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Happy 2012--Time to Reflect on Ourselves

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Real Estate Agent with Realty One Group Mountain Desert 928-600-2765

Happy 2012--Time to Reflect on Ourselves

Happy New Year

The new year is officially here. We have been spending time reflecting on our businesses for 2011, and how to do better in the new year. It's also a good time to take an evaluation on ourselves. It's the perfect time for us to ask ourselves, are we living in the present or the past?

If you are sitting or standing there, thinking, "my business isn't where it needs to be, my weight isn't where I want it to be or my relationship isn't how I want it to be", you're living in the past. It's time to start living in the present and taking action to turn each area of our lives that we would like improvement in.

Sometimes we find obtaining the goals that we set for ourselves feel out of reach and almost unobtainable. Feeling this way usually puts us in a state of inaction and stagnation. The most important thing to remember is that there is always something you can do to make progress towards your goals. To get into the present and find a way to make steps to gain that progress, I find it's helpful to take a walk, start moving around or meditate to get myself back in the present.

Use your talents in the present. Start thinking, "what can I do right now to make more money, to get in better shape, to have better relationship?" If you've failed before, we all have! Guard your thoughts. Instead of saying I am bad at ____ or I am unsuccessful at ___, instead say, "I used to have a challenge with ___, but now I am a person that takes action to obtain the goals I set out for myself."

Minding our minds and taking little bits of action are critical pieces to obtain all of the goals and success we set our for ourselves. Here's to wishing a VERY Happy New Year to everyone and may 2012 bring you even more success than you already have had and more growth and more steps to becoming the people we were all meant to be!

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Dale Baker
Baker Energy Audits and Commercial Properties Inspections - Claremont, NH
New Hampshire Relocation Real Estate Information

Howdy and afternoon Sylvie

Sylvie, Welcome to the New Year of 2012! Hope y'all had a mighty fine and safe New Year's Eve!

Happy New Year to you and your family!

May each and everyday bring you and your family an abundant of blessings for the rest of 2011 and all the way though the New Year of 2012!

Have a good one
Dale in New Hampshire

Jan 01, 2012 07:59 AM
Rob D. Shepherd
RETIRED - Florence, OR
RETIRED

A great uplifting post! I think this is the third one in three days of yours that I have agreed with! I am subscribing to you so I don't miss any!

Jan 01, 2012 08:15 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Sylvie, The past is gone, and there is not anything we can do about it. But, reflecting back does help us to make plans for a better year. We do need to take some actions to be successful.

Wishing you a Great 2012!

Jan 01, 2012 08:31 AM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Sylvie:  Positive affirmations are such good things to practice when we are wanting to "turn things around" or even keep things on a positive track as we attempt to go forward.

I don't know if you are familiar with something called the MBTI... the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, but it is a psychological method of what makes you "tick" and how and why it works.  In the Myers-Briggs there are sixteen basic types of psychological profiles... and the combinations of those, and the percentages of each an lead to many, many different "types" of people.

Where I am going is... that some of these types find it very easy to follow the paths you talked about in your post... but other "types" and variations of types either just freeze... or find it very difficult to make changes.

But, regardless of how we are put together... we still have the free will to "try" to try.  Good post, great thoughts.

 

 

Jan 01, 2012 04:48 PM
Anonymous
Anonymous

Hi Karen! No I hadn't heard of MBTI specifically. I have a business coach who covers all sorts of different aspects of personalities, and he may have touched on some of those, but didn't call it MBTI if he did. Good thoughts! I learned something again!

Jan 02, 2012 12:20 AM
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Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Sylvie:  First... here is a link to that MBTI tutorial post I wrote.  Newbies and Oldbies... Want Help in Communicating ? Consider Using the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator

Second... in your comment #5... it appears that you were not "logged in" to Active Rain when you made it.  That is why there is no picture, and no info along the bottom edge of your comment, and also why the background of your comment is white instead of light blue.  Just a heads'up.

Jan 02, 2012 06:18 AM
Sylvie Stuart
Realty One Group Mountain Desert 928-600-2765 - Flagstaff, AZ
Home Buying, Home Selling and Investment - Flagsta

Morning, Karen! I'll check it out right now! And that makes sense, as soon as I posted that comment, I realized I wasn't signed in yet. Thanks so much!

Jan 02, 2012 11:52 PM