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This business can be hazardous for your health

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Right About Real Estate

Being a professional of the real estate industry can be hazardous for your mental health. Maniac depressive even comes to mind.... You think I am exaggerating? Let me elaborate with an example and then tell me I am wrong...

One day you get a call from another agent who is sending you an offer on one of your listings (you are happy). The moment you receive it, you realize the offer is not going anywhere; it's just too low (now you are depressed). You present it to the seller and to your surprise, he isn't insulted and he counters, so there is a shed of light at the end of the tunnel and this may actually happen (you are happy again). The buyers meet the seller's terms and the contract is signed (still happy).
A day later, the buyer's agent calls you and says the buyers have changed their minds and want to back out of the deal, apparently they want to do a 1031 exchange on another one of their properties and their accountant said to not buy this one yet until they get the proceeds from the previous one (go to my 1031 blog and read the whole story)(depressed again, or more like in disbelief). With all your knowledge on 1031 exchanges, you explain to the buyer's agent that they can do a reverse exchange and buy this property. She goes back to the buyers, they get it and want to proceed (happy again). Inspections check, appraisals check, all is good to go to closing (still happy). You follow up with the other agent, mortgage broker and title company and make sure everyhting is fine, and it is (according to them). The day before closing, you ask for a copy of the HUD and guess what, there is a delay with the condo questionnaire and after they get it in two days there is a 48 hour turnaround. Your client is going out of town tomorrow (panic). You figure out how to have him sign the seller's docs before he leaves and fax over the HUD to wherever he'll be and have him send it back or give you POA to sign it (going insane, but happy because at some point it will close). Two days later, the bank gets the condo questionnaire and 48rs later it closes (not smoothly, but it does). Now you are happy and it is done... until the next deal.
I don't know if it is that I get too involved in every deal, that I am so insanely organized that when thinks don't happen the way they are scheduled to happen I start making lists in my head of things to do to fix it, or what it is, but  these extreme changes in emotion can really drive a person insane... I am now working to close four deals next week, out of which three should have closed this week and for one reason or another there is a delay. After that, I am going on a very well deserved vacation to a place where... delays are just fine...

I know this happens to you too (unless it is a local thing?). My questions is: why does it happen? maybe some of the mortgage brokers around here can explain what is it with your side of the deal. Why does the bank wait for the last minute to ask for additional conditions? why don't they send a HUD statement with 48hrs in advance like they are supposed to? Why are closings seldom on time? why, why, why?

Jay Thompson
Zillow - Seattle, WA

A most definite YES it happens here too.

Most anxiously awaiting the answer to Yael's questions.

 

 

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Dec 14, 2006 06:24 AM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
Ah! The million dollar question. Why? It's still a mystery to me as well. Get'em closed and move forward is all we can do.
Dec 14, 2006 07:58 AM
Robert D. Ashby
Cruise Planners of South Florida - Plantation, FL
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It definitely happens, yes.  The condo questionnaire should have been sent relatively quickly after the loan application was started.  The reason for the delay could be that the mortgage broker dropped the ball (most likely) and/or forgot to send it in and didn't remember until the lender asked for it near the closing date.  It could also be that the lender doesn't normally require it, but asked for one in this case (not vey likely scenario, but has happened to me before). 

The other common reason for the delay is, and this happens a lot (especially in South Florida), that the condo association takes their merry old time to get the questionnaire filled out and returned to the mortgage broker.  I have had times where I have had to call several times a day for 4 or 5 days to ensure they finally got off their butts and completed it.

As far as other issues, it depends on the loan and the borrower.  Commercial loans sometimes get peculiar and things just keep "popping up".  Also, if a loan is "borderline", the underwriter may ask for something and if the borrower fails to deliver it in a timely manner, the u/w may start looking for a reason to deny the loan.

I hope this helps a little bit to clear some of the issues.

Dec 15, 2006 02:05 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Yael.... Robert did mention one key factor...  that the lender dropped the ball. And part of this is that they do wait till the last minute. And yes, the condo association can take their sweet time also.  Last...  the loan officer decided to turn the loan in last minute. I have seen this happen before also.

Me?  I am like you and have spent a lot of time fixing the problems myself. Since I have left my previous company, 2 months ago, my current processor is that much more on the ball also. And this goes for the whole company, because they have raised the bar. Customer Satisfaction is so important with my current company... and not just talked about.

