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Like MICHAEL CORLEONE, How'd you like to be the Godfather of YOUR FAMILY!!!!

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Mortgage and Lending with Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 NMLS ID# 158606

Let me think aboudit

There's a lot of responsibility when you're the head of THE FAMILY.  Sure....didn't really set out to do this.  Just wanted to hang with the family, but when Don Vito Corleone went down, I got shoved into this role.

I will tell you that I never thought that Facebook would do this to me, but, now, I'm growing into this role and frankly, it's quite hard to shake.

Let me take you back a year or so.....

I decided that since I don't have a common name like Johnson, Smith or Jones, we needed a place on Facebook to really just bond.  The history of our family isn't fully known, but most of us Bettags know a lot on our history.  I created a site called:

BETTAG FROM AROUND THE WBettag From Around the WorldORLD

I violated Facebook's rule on friending only those who you know and started friending, then inviting Bettags to join "Bettag from Around the World."  Except my dad told me about a Bettag that had been arrested for armed robbery (no invite there).  There are now 75 members in the group who correspond weekly.  A lot in the U.S. and, of course, a lot from Germany. 

Why is this so cool?

  1. I've developed a lot of real relationships with Bettags from Around the World;
  2. I've discovered so much more of my family heritage;
  3. I've been contacted by Tom Bettag, the producer on ABC News who wanted to help with DNA tracing in our family heritage (I found out that he and I are 6th cousins);
  4. I've communicated with a lot of Bettags in Germany and correspond a lot through Google Translator;
  5. I've had phonA friend of Larry is a friend of minee calls with Bettags whom I would never have met before; 

 

I did this for non income generating fun.  It's not a overwhelming passion of mine, but it is a passion nontheless. 

I love, really just love, connecting with family.  It has actually created some income OPPORTUNITY for me in that people have reached out for mortgage as well as legal help.  I haven't charged anyone yet, b/c they're family, but, since I'm acting as the head of the family right now...you never know. 

 

Maybe I'll make them an offer that they can't refuse!

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Comments(21)

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

good post for those of us with slightly unusual names. Thanks for the advice...I am going to give this strategy a try.

Jan 09, 2012 02:24 AM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

John....I can't tell you how much fun I have on this every week!

Jeff....It is a blessing not having a common name.  It's a blast.

Jan 09, 2012 02:26 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

No wonder you and I get along so well ... we're both from the Mother Country of Germany!  With a name like Mundt there's no doubting it ... but Bettag???  We'll need to share a good German lager at the stube sometime ...

Gene

Jan 09, 2012 03:01 AM
Cindy Edwards
RE/MAX Checkmate - Johnson City, TN
CRS, GRI, PMN - Northeast Tennessee 423-677-6677

This is hilarious.  Love it...father......Have a great day.

Jan 09, 2012 03:14 AM
Linda Holloway
Keller Williams Realty Tampa Central - Tampa, FL
REALTOR®, Your Next Home in Tampa Bay Starts Here!

Hi Larry, Great post and WONDERFUL way to use Facebook!

Jan 09, 2012 04:13 AM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

Gene.....well...there you go!  That explains so much!

Cindy.....Glad to make a laugh!

Linda...it's a lot of fun and I think it creates some awesome synergy w/in THE FAMILY!!!!!!

Jan 09, 2012 04:13 AM
Bill Gillhespy
16 Sunview Blvd - Fort Myers Beach, FL
Fort Myers Beach Realtor, Fort Myers Beach Agent - Homes & Condos

Hi Larry,  This has to be ther highest and best use for a lot of the social media.  reaching out digitally and touching others - gotta love it !

Jan 09, 2012 04:45 AM
Steven Cook
No Longer Processing Mortgages. - Tacoma, WA

Larry -- congratulations on getting to know more of your extended family through this new media.

Jan 09, 2012 06:11 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I've often Googled other folks with my maiden name of Balulis.  It's so unique that if they have it, I figure we have to be related.  One guy in Michigan was a felon, so I did the same as you...moved on.

Jan 09, 2012 06:46 AM
Juli Vosmik
Dominion Fine Properties - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale/Cave Creek, AZ real estate 480-710-0739

Great post, Larry.  Personally, I think that's a GREAT use of Facebook - and so much better than so many posts I've seen.  What a great idea.  I have a German couple Vosmik on my facebook - they tracked me down.  Maybe I need to do a little more searching.  Thanks for a great idea!!!!

Jan 09, 2012 11:50 AM
Tatyana Makarov
Century 21 All Points Realty - South Windsor, CT
Your Greater Hartford Area Realtor

Hahaaaaa.... Larry, Very funny.

Have a great week.

Tatyana

Jan 09, 2012 01:05 PM
Rose King
David Tracy Real Estate - Friendswood, TX
Friendswood / Pearland / Houston Bay Area

Larry, this is just too cool! You have stumbled onto something really neat. I would love to give it a try, but with a last name like King, it just wouldn't work. Even my maiden name, Webb, is too common. Really great post!

Jan 09, 2012 02:23 PM
Amy Jones Group
South East Valley - www.AmyJonesGroup.com - Chandler, AZ
4 Time BEST OF OUR VALLEY Winner

What a great post! I've been checking into my family name of McGarrigle.  My husband Mr. Jones only thought about it... :)

Jan 09, 2012 02:24 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Larry

I think it's cool to trace your families root, you can can up with some cool things.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jan 09, 2012 02:25 PM
Bridget "Mortgage Mama" McGee
SWBC Mortgage 410-960-2061 - Baltimore, MD
Maryland Mortgage Mama NMLS#196068

Don-Larry, This is great stuff. 

We are hoping to head to Ireland with some of my extended family (2nd cousins twice removed or something?). We will be able to visit the family homestead where our grandmother's were born and raised, where family still lives!  There were 5 sisters that all made their way to Maryland and started a legacy of strong roots, love and family bonds. 

On another note, I am related to Regis Philbin....some connection in County Mayo....Now don't you want to be my friend?

 You are the perfect person to be the head of the family! May you find wonderful connections in your quest! 

Maryland Mortgage Mama

Jan 09, 2012 03:03 PM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

I can't tell you how much fun this has been.  It's been great.  Now...to do my Irish side so that I can connect with Bridget from the County of May.....  Erin Go Bragh!

Jan 09, 2012 04:13 PM
Peggy Wester
Realty Executives Integrity - Grafton, WI
Real Estate Agent Ozaukee & Washington County

Well, how cool is that??? Proves Facebook can be more than a way to learn what your "friend" had for dinner or that they rearranged their living room furniture.

Jan 10, 2012 12:14 AM
Andre R. Aragon
Greater Tampa Real Estate Photographer - Tampa, FL
Real Estate Photographer

Hi Larry - Amazing use of facebook - good for you, your family and history!

My last name Aragon goes back deep in Spain. My grandfather always said we were related to King Henry VIII by marriage - Catherine of Aragon. The only wife he did not knock off - thank goodness ;)

I will have to verify this tale someday

Jan 10, 2012 04:46 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Larry, never thought about using Facebook for family history...a great idea. My mom's day was from Germamy and my Dad's family from Budapest.  I remember reading in the Washington Post that a Reverend Vasvary had died and it was a nice article. Since Vasvary was my maiden name...I called to see if we were kin...we were not but who could say...without doing some research.

Jan 11, 2012 02:57 AM
Dee Mayers
Covina, CA
San Gabriel Valley, CA

Larry,
It is only natural for us to want to know where we came from, or where or name originated  Have you come across anyone in the Bettag family with your first name?

Jan 12, 2012 01:32 PM