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Social Networking : Things to avoid

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with WebTech Dezine, Gabrielle Jeans Real Estate Coach

When you are out social networking, you should be demonstrating your expertise whenever possible as well as encouraging people to visit your website.  This will not only increase your website traffic but the backlinks to your website will increase your search engine ranking as well.  Whenever possible, have your backlinks sending people to more comprehensive information on whatever topic you’re commenting on in whatever social media situation you find yourself in.

Ensure Your Profiles’ Integrity: for preventing identity theft and ensuring you are being represented by you and not someone else in your name, claim your profile on one of the social networking profile aggregator sites. (eg www.Zoominfo.com). Even then, check your profiles occasionally regularly on whichever sites you use or wherever you have a presence and ensure nothing inappropriate or inaccurate about you was posted by your connections.

All Your Writings Become Immortal: everything you ever write on the internet will eventually get index and archived by Google, even if you eventually delete it.  So be careful about what you say and make sure it’s accurate – once it’s out there you can’t take it back.

Here are few things to avoid with social networking:

Making A Good First Impression: you shouldn’t assume everyone will want to join your social network.  Some people are by nature friendly but have only a few close friends.  They’re not the social butterfly types who have 100+ friends on Facebook.  Consequently, if there’s any doubt about whether a given person will add you to their list of friends/contacts, explain to them who you are, your intentions, and what you can offer them.  If they’re not interested in real estate info on your farm neighborhood, you’ll know this right up front and so you won’t waste any time developing a relationship with them.

Ask For Referrals Discreetly: don’t  assume people will want to give you a written recommendation. Some people feel uncomfortable giving blanket public recommendations.  Others may not want to give you one at all. So ask for referrals in a way that doesn’t put the other person into an embarrassing position.  For instance, asking by email doesn’t put them on the spot to respond nearly as much as asking over the phone does.

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Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Dear Gabrielle,
No truer words can be said than these: All Your Writings Become Immortal:
Have to keep that in mind, don't we?
Have a happy day -
Lynn

Dec 20, 2011 03:54 PM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Hi Gabrielle--congratulations on a great Featured post.  You have a number of great tips here and some good reminders for us, too.  I had not thought about checking on my profiles, but will go and do that right now!

Dec 20, 2011 04:16 PM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

Hi Gabrielle, great tips here. And some people get intimidated when you ask them to write a testimonial, like it is all formal and all. Sometimes when they write me a nice email on how they enjoyed the transaction, I just ask if I could use the words they used in the email, for a testimonial ~ very easy.

Dec 20, 2011 05:07 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

Excellent tips here Gabrielle, looking forward to your posts in the future.

Dec 20, 2011 07:22 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Dear Gabrielle,
After sleeping on this idea, I went to the site to learn more about it.  The Free offering comes in two options: the basic and the COMMUNITY. When using options such as COMMUNITY on ZoomInfo, one should always read the Terms of Use very carefully.  If you participate in Community on ZoomInfo, keep in mind the following permissions that you give to them:

  1. "COMMUNITY EDITION. If you install the software application known as the ZoomInfo Contact Contributor (the “Software”), the following terms and conditions will also apply:
    • (a) You will provide ZoomInfo with access to certain information related to businesses and business people (“Client Data”) stored by the application that your computer uses to manage your email and contacts, known as an “email client” (e.g., Microsoft Outlook). For a detailed description of the Information to be contributed, and how it may be used, please see our Privacy Policy. By providing ZoomInfo with access to your email client, you agree to grant ZoomInfo and any of its affiliates the following licenses: (x) a license to access Client Data that you have stored in your email client, including in your contacts list and email messages, until you uninstall the Software and (y) an irrevocable license to reproduce, distribute, publish, perform or display the ClientData, and sell, transfer, assign, disclose, or make available the Client Data to any third party, including ZoomInfo’s customers, contractors, strategic partners, agents and service providers. The foregoing license grants to ZoomInfo shall be non-exclusive, perpetual and royalty-free, and ZoomInfo shall have the right to sublicense, assign, or transfer such licenses in its discretion.
    • (b) In exchange for providing ZoomInfo with access to your email client, as described above, you will be entitled to use ZoomInfo Community Edition, which permits you to access premium information, such as names, job titles, email addresses and phone numbers, in the ZoomInfo database for so long as the Software remains installed and contributes Client Data, as provided herein."

TMI goes to ZoomInfo for my comfort - I decided that I would just stick with registering my name with MANTA.com. I prefer their Terms Of Service.  Not willing to grant anyone unrestricted access to MY email Client List.
"Manta offers features where Contributors may post Content, ... we do not claim ownership of any Content posted by you or our other users.  However, by submitting Content to Manta: (a) you grant us, our affiliates, and distributors a perpetual, worldwide and royalty free right to use, copy, store, display, perform, distribute, redistribute, syndicate, transmit, adapt and promote your Content, and any information contained within such Content, in any medium including, without limitation, the use of your user name and alias associated with your Content and (b) you grant other users of Manta free permission to view and use your Content."

