The Bette Midler song, "The Wind Beneath My Wings" is the song that my son Ryan picked for the Mother-Son dance at his wedding.  It really got to me and I didn't even know what song they had chosen for sure until that night.  I could see Mother-Son dancethrough blurry eyes, my friends standing there wiping tears from their eyes.  I could not look at them.  This was such a special night for my Son and his Bride, yet he picked such an appropriate song for us.   

Leading up the the wedding, all I could think of was my little boy and remember the cute little things he used to do. Ryan 5 days old

The way he used to ride his dirt bike when he was young, or the way he used to search for my approval when he hit a home run at baseball. 

We had this special bond and I just could not believe he was getting married.  He had went with Sara for 8 years, I should be prepared!  I was always the cool mom, how could I feel like this?  I thought I was losing him, and I suppose in a way, I did.

Ryan & SaraBut through all the good times and bad, he will always be my little boy with the emergency room visits, homecoming, prom, going off into the army, but, mostly the big wheel he loved so much when he was little and he would laugh out loud and go so fast. Even then he liked to go fast and I should have been prepared for the tickets to follow many years later.

 

 I am so proud of him and I am so glad he has someone in his life that he loves and loves him as well and makes him happy, in short, he found his soulmate!  If you can achieve that, you are doing pretty good.

"The Wind Beneath My Wings" by Bette Midler

Candy Henthorne
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41 Comments on The Wind Beneath My Wings

Wonderful tribute to you and a lovely song choice to recognize your support throughout the years.  Good job!

11/13/2007 11:38 PM by Norma Toering Rolling Hills & Palos Verdes Property (REMAX Palos Verdes, Palos Verdes Peninsula)


Norma - Thank you so much for those kind words!  I truly felt honored.

11/13/2007 11:45 PM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Candy, What a perfect song for your son to honor you with. I  can see why the tears were flowing so freely. They sure are a beautiful couple!

Ginger

11/14/2007 12:16 AM by Wilmington NC Real Estate Ginger & Roger Sala Keller Williams (Keller Williams Wilmington North Carolina)


Ginger - They are a beautiful couple!  Sara has been like a member of our family for 8 years before the wedding!  Thank you for the nice comment.

11/14/2007 12:23 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Candy - Such a sweet testament to how much you mean to him and to be so special as to share that with you on his wedding day.  You are a special Mom.

Jackie

11/14/2007 12:30 AM by Jackie Peraza, Home Stager - Framingham, Massachusetts (Perceptions AdverStaging(TM), LLC)


Candy...what a beautiful story!  Mothers and sons have a very special bond! You sound so proud of him.   Did your son get married this year?

11/14/2007 12:39 AM by Mary Warren, Las Vegas Real Estate (Keller Williams Southern Nevada)


Candy, that is just beautiful and I can see why you are proud! thanks for sharing

11/14/2007 06:06 AM by Charles McDonald / Your Trusted Broker for Charlottesville Real Estate (RE/MAX Assured Properties)


Candy,
How sweet of your son, his choice of "Wings Beneath My Wings" for your dance together was a beautiful way for him express his appreciation for you and what you did for him.  He's a keeper!  Lucky woman that got him.  

11/14/2007 07:15 AM by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc)


Candy,

I love your dress too!! Congratulations to your son and his wedding.  I'm sure you are very proud of him and looking back at your times with him fondly. 

11/14/2007 08:45 AM by Tracy Santrock - Cary NC Real Estate Blog (Fonville Morisey)


Jackie - It really was a sweet testament from him.  Thank you for stopping by.

Mary - We do have a special bond, in my case, I had my sons 11 years apart, so I had that bond with Rick as well as Ryan.  Surprisingly enough, they are very close.  No, Ryan got married last September.  I entered the contest and that is the only song that meant so much to me.

11/14/2007 09:30 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Charles -  I am indeed very proud of him!  Thank you.

Cynthia - Yes, it was very sweet of him to choose that song for us.  It meant so much, he knew I was having a hard time. lol  He is a keeper and she is a very lucky lady indeed!

11/14/2007 09:40 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Tracy - Thank you very much.  The dress was an adventure for sure, I almost ended up with two dreses.  lol  I had thought a lot about the good times when he was younger.

11/14/2007 09:44 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


How proud you must be! Wishing you and all of yours the best Candy. I'm sure you had a grat time.  :)

11/14/2007 10:02 AM by Keith Perry - REALTOR® -West Metro Atlanta (Coldwell Banker)


Oh my gosh Candy, I didn't even need to listen to the song to have the tears flow.  As I was reading, I could feel the love you and your son have for each other.  What a blessing that is.  Completely priceless and something that will always be.  Have you read the book Always and Forever?  It's one of my faves that I have read to my children.  My boys now 14 (twins) loved that book.  If you haven't read it, you should.  I'll warn you, it will bring tears to your eyes, but it's such a wonderful book. 

Thank you for sharing your story and touching my life today.  

11/14/2007 10:10 AM by Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~Utah REALTOR® (Keller Williams Salt Lake City)


Congratulations!  My son is only 2 1/2 and I already think about and dread the day he leaves home!!  But, as a daughter-in-law my advice to you is to realize that you prepared him for this stage of his life, but his decisions are now his (and his wife's) so support them in whatever they choose to do, and they will always welcome you in their home:)

11/14/2007 10:11 AM by Shannon Stites (FrontGate Properties)


What a wonderful story Candy. I was tearing up just reading it.

I have 3 sons. All are "grown" or at least they think they are. 24,23,19

 

11/14/2007 10:12 AM by Homes for Sale in Central Florida - Jacqueline Fortier (Cinderella Realty, Inc.)


