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Who Do You Trust in Business?

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Real Estate Agent with Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, TREC #0492321

Who Do You Trust in Business?

I have been told numerous times, "People do not care how much you know, until they know how much you care". Well, it's the same way with trust too. Trust is not something that happens instantly, but is earned over a period of time or a series of events in each of our lives. I found this to be especially true in business. People only like to do business with those they have learned to trust, and those who have demonstrated that they can be trusted by their honesty, integrity, and character.

We develop relatiHandShakeonships with our sellers and our buyers, and would love to think that they trust us one hundred percent  in representing their interests to assist them with selling or buying a home.  But, what about our trust in our clients. I know whenever I have buyers sign that Buyer's Representation Agreement, I trust that will be loyal and committed with my services from agreement to closing, and beyond. However, for reasons unknown to me some buyers will disregard their agreement, and go off and purchase another home without you present, or even without informing the other agent or that builder's representative that they already have an agent representing them.

I would love to think that it didn't have anything to do with their trust in me, since I have always been truthful and up front with all my clients. Yet, I know this happens in our business, and no one ever seems to worry about how much trust we must have in them, or that they would honor their agreement, and let us help them all the way to closing and beyond. I believe trust goes two ways, and should never be one sided. 

If you are in any kind of business, sooner or later, the trust that you worked so hard to build with others, may be easily broken by a single event or a chain of events. This will surely happen when you trust in a another person. But one thing that I have learned in all my years is that you have to trust in someone, whether it's a good friend, a husband, a wife,  a parent, a relative, or a business associate.  

This song by Andrae Crouch expresses my feelings on TRUST.

I have been through a lot of challenges in my life, but I have l learned to Trust in my Lord, and to depend on his strength to get me through all of trials and circumstances. 

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Comments(39)

Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Yes, Belinda. I would have to admit that I feel great when I have earned someone's trust. As parents, it normally starts with our children trusting in us.

Jan 10, 2012 01:37 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Thanks, John(Q), That last statement has sustained me through many transactions that didn't make it to the finish line. Wishing you the Best in this Contest too!

 

Jan 10, 2012 01:39 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Thanks, Cathy. Proverbs 3:5-6 has been one of my favorites for a long time too. Our Word is all we have, and we do need to use it wisely to build up trust in one another.

BTW, Thanks for the re-blog.

Jan 10, 2012 01:42 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Thanks, Dorie, I thought about this for a few days, and wasn't sure which way I wanted to write it up. But, I believe that I presented a valid point about trust here. Without Trust in the Lord, none of us could make it through our trials and circumstances.

Jan 10, 2012 01:45 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Rebekah. I love how you summed it all up. There must be Trust and Belief in the person you are doing business with. Building Relationships should come before any sale.

Jan 10, 2012 01:47 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Yes, Anita. I believe we all need to gain our hope and strength by this last statement. Regardless of what we go through in life, it Great to Trust in Lord with all your heart.

Jan 10, 2012 01:51 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Teri, These are all very special folks in your life, who have proved and earned your trust. Have a Nice Evening!

Jan 10, 2012 01:54 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Lou, I appreciate your visit as always. I am glad you enjoy the video and this message. Have a wonderful evening!

Jan 10, 2012 01:55 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Yes, Carl and Ceil. Having a strong spiritual relationship certainly helps one to build that strong  trust relationship, since many can see right through our character. Honesty, Integrity and Character all go together in my opinion.

 

Jan 10, 2012 01:59 PM
Doug Bullwinkel
E Mortgage Capital, Inc. NMLS 1416824 - Roseville, CA
Mortgage Loan Officer NMLS #281609

Suggested Jerry.  Thanks for an inspirational post on the topic of trust, and how important it is to all of us in life and in business. 

Jan 10, 2012 05:39 PM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Hi Jerry--it's amazing that it doesn't matter how much we trust--there is not guarantee that that trust will be returned.  Until you get to the part about our Lord, where we know the trust comes without qualifications. 

Jan 10, 2012 06:06 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Thanks, Doug for the suggest. Trust should be a the top of our list for business and life.

Jan 10, 2012 11:30 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Janet, There are no guarantees in Life, but we all know that we can depend on our Lord to see us through anything.

Jan 10, 2012 11:32 PM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

Thanks for such an inspirational post Jerry!  I love Andre Crouch and I love him even more with my girl CeCe Winans by this side.  I say, trust in God ... all else are fallible.

Jan 11, 2012 12:25 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Lisa. Andrae and CeCe make a great duet with this song. Trusting in the Lord is all the truly matters.

Jan 11, 2012 12:32 AM
Wayne Johnson
Coldwell Banker D'Ann Harper REALTORS® - San Antonio, TX
San Antonio REALTOR, San Antonio Homes For Sale

Jerry-This is a great subject for our business. With so much at stake financially and emotionally, clients have to put a great deal of trust in us to do the right thing.

Jan 11, 2012 05:43 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Yes, Wayne. I agree. Our clients do have to put a lot of trust in us to do the right things, and we should since should be putting their interests above our own.

Jan 11, 2012 12:06 PM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®
I would trust you with my client referrals because I believe that you do trust in the Lord.
Jan 11, 2012 01:57 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Thanks, Joni for your trust in me as a professional. When we trust in the Lord, we can accomplish and overcome anything.

Jan 11, 2012 03:15 PM
Beth Bourg
Adobe EchoSign - San Francisco, CA
Adobe EchoSign

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Feb 02, 2012 11:00 AM