There's always one in the office. I can think of a few here in ActiveRain.
The best way to deal with an "A" Kisser is to avoid them, don't trust them or confide with them.
No different from your elementary school days. The same personalities grow up to occupy the cubicle next to you. You just have to deal with them.
Hi David, I can think of a few that come to mind. I've been known to kick a few A$$ Kissers to the curb. Although a few in the rain, the worst are the ones in the office. They're more difficult to avoid. Who did you kick to the curb today?
Not so, Bernadette. I don't have to deal with it if I'm in command. Recognizing the sign is the first step towards combating the issue. I believe in a fair environment, and demonstrating favoritism or partiality is unjust. The unfair treatment of any person or group of people on the basis of cronyism is morally unjust within the halls of commerce, or anywhere in this nation.
A salesperson seeking favors, Pamela.
It's not the first time. I've had salespeople offer me jewelry, record collections, musical instruments, and even small parcels of land for referrals. You learn how to throw water on the fire without batting an eye. A few months ago a customer came into my office and offered me a motor home for a forged signature. She said her husband had the flu and he couldn't be there to sign the documents for a commercial P&S. I threw her out of the office. She was an authentic crook, but not the first one I've seen. She disappeared into the stream of slime with the rest of the perps.
I want to learn how to juggle fruit so I can more fully appreciate the meaning of balance.
David, I was offered lunch last week by a salesperson, but I declined. I was just doing my job, and got the satisfactory result I'm supposed to get--there is no reason to buy me lunch. Now that I think about it, it was probably more of a bribe. I have my reasons for not using the escrow company he wants to use. The one I chose is reputable and in good standing. The one he wants to use is his office escrow company. Hmmm. Yesterday, I got an earfull how my choice is too slow, and blah, blah, blah.
Because some people can be bought off, unscrupulous people think everyone can be bought off. I want never to be bought off, or take bribes. It's despicable. Regarding your comment about weak managers: some managers love a$$ kissers because they think they're in the know and getting the real scoop, when nothing could be further from the truth. I just laugh at those types of managers because they are so blind to the truth. Then they wonder why all the good people leave them.
I always enjoy your posts, David. btw, I know how to juggle fruit.
His office escrow company ? That's a good one. :-) He waves his red flag proudly.
Prevarication and bribery are gambol to an A$% Kisser, Pamela.
I've never juggled fruit, just late night hours, but always mesmerized by those who can, like W.C. Fields.
Vigilance and bitterness are concomitant, Aimee. Chag Sameach. New Year, too,
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