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Mirror, Mirror----WAIT! Don't Hang Me Yet!! by Feng Shui Long Island

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Home Stager with Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island #888

Mirrors are a huge principle in Feng Shui and also in Home Staging.  So much so that I'm going to give you the "lowdown" from a Feng Shui Consultants use of Mirrors....and the effects of them.

Mirrors are used quite often in Feng Shui with INTENT. They can be a way to intentionally draw someone into a space---or make them feel "pushed away."  For example, we usually recommend placing a mirror if you have a small entranceway, to "grace" someone into the space.  We also look for walls to hang mirrors where they reflect the outside.  "Letting the Outside IN" is a Feng Shui Principle to create the Yin/Yang of a space.  But every space is different and before hanging ANY mirrors, have someone hold them and see how they make you FEEL first. 

Mirrors also Intensify and Magnify anything they are reflecting.  If you hang a mirror and it's reflecting a blank wall, you will double the energy of nothing.  Always check to see the ENERGY of what that mirror faces.  Some lovely artwork opposite a mirror is a wonderful addition.....some people want to intensify LIGHT as well. 

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*Here's a little footnote before I forget:  With the exception of small mirrors used to institute a "cure" in Feng Shui, always make sure that a mirror is larger then your head and not broken up into pieces.  We need to see ourselves WHOLE and if the mirror is smaller then your head you are cutting off your AURA which is your energy field.

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We don't advise mirrors in the bedrooms, something people have a difficult time with.  If you need a mirror in your bedroom to check your clothes, try placing it INSIDE the closet door.  This is probably where I've seen the most difficulties with mirrors and SO many people aren't sleeping well.  If a mirror is opposite you and you wake up to face yourself every morning, it can be an energy draw.  Let's face it; we're not looking our best when we wake up!  Something to defect the mirror might be a large, colorful vase placed in front.  Pretty statues (2-we think in PAIRS in the bedroom) or use your own imagination.  Remember, if you are missing an Element you can intensify it here.

A true case in point on the power of Mirrors.  While at a client's home I found the couple was not sleeping well at ALL.  Both were up many times during the night and their bed faced a wall that had an overhang.  It did not have any artwork or lights directed UP but standing at the foot of the bed, I could FEEL like I was being pushed out.  FEEL it but not SEE it.  I hate when this happens but I was stuck in that room, unable to give them an answer on what to do.  Minutes went by and they're looking at me expectantly----"COME ON already"  I could hear them thinking.  I went through question after question and finally it dawned on the homeowner---she had taken down a large mirror and not knowing where to put it, had stored it behind the headboard, making them feel "pushed" into the wall!  Ah, nice to know I wasn't crazy after all :)

Another issue with bedroom mirrors:  I have often seen closeted mirrors.  The scenario here is having a closet with mirrors, the bed in the middle and windows at the other side of the room.  The occupants can feel as if they're being "pushed" outside.  An easy solution if you don't want to take them down is hanging a sheer fabric over them.  You can add color and warmth and close them during the evening.  Remember too that your TV has not only electromagnetic energy but a reflective quality.  Don't sleep with the TV on and if it's facing you, it's best to cover it at night.

Feng Shui DrainsThis is a BIG Feng Shui concern:  Mirrors should never reflect a drain.  We think of drains as simply that, drain energy which can drain our finances, health and business. 

We use mirrors as "cures" too.  Fighting with a neighbor?  We use a small 2" round mirror to gently deflect their energy back into their space.  We often place a small (3 to 5 inch) Bagua mirror over our front door facing out to deflect street energy, fast moving cars or T Junctions.  **A hint for buying mirrors:  Anytime you're purchasing something for Feng Shui and you look under those sites, the price goes up.  Small round mirrors can be found in craft stores for a dollar or two.  If you look for "Octagon" mirror instead of "Bagua" mirror they are often used to display jewelry and can be purchased very inexpensively.  I personally prefer the kind with NO WOOD around them but that is a matter of personal preference.

One more quick tip to be mindful of:  Convex and Concave mirrors are used only when necessary for certain very powerful remedies.  I personally have only used them a few times in over ten years so chances are you won't need it.

This was about as short as I could make this post and is only an overview of a complex subject in Feng Shui!  There is SO much more to mirrors and their own particular energy that they carry but keeping these points in mind when staging a home, selling a home or for your own personal use can make a very big difference.  Have you checked YOUR MIRRORS today?

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**Carole Provenzale has been a Certified Feng Shui Practitioner and owner of Feng Shui Long Island for over a decade providing on site Consultations for all of Long Island and New York City and Distance Consultations by phone.

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Laura Cerrano is a second-generation Certified New York City Feng Shui Consultant Expert. As a full-time Feng Shui consultant, Laura provides bicoastal consultations and workshops for residential, commercial, real estate developments, Fortune 500 companies and healing faculties. In addition, Laura is a resident teacher at the Metropolitan Institute of Design in Syosset, NY. She has been featured in highly respected publications and TV networks such as Bravo's "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen," PBS, CBC Television, BBC Radio and The New York Times. 

 

Comments(92)

Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
Heidi, Thank you for your question.  In some cases a mirror will be hung at an entrance way to draw people into their space---at other times it can make them feel pushed out.  Before hanging the mirror, I suggest you have someone hold it up and come in and out a few times...see how it makes you FEEL.  That will be your best indication as every home is different.
Feb 12, 2008 02:56 AM
Anonymous
tina
I wanted to hang a mirror in our Living Room but i already have a mirror on the entrance way that faces the wall i want to hang the mirror.  is that OK?  thanks for your advise.
Apr 27, 2008 08:04 AM
#76
Anonymous
tina

I wanted to hang a mirror in our Living Room but i already have a mirror on the entrance way that faces the wall i want to hang the mirror.  is that OK?  thanks for your advise.

