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Remembering Trust

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with New Paradigm Partners LLC EB #1326335

Broken Trust

Yeah, I remember that Trust guy. He was something else - seemed like he was everywhere. You couldn't do anything without him being involved, and just having him there made everyone comfortable and happy.

We sure don't see him much these days, and I, for one, sure miss having him around. Why, I remember my grandmother investing her whole life savings in General Motors and GE - ol' Trust made that possible and it couldn't have worked out better. Can you imagine anyone today investing their entire life savings in any big corporation? And when my dad needed to borrow all that money from the bank to start his business, there was Trust again, helping to make it happen. Well, ol' Trust sure ain't hanging around any banks these days, that's for sure.

We grew up with him always being around - when we'd sit around the TV at night listening to Walter Cronkite tell it the way it was, Trust was sitting right there with us, helping us understand our place in the world. He was with us at school, helping us pay attention to our teachers. Nowadays, without him anywhere to be found, it's hard to make heads or tails out of anything you see or hear.

Now that I think about it, he must have been involved with almost all of our institutions, helping to make them work right and keeping everything running smoothly. I guess we never understood how important he was to everything we cared about until he stopped coming around.

It seems like he started showing up a lot less when we started that business with his buddies Truth and Honesty. I don't think he liked it when we made Truth all fuzzy and conditional, and Honesty a lot less important. When we decided that we could get along better without those two getting in the way so much, there just didn't seem to be a good place for ol' Trust anymore.

Well, I'm sure I don't need to tell you that we're not doing so well without those guys. We need to get them back here, to help us make things right - them, and all those other ones we ran off.

And I know things are a mess right now, but I believe there are some things we could do - no, nothing really big, because things don't work like that any more. But little individual things. Maybe if each of us tried really hard to remember all those guys, and the things they did, and worked really hard to make a place for them in each of our own worlds, and in the way we dealt with others, they would start coming around more. And maybe it would catch on, and we could get things on the road back to being right.

This post is a submission to the ActiveRain / Adobe EchoSign Trust Contest. I could possibly win a prize. You can find out about the contest by clicking here

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Mary & Dick

Mary & Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC
2601 S. Lemay Ave. #41
Fort Collins, CO 80525
970-689-4663
www.maryanddick.com

 

Data Source: IRES MLS

Comments(76)

Shannon Coe
exp realty of California, Inc. - Oceanside, CA
760-586-5268, San Diego Realtor

Dick, Great post. Congrats on being a finalist.

Feb 16, 2012 06:31 AM
Mike Sibbald
Elevations Real Estate, LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Broker/Owner Elevations Real Estate, LLC

Thank you Dick, we can all begin to bring TRUST back to our industry one transaction at a time.

Feb 16, 2012 07:22 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Good post, well thought out. Last I heard, trust was put aboard a ship along with a lo of jobs and sent out the Pacific to the far East

Feb 16, 2012 11:47 AM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Hi Dick, you are the first finalist I am reading, but I also think you may win. I could say so much about why Trust and Honesty and Truth are missing with so many people. Not everybody, but it's sure not the same world I grew up in and that's not a good thing. I pray that we return to the values that made our country great.

Sharon

Feb 16, 2012 12:54 PM
Valerie Baker
Exit Real Estate Professionals - Spokane, WA
Spokane Realtor

Hi, Dick! I agree that we need to bring trust and honesty back to our everyday transactions, but truthfully, most of us "little people" never left that place.  Unfortunately, our elected officials, CEO's, celebrities, etc. don't seem care a bit about building trust . . .why should they when they can commit crimes or be involved in major scandals and come back a few years, or even months, later and pick up right where they left off? Great post!

Feb 16, 2012 01:22 PM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Dick:

Your post is so eloquent.  You have expressed what a lot of us feel.  Trust was lost and I hope we can find him and his compatriots Honesty and Truth.

Feb 16, 2012 02:47 PM
Ken Anderson
Apex Results Realty Inc., Brokerage - Burlington, ON
Broker in Burlington, Ontario

TRUST...but...VERIFY!  Sadly, this is the state of affairs today.