Overall... I sometimes just blame it on the loan officer. Sometimes the loan officer doesn't check off that it's a condo also... so the processor might not find out until the appraisal comes in also... this can be big. 

In regards to the HUD>...  Yael... in my case... I do such a good job in regards to not only disclosing all fees, but that I estimate a tad higher.... that my clients don't have to worry. Most of the fees are from the title company anyhow... but we can get fees to them quickly enough so they can put this together. And the HUD should come from the title company or lawyer...not the lender. 

Dec 15, 2006 03:21 PM
K C
Independent Leadership & Financial Fitness Consultant - Pleasant Grove, UT

Yael, you ask the million dollar question, and NO I don't have all the answers.  I do know the following, because I like to nail down as many details before I hand a loan off to the processor as possible.  But in reality the fubar's can take place and your not the one responsible, but your client's don't want to hear it, they don't want to really know about it, and they expect you to close. 

My biggest pet peeve is Account Rep's at wholesale companies that either don't understand their own products, or make promises on exceptions that they don't deliver upon.  I've been dealing with one of these situations at the moment.  Sometimes you want to rip your hair out, because I'm an impatient guy at times, but then you realize that some prespective needs to be arrived at to keep your sanity.

Bottom line, there is always something or someone who screws up when a loan goes fubar.  But my approach at that time is #1) Solve the problem   #2) Communicate   #3) Communicate  #4 ) Repeat #2 and #3.

I've found that clients hate hearing bad news, but they will actually hate you more if you don't give them bad news until the last minute.  If you wait to give them the bad news at closing or at title and you actually embarrass them, then good luck ever getting another referral.

The owner of my company and myself recently attended a conference of business owners.  They were not mortgage professionals, and as we talked about our respective businesses around the table, one of the things we were supposed to ask was the opinion of the other business owners about our industry.  Without one exception they all rated "LACK OF COMMUNICATION" as the number one reason they hated the mortgage process.

Look, there are to many people envolved in each transaction to never have a problem in a transaction.  Longevity in this business is dependent on being able to deal with problems, but more importantly you need to develop communication skills, and also learn to set expectations low and over deliver at the end of the process.  One example is my blog on turbulence.  Robert Ashby also gives some good examples in his blog about turbulence as well.

Dec 15, 2006 05:35 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Karl... I agree with half of what you said. Over time, I have learned 5 of the top companies programs in and out...those on the sub prime market. I know who can do what.... and those that promise exceptions, they come through because they know me and if they don't...it won't only be me that will stop using them, but I will make it hard on them and others will follow me. Because they know I know most of my programs. 

The other thing to this....... if I know it's an extremely difficult deal, I have a back up with another company that I explain this to the client. Hence the reason why I have only had a handful of deals that have not closed in 14 years. And the main reasons would be the appraisal on a refinance. Out of the 5 or so that didn't close, only 1 of them was a purchase.

Yael... not trying to hijack your post. And Karl does bring up some good posts. But I guess I take it to the next level so I don't have to blame the other lender. And this just made me realize a few things on my behalf and how others handle this.  Thanks..  meaning, I can use this part when speaking to clients, that tell me they got this great deal with another lender. Anyhow...   I can't believe I woke up before 8 am on a Saturday. I was so tired...   ;o( 

Dec 15, 2006 11:03 PM
K C
Independent Leadership & Financial Fitness Consultant - Pleasant Grove, UT

Jeff,

I agree that you should have your go to guys.  Even then there are times where the go to guy makes a mistake and tells you that "we've just changed our program guidelines last week"...UGGHH...that's happened once to me.  I also have a backup plan, but frankly I hate telling the back up guy about the deal until we're ready to roll. 

Dec 16, 2006 07:42 AM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans
Karl... I have been lucky... I have had a program drop just once... about 4 months ago...... sure, it's tough... I even tell my people if they are my back-up plan. They appreciate the honesty and being straight forward with them...
Dec 16, 2006 08:06 AM
Yael Warman
Right About Real Estate - Dania Beach, FL

 I am so glad to have received comments from all of you guys. It is obvious from your comments that you really know what you are doing and are in the business for the long run, so you don't drop the ball since you have a reputation to uphold. It has been really helpful and more so interesting to read your reasons to my question.

Jeff and Karl, you have a great back-and-forth going on right here...

