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Trust. With Humor Attempted.

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax



Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman



I trust that my dogs will sit when I tell them. Except in close proximity to a squirrel. Unless I have a TREAT.

I trust that my cat will not sit when I tell it. Even if I have a treat. I do no have a cat. You cannot trust them.

 

 

 

 

 

 


Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman

I trust that my wife likes me. She has since she was 20. I like her too. Since I was 20. She is my first and last wife. This I trust.

I generally want to be liked more than loved. Like is a positive, friendly, warm emotional response.

Love is a commitment. Loyalty in the face of adversity, helpfulness in time of need, courtesy when none should be given, self sacrifice on behalf of the one loved...whether  "liked" at that moment or month or months.

True friends love you, your acquaintances do not.

Forget it. I will take being loved over being liked. Although I do want to be liked by those I love and those that love me.

These things I trust.

 

 

 



Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman


I love my children. I do not always like them. They feel the same way about me. This I trust.

I trust that if I purchase a used car, the results will be excellent. Experience bears this out.

If I recommend a particular used car to my mother-in-law, it will be the worst LEMON ever to wear four wheels. Experience bears this out.

This I trust.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman



I trust America's founding principles. I know that we as a nation will not always honor those principles or do the right thing.

Yet we have proved over time that we will provide shelter to the oppressed and disadvantaged when the self proclaimed, more enlightened countries have closed their doors.

We are a country that over time corrects her mistakes. May we continue.

In this I hope.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman


I trust that if I buy a deluxe snow-blower based on recent humongous storms, that no significant accumulation will occur for the next 7 years. That is a worthwhile investment.

I trust that my Sears lawn mower will start as it has for the last 21 years despite neglect and abuse.

If my Sears lawn mower does not start. I will buy another Sears lawn mower. Trust me.

 

 

 

 

 

 


Virginia Landscape Photographer and Realtor Steve Bachman
I've discovered that some of the darkest, saddest moments of  life contain the most useful, long lasting, even beautiful revelations of underlying truth.

The hurt will linger and often just be hiding. I trust that this will continue to be my experience.

Time does heal. Pain you never thought would relent can diminish. I hope time continues to offer this balm.

God never guaranteed me an easy life, filled with non-stop fun and happiness.

He does offer contentment and comfort in time of sadness in this life and an amazing experience in the next, if I trust His promises and ask for His forgiveness. I trust God.

 

 

 

 

 

This post is a submssion to the ActiveRain/Adobe Echosign Trust Contest. I could possibly win a prize.



 

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Comments(72)

Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
Luxury service in Central Maryland

One of those "I wish I had written that" posts. You can trust that I will visit your blog often :)

Jan 16, 2012 02:47 PM
Eric Michael
Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI - Livonia, MI
Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519
I like this post. It's written very well.
Jan 16, 2012 02:50 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

I trust that if I subscribe, you will continue to share your thoughts with this same kind of humor.

Margaret

Jan 16, 2012 02:58 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Steve and Jan - "self sacrifice on behalf of the one loved...whether  "liked" at that moment or month or months"

I think many don't realize that true love should continue even when like  temporarily wains.

Jan 16, 2012 03:50 PM
Donald Reich
Madison Specs - New Rochelle, NY
Cost Segregation Specialist

Beautiful post Steve & Jan. And I don't trust cats either . . . in fact I can't stand them!

Jan 16, 2012 03:54 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

What a beautiful, witty and charming post about trust.  There's truth and humor in it and trust me, that's a wonderful combo!  :-)

Jan 16, 2012 04:33 PM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Hi Steve--great post and well deserved feature.  Neither of my cats would ever sit or entertain following any other directive I issued.  At least I trusted their genetics to know when to give that up!

Jan 16, 2012 05:48 PM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

Hi Steve, great post. Way to put a different twist to the contest submission!              

Jan 16, 2012 06:23 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Steve, excellent post with some wonderful insights.  I'm now  undecided whether I love this post or like it??

Jan 16, 2012 10:44 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Nick you are now walking condensed wisdom. Just don't make the same mistakes a fourth time.

Pat, I want a Labradoodle too! I trust that if I buy dog toys, they will find a sock to tug between them. They prefer socks that have been freshly removed.

Praful, Thank you.... are you the ipad decision maker?

Thanks David. Is your last name US Mortgages? That would be great SEO eh?

 

 

Jan 17, 2012 12:23 AM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Ellie, thanks. If you visit my blog often I am sure that you will be bored to tears. For example check out today's barnburner.

I can email you if I have something you might like :-) ....nah.

Jan 17, 2012 12:30 AM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Thanks Eric, I am glad you liked it.

Margaret, as I mentioned to Ellie above, most of my posts have exciting title like "Homes for Sale in Bugs Hollow" etc. I will do my best to keep you happy. Part of my job in life is keeping females happy. I have a mother, a wife, 2 daughters and 2 lady dogs. It is a tough job, but I am experienced.

Jan 17, 2012 12:48 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Well said, Steve.  You would really recommend a car to your mother-in-law.  My mother-in-law wants me to be the speaker at her funeral.  I'm not assuming that will happen anytime soon, but I did tell her I may have to make it a series.  8-)  Happy Tuesday!

Jan 17, 2012 01:46 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I agree!  That last photo has very special qualities to it, because of the effects of the light.  It evokes a great deal of emotion!

Jan 17, 2012 02:17 AM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Mike, my mother- in-law does not want me to attend her funeral...the cars were that bad.

Thanks Meryl, much of photography is fortunate moments like that.

Jan 17, 2012 02:38 AM
Glenn Freezman
Nucazza LLP & Home Buying Evolution, & Family Abstract, Inc - Fort Washington, PA

Steve, Perfect.  Yours is the first post that i can agree with Carla 100%.  Believe me, thats an accomplishment!

Jan 17, 2012 03:31 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Steve. You have put your trust in your family, your pets, and some other things, but the one that truly sticks out in my mind is that you have "Always put your Trust in God". I trust God will continue to Bless you and Jan.

 

Jan 17, 2012 03:59 AM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Glenn, I am glad that I was able to find common ground that you and Carla can share...however temporary :-)

Thanks Jerry, bottom line is that God is the only one able to back up His promises and commitments eh?

Jan 17, 2012 04:25 AM
Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

I love the one about the deluxe snow blower and the sears lawnmower!  Very cool trust blog. -Kasey

Jan 17, 2012 07:45 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

That's all you liked Kasey? Not the deep thoughtful parts?

Jan 18, 2012 12:57 AM