Keith & Robin - I was so proud of him!  I did have a great time after a couple drinks to loosen up a little.  lol

11/14/2007 10:32 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Julie - Thank you so much!  You have twins!  I bet they are a hoot!  Are they identical twins or mirror twins?  I have clients that are mirror twins, they drive Monster Trucks on the Monster Jam circuit.  If you have boys, you know what that is.   I will check out that book.  Thanks for stopping by.

11/14/2007 10:37 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Shannon - Thank you for the kind words.  I tend to be a little over protective of those I love and care about.  Ryan used to tell me, Mom, you just don't need to love me so much!  lol  Enjoy them while you can as they grow up way too fast.

11/14/2007 10:44 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Jacqueline -  3 boys and all close in age.  I bet it was a fun time in your house when they were younger!  Ryan is 33 and my youngest Rick is 21, he will be 22 Dec 4.  Thank you for the kind words.

11/14/2007 10:48 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Candy, It was a BEAUTIFUL wedding!! I can say that because I was there.  Your raised a wonderful son and I am glad that he found the woman of his dreams. 

11/14/2007 11:07 AM by Marchel Peterson Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro ABR (Results Realty)


Marchel - I am glad he has found his soulmate and he is happy!  That is all I ever wanted for my kids.  Thank you for the kind words and being there for me as well during that stressful time.  :)

11/14/2007 11:11 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


You are so welcome! Yes they are identical and they are a hoot.  Monster Jam-my boys love that kind of stuff.  Have a fabulous day!

11/14/2007 04:39 PM by Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~Utah REALTOR® (Keller Williams Salt Lake City)


Julie - I figured they would!  lol  Thanks for stopping by Julie! 

11/14/2007 05:05 PM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Candy, I can't think of a more beautiful song he could have chosen to show you how much he loves you.  I sometimes argue with my son but we too have this amazing bond that goes so deep.  He's not yet married and I wonder if I can possibly get through it without crying.  Not likely!

11/14/2007 05:15 PM by Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City)


Carole - I am sure you will be weeping during that ceramony.  :)  I think it is harder for the son's Mom (of course I do)  I have nothing to compare to. 

11/14/2007 05:22 PM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


A more moving and poignant selection of music could not be had Candy! Just reading your first lines made me well up. The shots are very lovely also - you have all done well! 

11/15/2007 03:29 PM by Deborah Pearce - Living Spaces - Kelowna Home Staging & Interior Design (Living Spaces Interiors & Home Staging)


Deborah - Thank you so much for the kind remarks.  I normally do not write about personnal family as you know, but when I read about the contest for the song that has the most meaning to me, that was the only song that came to mind.  I am so proud of him, can you tell Deborah? 

11/15/2007 04:39 PM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Not difficult at all Cindy how much that boy means to you! A very beautifully moving song selection like that has to come from a thoughtful heart. You are beautiful dancing.

11/15/2007 06:01 PM by Deborah Pearce - Living Spaces - Kelowna Home Staging & Interior Design (Living Spaces Interiors & Home Staging)


Congratulations to your son and his new wife and congratulations to you for your addition to your family.

11/16/2007 12:14 AM by Todd Clark (Realtor), GRI (Washington Co, Beaverton Oregon) (Kastings & Associates, Beaverton Oregon Real Estate)


Todd - Thank you for the kind words and we feel blessed to have Sara as a part of our family.

11/16/2007 01:09 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Candy - What a terrific post.  Congratulations to your son and his bride.  This was poignant and interesting, and I appreciate you sharing it during our contest.  Very well done!

11/16/2007 01:41 AM by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)


Jason - Thank you for the opportunity to enter this contest and I appreciate your kind words as well. 

11/16/2007 09:04 AM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


wow I am in tears - what a great message - thank you for sharing you look great by the way :o)

11/25/2007 02:24 PM by Central Oregon Real Estate | Thesa Chambers, Broker (RE/MAX Sunset Realty La Pine)


Thesa - Thank you so much for the kind words.  I am getting better about sharing this personal stuff.  lol  

11/25/2007 05:15 PM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


Candy,  I'm so happy for your son and his new bride and for YOU !!  You've done a wonderful job raising him and the song was his way of telling you so.  I love the pictures......just gorgeous. 

Thank you for sharing this special day with all of us...

((-:

Jo 

11/27/2007 11:23 AM by Jo-Anne Smith-Belleville, Quinte and Prince Edward Region Real Estate, Ont. (Royal Lepage Proalliance Realty, Brokerage)


Jo - I am very proud of him I love both my boys so much!  I is amazing how fast they grow up.

11/27/2007 12:32 PM by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty)


I'm glad you got to have your moment with Ryan at his wedding. I bet it is something you will never forget. And I know you are lucky because both your boys are such nice young men, I would know because I have met them both!

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04/10/2008 06:04 AM by szdfhdf


Hi Candy,  I love that song. You are lucky to have a son who feels that way about you and would play that at his wedding. You are not losing him. He is just growing up.

04/10/2008 11:02 PM by Megan McGonigal - Cecil County, MD & Harford County, MD real estate (RE/MAX Integrity)


This song holds a very special place in my heart as it was selected for me by a group of people who came to know me through some training we were realizing back some 15 years ago.  I still get calls, emails and letters asking if it is still my song.  The answer will always be yes.  You have a much different place for it than I do and the story is wonderful.  Glad we share more than the AR family.  Thank you for the post and thank your son for caring about his mother so openly.

04/24/2008 10:21 PM by L. Wayne Denton I HAVE A HANDLE ON YOUR MARKET! ! ! ( Magnolia Signature Homes)


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