Jeff, I like your idea of having a back-up, so in case there is a problem with one lender, you can just switch to the other one without having to start from scratch and delaying closing. I do have a question for you though. it is regarding the HUD. You mention that your GFE is so accurate that your clients are not surprised, and while this gets a lot of issues resolved, the fact is still that the buyers have to wait until the final figures are approved by the lender to be able to run over to the bank, withdraw the cashier's check and run over to the title company to close, just in a matter of a couple of hours, since that's how long in advance they get the final figures. This process can be pretty stressful for the buyer, who has to run all over town right before closing. Also, you say that it is the title company who prepares the HUD and not the lender, however, the title company cannot prepare the HUD until they get figures form the lender and then the lender needs to approve it, so while it is prepared by the title company,  a lot of it depends on the lender's diligency. The thing that I always question is why can't the bank send figures with more time in advance?

Karl: You mention communication and I agree that in any industry it is a key factor. When you are able  (as a buyer's Realtor or as a buyer) to find a lender that will keep you informed of every step in the process, you should consider yourself lucky. The problem is then finding a buyer's Realtor that will communicate any problems to the seller's side. They usually get so nervous that the deal will get cancelled by the seller if they know there is a problem that they want to hide it, and that just makes everything worse if the seller finds out only at the last minute that there will be a delay. 
Now, I get it that when a buyer gets informed of everything they may not get as upset if there is a delay, but when you have a seller on the other side, anxious to close, then while communication soothes a little, it still doesn't fix the real problem.
I understand if a deal is written up with let's say 15 days from contract to closing, then that is cutting close and you may not be able to close on time, but when you give let's say 6 weeks, there is really no reason.

Robert, you mention a key factor too and it is a borrower taking too long to deliver papers to the mortgage broker. They may be upset at the end if there is a delay, but they don't realize that part of it is teir fault.

 

 

Dec 16, 2006 01:30 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Yael....   I'll talk about your question to Karl first. I ALWAYS tell the realtor that has the buyer that the seller or their realtor can call me anytime. There are many reasons why, but even if delayed, I can usually make everyone feel at ease. 

In regards to clients getting me papers late?  I rarely have a problem with this. When I first pre-qual a client, I give them a list to work on. By the time they have my application, they have 90% of what I need, which are usually the most important papers. Usually, the papers that I do need at the end, might be something new, because the underwriter is requesting it. But for the most part, because of my experience, I know what to look for and I ask that up front.

Now... to your questions of discussion. The reason why it's not an issue for myself, in regards to the client having the numbers, is because I am pretty close. And if they need to get that check, they can get the money a day before closing and add $100 to my good faith estimate. I then tell them that if they paid more, they will get a check cut back to them at settlement. If it's few dollars more, they can by check. Most title companies that I have dealt with, will allow up to $500 in a form of a check. Hence the reason why having exact numbers have never really been an issue for me and as long as I explain this to them, as I just did, nobody has an issue with this.

In regards to waiting for numbers from the lender. My  numbers don't change unless I add or subtract points because of the rate or if the program changed. ANd when a change is made, the client is made aware of this as soon as it happens.... and not at the end. And I can always e-mail the title company these costs a few days before settlement, if everyone needed numbers that quickly. Then the only costs are coming from the title company and sometimes the realtor, if they helped with homeowners and such. Hence the reason why waiting for the lender to get back to everyone should not be an issue. Even if I am selling the loan to another company.

Getting to my very last sentence. This is another great thing. We do about 85% of our deals in-house, that I underwrite A paper, Alt-A, FHA, and sub prime deals all in-house. So I already know the charges. The only time I really go out of house to do a deal is when it's a sub prime loan that we won't do. And I have my other lenders that will do these, hence the reason I can basically do anything anyone else can do.

Hope this explains everything a little better. You could always call me on phone, in regards to these also.  ;o) 

Dec 17, 2006 02:25 AM
Daniel Odio
DROdio Real Estate, Inc - Alexandria, VA
Yael,

Great 1031 insight.  I just launched a 1031 calculator and I'd love your feedback on it:  www.1031summary.com

Regards,

DROdio

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Jan 24, 2007 12:58 PM
Bill Exeter
Exeter 1031 Exchange Services, LLC - San Diego, CA
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It is the age old question.  How to solve this dilema.  And, it gets worse each year thanks to technology.  Quicker, Faster, Sooner.  You have email right?  Blackberry, right?  Why can't you get it to me now?  The clients demand it, and we all try to deliver.
Dec 10, 2007 12:53 PM