - thanks for the call yesterday, I was actually in a meeting with a client when you called, and we were discussing AR and Blogging! We came up with some great ideas I'll be running by the AR Gods for their support. This will be good!
Thanks for putting this all together, I'd be happy to share with you how I put videos together from the home studio. Just give me a call sometime, I'd be happy to help.
Jesse Reeves and Chris Tomlin are phenomenal artists! I went to a retreat and got to meet Chris a couple years back. He did a workshop for musicians like myself, and was truly an inspiration and motivator to me. Let me know if they are ever looking for a guitarist and female vocalist. My wife and I are getting back to the Heart of our passion, and hope to be out on the road again someday soon. She's an incredible singer and is truly blessed with her gift! If you'd like to here some of the stuff we did recently, feel free to browse my "Music Website" I think you'll enjoy some of our original material we've composed! Thanks again Jason, I am honored and humbled to have been considered for third place in your contest! It was totally awesome! GB!
BRAD: Congratulations on being one of the contest winners with your outstanding entry. As someone who is inspired by my father and who tries to inspire my son, this one really hit home with me. You put so much effort into creating the YouTube video, and I really appreciate the fact that you went the extra mile to make this a great entry. I was moved by the sentiment and impressed with the quality. Thanks for being a part of this, Brad.
Adam - Placing in this contest was quite the shock after seeing all the GREAT entries submitted. You guys all did a fabulous job with this. Thanks for the call yesterday, I really enjoyed our chat on the phone. I just want to say thank you for having this group, this contest, and for doing all you do for the AR community. It's people like yourself that make this such a vibrant and resourceful community, and that's why I am here! I hope you and your family all have a blessed and safe Holiday season this year! Always here for ya if you ever need anything at all. We ARe family!! :-)
Brad, Congratulations on your entry. You can clearly see how heartfelt it is and your dedication to your son was just beautiful. We really do have important jobs as parents especially when they do want to be just like us. There's nothing greater than the joy you receive from your children. I have a son who enlightens each and every one of my days as I am so blessed by him. Thanks for your efforts here and for sharing the music!
Lynn - I totally can relate! I feel the same as you do about my boys! They are my inspiration, my gift, and my motivation to exist everyday of my life! Nothing means more to me than my family and their well-being! Our kids are always watching and listening, and I have learned that they will do what we do, and not what we say! That is why the video I created probably affected me more than any other viewer! It takes the message straight to the heart! Just so you know, your comment did the same for me today as well, straight to the heart!! Thank you for that! :-)
Brad - That's funny - Chris is actually the only one in the band that I haven't ever met. All of the others are past clients. I am checking out your music site now. As for the new ideas, I am excited to see what you came up with for AR. I may give you a call sometime about the videos.
Jason - you just call, and I'll be there.....hey wait, isn't that a song? LOL! Thanks my friend, I look forward to talking with you soon. I may be calling you before you call me! Have an awesome day today!! :-)
Brad~ Casting Crowns is my favorite band of all time! I love both the first and second songs and the video of Brandon and you is endearing. I, too, am musically inclined, so I will check out your music website. If I could not write songs and sing them, life would get really overwhelming sometimes! Lots of blessings to you and your family! :)
Brad~ Casting Crowns is my favorite band of all time! I love both the first and second songs and the video of Brandon and you is endearing. I, too, am musically inclined, so I will check out your music website. If I could not write songs and sing them, life would get really overwhelming sometimes! Lots of blessings to you and your family! :)
Sarah - I am looking into creating an AR project! With all the talent and musicians I have met and know here, I think we could start an online music group and call ourselves, "An American Band!" There are ways that we can utilize the internet to create, record, and produce music and never leave our homes to do it! I may be doing an ALL OUT call post for any AR musicians. I would love for you to be a part of it.
There used to be a site called Res-Rocket (I know there are others) where I could upload the drum beat, someone else could come in and add the bass line, then another the keyboard and so on. I met up with 4 or 5 great musicians all over the world and this is one of the songs we compiled! This was done 100% online! I would love to do something like this with our musically gifted AR members. Take a listen! It was done using all midi tools and instruments! Hope you enjoy it!
Brad, ok ok, I am touched and in more than just the head. I really like the Casting Crowns. However, your video is what touched me more. A blog I recently did went right in line with this. We think we need to work harder to supply for our family. We start to forget the important things. Thank you for reminding us.
Brad, I am new to AR this week. Your post has made my day, God Bless you and your family. The world would be a better place if there were more dads like you.
Judy - thanks, these videos really help put things in perspective and help put our priorities in the right order. Anything that can help us these days is truly appreciated! :-)
Earl the Pearl - very well put. The message you got from this post was the one I intended. I am grateful that this message touched you in the way it did. Sometimes we have to see these messages more often to remind us that society plays such a huge role in creating the pressures and illusions of the American Dream. At the end of the day....or should I say, at the end of the life, all we have are our family, friends, and memories. Make em count, each and every one!! :-) Thanks my friend, have a great weekend! :-)
Ruth - welcome to AR! It's great you joined. Thanks for your compliment, I sure appreciate that. It must not be a coincidence that you joined AR and found this post. If you need anything while out here in the rain, don't hesitate to let me know, I'd be happy to help you out any way I can. :-)
Brad, This has been o my mind allot lately. When I got into Real Estate, due to me still being a manager of a pool store, I told her right up front that she wouldn't see me much over the next two years while I built my business. Notice, I was putting importance on the business over God and my spouce and family. I thought I was doing the right thing. I was wrong. This is not the way it is to work, besides it won't work without God, my wife, my family, and I being in line. May God Bless you and yours this Holiday Season.