Have a happy day -
Lynn

Dec 20, 2011 08:59 PM
Charlie Dresen
The Group, Inc - Steamboat Springs, CO
Steamboat Springs, CO e-Pro

Great advice and I agree with using an email request for anything that might put people on the spot. It gives people an "out" and they can respond if and when they want to, unlike a phone or face-to-face conversation.

Dec 20, 2011 10:57 PM
Tracy Oliva
West USA Realty - Arizona - Fountain Hills, AZ
The Oliva Team Arizona Agents

Thank you for the new strategy. It is now time to implement. 2012 is going to be a great year. And we need to use all the tools. Good luck. Merry Christmas from Arizona.

Dec 21, 2011 12:49 AM
Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

Pretty good list.  I absolutely love social networking sites and love how much business they bring us.  

Dec 21, 2011 12:57 AM
Jeff&Grace Safrin
F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate - Valparaiso, IN
SpousesSellingHousesTM

Love what you said - all your writing become immortal :)

Dec 21, 2011 01:52 AM
Rosalind Nicholas
RE/MAX Condos Plus Corporation, Brokerage - Toronto, ON
Toronto Condo Real Estate Agent, Toronto ON

Thank you for the tips, and generating comments such as #28 …… food for thought ….. re: look at the fine print.

Dec 21, 2011 02:07 AM
Lori Churchill Cofer
Beasley Realty - Pullman, WA
Realtor - 509-330-0086 - Pullman, WA

Gabrielle,

 

One always needs to be very careful about one's on line reputation...

Dec 21, 2011 02:26 AM
Jerry Morse
The Morse Company - Janesville, WI
BBA,GRI

2012 is rapidly approaching, I could use a couple of your ideas.  Thanks for the post.

Dec 21, 2011 03:05 AM
Shelby DiBiase
REMAX Professionals - Phoenix, AZ
Investing In Your Future

I agree, it is very important to watch what one says online. Choosing your words carefully is a must!

Dec 21, 2011 03:34 AM
Stacia Whatley
Hawkins-Poe Inc. - Gig Harbor, WA
StaciaSellsHomes Your Western WA Realtor®

I love the comments on your great post! I have been using Social Media even before I was in Real Estate. I have been able to use it as a TOOL to gain clients. 95% of my clients have come from Social Media. One thing to remember is there is no right or wrong way to use it. You just have to find out what works for you and stick with it. People have asked me how I do it and I really don't have an answer for them because it's going to be different for everyone. It's the same as if you were at a party and you found a way to communicate in a way to get leads and turn them into clients. It's the same thing. And it's important to remember that using Social Media is a TOOL, not a means to an end. Just like all your other prospecting, it's a TOOL. As for commenter #12 Social Media is not CAUSING unnecessary violence nor the cause of divorce. The people who use it are. I enjoyed your post. Thanks!

Dec 21, 2011 04:44 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

My writing becomes immortal . . . who cares?  Unless I become Hemingway, no one is really going to be interested in what I blogged about on May 24, 2008

Dec 21, 2011 04:44 AM
Gabrielle Jeans
WebTech Dezine, Gabrielle Jeans Real Estate Coach - Toronto, ON
Real Estate Web Solution, Real Estate Trainer and Coach

Hi all, Thanks for all your comments and feedback. Carla, if what you blogged about may 24, 2008 suddenly becomes an important amazing discovery, you probably would be happier about that statement "your writing becomes immortal" Ever think of an idea and someone actually invents it and you say hey i thought of that. With the Internet you can prove it :)

Dec 21, 2011 04:58 AM
Lorraine or Loretta Kratz
Crescent Moon Realty, Inc. & Land N Sea Auctions. - San Marcos, CA
Certified Negotiation Consultants

I appreciate what Lynn comment #28 had to say, and I agree. Happy Holidays.

Dec 21, 2011 05:23 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Gabrielle, you always have so many good points! Just stopped by to wish you a Very Merry Christmas!

Dec 21, 2011 06:11 AM
Kathy Burke
Sensational Home Staging~~Danville, CA - Danville, CA
S.F. East Bay Home Staging

Gabrielle....Saw you via the FEATURE and now subscribed & LIKED your Facebook biz page!  Always want to follow those with sound advice!  THANKS!

Dec 21, 2011 06:44 AM
Donald Reich
Madison Specs - New Rochelle, NY
Cost Segregation Specialist

Gabrielle, great post! You mentioned asking for referrals discretely. That is really true about marketing in social media in general. On facebook, you are markting to your 'friends'. You don't want to shove business down their throats all the time. Be tactful and discrete - the marketing message will get out there!

Dec 21, 2011 04:45 PM