Apr 27, 2008 08:10 AM
#77
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
Hi Tina,  If the mirrors are going to reflect eachother it's not a good Feng Shui Perspective.  Two opposing mirrors "bounce" off eachother and go into infinity.  Check to see exactly what it's reflecting and if that's the type of energy you want to magnify and intensify before hanging any mirror.
Apr 30, 2008 04:16 PM
Michelle Finnamore
Toronto GTA, Alliston, Newmarket - Vaughan, ON
Preparing your property for sale

I have just found this site now and absolutely needed this info for a job I am doing next week. Thank you for your advice.

AR to the rescue again!  :)

Jun 29, 2008 12:22 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Michelle, You're welcome to give me a call....Monday evening would be best, I will be out tomorrow and I'll try to answer your question.  Have a great night!

Jun 29, 2008 03:31 PM
Sheron Cardin
California Moods Inc - Selma, CA
ARTIST - A Home Stager/Sellers Best Friend!

80 comments Carole - wow! That is fabulous. You have hit on a subject that EVERYONE can use. Great job BFF

Jun 29, 2008 04:49 PM
Terrylynn Fisher
Dudum Real Estate Group - BuyStageSell.com - Walnut Creek, CA
HAFA Certified, EcoBroker, CRS, CSP Realtor, Etc.

Oh my gosh, so many questions, so little room to type them!  So, the convex mirror should be used when?

What to do to mitigage the office where I have no choice but to have the desk straight across from the door?  I hung a mirror opposite the door?  Am I sending all my goodies away?  Oh drat! Do you do phone consultations and I can draw you a picture?  I think I need you.  Let me know if you plan a trip to California...I'm not really kidding.  It'd be fun to meet in person anyway.  GREAT post.

Jun 29, 2008 07:00 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Sheron, I love when these old posts get pulled back up somehow, this was a personal favorite of mine.

Terrylynn, I do phone consultations all the time but need a LOT of information...but they do work, my clients are very happy.  If you can't see who's entering the door in Feng Shui you have an "unprotected back."  You should hang a mirror so that you can see who is entering.  Just make sure it's at a correct angle so you can see.  I'd love to meet you in person one day as well!

Jun 30, 2008 01:34 PM
Anonymous
Lyria

Carole,

What about mirrors at the top of stairs?

Thanks,

Lyria

Oct 02, 2008 01:37 PM
#84
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Lyria, It actually depends on how it makes you FEEL.  I always ask someone to hold a mirror before hanging it....I want to see what it reflects and most importanly if it makes you feel GOOD.

Oct 02, 2008 04:44 PM
Wendy Timmons
Move Home Realty - Temecula, CA
Temecula Realtor

Carol- I am just seeing this, and you wrote it last year! But good posts stay alive forever!! Thanks for the information. I have bookmarked it. I love all your posts and someday will sit down and read all that I have missed :)

Oct 03, 2008 01:43 AM
Cathy Lee
CL Design Services Home Staging - Danville, CA
ASP, IAHSP, RESA Danville, CA

Carol my friend,  one of our local Realty offices is moving to a new location and had me in yesterday for a consultation.  I discussed mirrors and windows with them and had some doubters.  It was wonderful to email your article to them.  You are such a wonderful addition to AR.  Thank you for the wisdom you share. 

Oct 03, 2008 03:17 PM
Fred Carver Real Estate Consulant
Retired BC Realtor - Victoria, BC
Accredited Real Estate Consultant

Hi Carole...Great post on Mirrors, and I thought it was Mother Nature calling in the middle of the night, now to convince my wife to cover the old TV(never on) and the Mirror mounted on the Dresser facting the foot of our Bed...Great Post!

Cheers, thanks for sharing!

Oct 03, 2008 03:50 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Wendy, My goodness, you would have a LOT of reading to do :)  It's amazing how these old posts get new "life" when someone finds them and comments!

Cathy, I am SO glad it helped them to listen to you!  It is sometimes difficult to get  some people to see things from another perspective isn't it?  I'm sure you did a phenominal job for them.

Fred, Funny that people don't realize TV's reflect and should be covered at night if it's facing you.  How's real estate in Victoria, I'll bet you are doing a fabulous job even in this market your area is gorgeous!!

Oct 03, 2008 04:08 PM
Anonymous
Kerri
I have a decorative element over my bed which has many tiny mirrors on it. Is that bad? I just think it's so pretty. The mirrors act like sparkly crystals more than your classic mirror. They are dime and qurter sized. Please advise!!
Aug 20, 2009 09:18 PM
#90
Kate Talarico
Kates Home Staging and Interior Design - Goshen, NY
RESA, Top Orange County Home Decorator & Stager

An excellent, well written post, I am so glad you linked to this post from one of your newer ones.  The information about how to use mirrors was very education and helpful.  Thank you for posting this. Kate

Jan 10, 2010 10:57 AM
Fred Carver Real Estate Consulant
Retired BC Realtor - Victoria, BC
Accredited Real Estate Consultant

Hi Carole...I'm off to find a nice mirror for our Front Entrance hallway to bring in some of the Great South Facing Light...great post, I bookmarked it fir future reference

Mar 04, 2010 02:39 PM
Gabriela Agostinelli
RE/MAX100 - Leonardtown, MD
Gabriela A-Team

Great post, like always! Thank you!

Mar 05, 2010 02:36 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

The problem: a lot of bedrooms have huge sliding mirrors in them...:) 

Sep 19, 2016 06:12 PM
Laura Cerrano

Most of what you read are general suggestions and insights as each persons home will be different and unique. And yes, even my fiance has two large sliding glass doors, so we are just even more mindful of how we keep his bedroom. :)

Sep 19, 2016 09:35 PM