Earl - these are great words of wisdom, and often times overlooked! I can also say it is sometimes easier said than done. I have been on both sides of that fence and agree with you. Your priority must be in order. God, Family, Job! I am guilty of not always putting my life and priorities in this order, but making this video for this contest, sure helped me put things back into perspective and priority! Have a blessed and safe Holiday my friend! Your nick name is appropriate, you have great "pearls" of wisdom to offer and share with others! Thanks!
For some reason I have never heard the American Dream song. I love it. It really made me stop and think. "I want to be like you" has become one of my favorite songs and the prayer of my heart.
Karen - it really is a great tune. Everyone needs to hear that one once in a while! I have a personal tie to the other song, my 3 boys are truly my life. The youngest one is who I featured in this video. He always tells me that he wants to be like me and that helps keep me on my best behavior. Always have to be on your toes with little and big ones around! They watch and hear everything we do, even when you think they don't! :-)
Brad, I wanted let you know that your post was well written, but more important heart felt! It is always a joy to read your blogs and the interesting variety you bring to ActiveRain. You are a true blessing to us here! God Bless!
Ernie - thanks, I see I'm following you around my Blog tonight!! LOL! Make yourself at home my friend, you have stumbled across probably one of my most important messages I've ever posted in the rain. God, Family, Country, Career, is the great priority in life, and in that order. Easier said than done many times, but always something to strive for. Thanks for your kind comment, and like I said, my Blog is your Blog, as is my home, office and phone!! :-) Ciao for now!!
I just want to keep time! I just want to stay in the groove and keep the rest of the band in the groove until the end of the tune!
Industry Jam needed to do music until everyone is as positive as we are! Second Chorus to the tune of Realtor Blues is on the drawing board............Loan Agent without The Blues 1+2+3+4+1+2+3+4+1+2+3+4+1e+a....... Signed, Time Covered
Steve - so when are we getting together to start the AR Band? Let's talk this week about some times we might get together. I know you're a busy guy, but you owe it to yourself!! Call me! B-)
Seeing this a little late, but had to comment. Love it. Your son is adorable. I remember my son at that age and it is frightening how quickly the time passes. God Bless!
Sally - you could never see this too late! They do grow very quickly. I take lot's of photos to share and hopefully hand down one day. Thanks, and God Bless You too! :-)
Don - if you feel like the guy in the American Dream video, you're not alone! I think it's an eye opening video that causes us to stop and think about what's really most important in our lives. The American Dream is only a Dream until we realize who and what matters most! Then the dream can become a reality! :-)
Written almost a year ago, it's funny how this morning I had to go searching for this post just to get my own message for myself. I had to find this post so it would help ME put things in perspective once again. Did you ever think you'd be writing a Blog post for others when really it was written for you, by you? Sheeez, that's some deep and powerful stuff. Gotta wipe the eyes now and get to work!! :-))
Brad-Thanks for the wonderful video/music of you and your boys, it is very heartwarming to see such a great family. Enjoy the boys everyday...........as tomorrow may never come.........We all love you and your family and all your hard and dedicated work for your Active Rain family. Have a great Thanksgiving with your family.
Dona - that means more than you know to me us. My boys and family are my life, and so is AR!!! Have yourself a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday, and feel free to come by and say Hi anytime. The door is always open to you. :-)
Thanks for posting this in, "Christianity and Real Estate", Brad....
Music affects us and changes us in so many ways...maybe that is why my dad wanted us to think about what a song was communicatiing...not just listen to it...
Alexander - I can't tell you how many people that little video has had an impact on. I am blessed that folks DO listen to the words and not just the music. The message is so powerful, and I hope in some small way, my son and I are making a difference in the world with that video message, one life at a time. We are both truly blessed by it! Thanks my friend. :-)
Brad, all I can say is wow, thanks for the reminder of how important it is to have our prioritie straight. We could all easily work 24/7 in this business
Two great selections! I love that you are a great Dad to your boys, and this song really puts it all into perspective. You are the example for your son Brandon, and he will grow up to be a strong man because of the way you are raising him. It's nice to see that you are sharing so many wonderful moments with him and creating great memories for him to cherish! Thanks for sharing!
Michelle - thanks, that was very nice of you to leave that comment. It meant a lot to me.
I hope that one day when my sons grow up, they will look back, remembers these times, and do the same types of things for their kids. That's my ultimate gift and reward... :-)
Brad - I just had to stop by to say that your son is beautiful and precious - God's masterpiece. Your video made me wish that someday, my 14-month old son would say that about his daddy.
Loreena - thank you, and one day he will. This is a very heart touching song between my son and I. We both cry everytime we watch this video or hear this song. It's always tears of joy of course, but tears none the less. :-)
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