Feb 17, 2012 12:51 AM
Ellen Kippel
Weichert Realtors - Suffern, NY
Licensed NY and NJ realtor 914-588-2365

I agree with Ken.  I have a great example.  I just got an accepted offer on a house, and the listing agent said that the deal that fell apart in the summer happened because the buyers moved on, once they found out that there was an oil tank below ground.  She said that my buyers didn't need to worry because her seller took care of it.  He removed it and had the EPA check and the property got a clean bill of health.  I took what she said to heart, felt I trusted her.  BUT --- then I wrote an email asking for the documents to verify this, and I asked for it before my clients home inspection.  She was angry and felt I was about to blow the deal and said it wasn't necessary for me to have these docs because it was the law that they be passed on to the buyer's lawyer.  I was feeling a bit leary by then, and my trust was a little shaken.  So -- we had the home inspection, I notified the home inspector, he put it in his report, and I notified my buyer's attorney, asking him to be sure those documents are provided by the seller's attorney.  TRUST BUT VERIFY - how true your words are Ken!

Feb 17, 2012 06:46 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Dick:  You said a mouthful!  And you're so right.  In Kansas, I grew up with that motto. Your word is gold. Doesn't seem to be that way anymore, but it's my mantra!  Best of luck in the contest!

Feb 17, 2012 07:03 AM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Dick ~ congrats on being in the Top 10.  I enjoyed your post and completely agree with your thought on the subject of TRUST.

Feb 17, 2012 09:30 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Hi Dick!

Wonderful way to paint a picture of 'trust' and how much things have changed over the years....

Best of luck in the contest and Congrats !!

Jo

Feb 17, 2012 10:22 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Dick, I agree that this is prixe-worthy post. Enjoyed following you. A bit nostalgic, as it reminds us what our life used to be. Change is good, but we lost a lot as well

Feb 17, 2012 01:00 PM
Peter Michelbach
International, IT
i Sell Real Estate

Dick, thank you for a great nostalgia post - I'm with Jerry #1...

What ever happened to the good old handshake, that men stood and lived by with their honesty and trust in one another?

Best of luck

Feb 17, 2012 08:12 PM
Roberta Kayne
Dublin & Central Ohio Homes - Dublin, OH
CRS, ABR, SFR, RRS, Realtor, Re/Max Affiliates

Fabulous post - love it!  I just saw that you are one of the top ten submissions - so good luck with the contest.  I am going to read the other 9 before i vote, but so far, you're the best !

Feb 18, 2012 08:22 AM
Lee & Pamela St. Peter
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices YSU Realty: (919) 645-2522 - Raleigh, NC
Making Connections to Success in Real Estate

Dick, first off congrats on making it to the finals in this contest..  it's no wonder you did however, with this outstanding post.  I too believe like you, there is much I can do and it's not in the big earth moving acts - it's in the every day things I commit to do in trust for others every single day.
Pamela

Feb 18, 2012 09:07 PM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Dick, I can't believe I missed this first time around. Congrats on making the final 10. You certainly deserve it.

Feb 19, 2012 10:36 PM
Lisa Wetzel
RE/MAX Realty Affiliates - Carson City, NV
CDPE, SFR carsonvalleyland.com

Dick ... Thanks for the wonerful blog!  I'm traveling back and visitng for voting!  Great Job!

Feb 22, 2012 09:38 AM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Dick, this is one way in which I'm thinking change has not been a good thing.  Love your post and congrats on being one of the top 10.

Feb 29, 2012 03:41 AM
Lloyd Binen
Certified Realty Services - Saratoga, CA
Silicon Valley Realtor since 1976; 408-373-4411

Dick,

Congrats on winning the iPad2.  You deserve it.  There are still plenty of honest, trustworthy corporations, institutions and even politicians. 

Mar 09, 2012 08:26 AM
Teral McDowell
Referral Patners LLC - Murphy, TX

Hope you are enjoying that Ipad2 - write some more awesome posts like this one.

Mar 15, 2012 09:00 AM