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Real life problems.... My dad had a small stoke...Warning signs of a stroke

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Real Estate Agent with John L. Scott Sp34627

Today I am dealing with real life problems. Yesterday My dad had a small stroke.  This will be his third and the prognosis is very good.  He is 72 and is about to embark on a research study in Jerusalem with Hadassah Hospital.  Of course this could mess up his plans but I think if we have no further problems they will be able to go.  Of course it makes me nervous but he has been working on this project for 23 years and really wants to go... His right side is affected but yesterday he was dropping his fork and food and today he was managing much better... So today I will take care of my dad...  It is a familiar role... Caregiver... I have done this for others and I will do it again... It so much better then the alternative.  dav No real estate.  We took the pending off the market to fix it and count the 31 days for a new listing...

I am posting the warning signs of a stroke...

Here are the stroke warning symptoms:  Call 911 and/or get the person to the hospital within 3 hours of the onset of symptoms...This could be the difference between life and death.... recovery and disability.

From http://www.webmd.com/stroke/news/20080508/few-aware-of-stroke-warning-symptoms

According to the CDC, the five warning symptoms of a stroke are:

  • Sudden weakness or numbness of the arms, legs, or face, especially on one side.
  • Sudden vision problem in one or both eyes.
  • Sudden dizziness, loss of balance or coordination, or difficulty walking.
  • Sudden confusion or trouble speaking.
  • Sudden severe headache with no known cause.

Promptly recognizing stroke warning symptoms and seeking immediate emergency care can mean the difference between life and death or disability. Patients whose stroke is caused by an interruption of the blood supply to the brain (blood clot) can be treated with clot-busting drugs, but such medicines should be given within three hours of symptom onset. Other type of strokes may require immediate surgery to prevent serious disability or death.

View from the hospital room.  

 

Posted by

 Debbie Holmes

John L. Scott Real Estate

  

(208)761-2551 Email: d5holmes@msn.com

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Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
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Hi Debbie,

This is very good information. My mother had never been sick and was so active; driving, going shopping, out to eat daily, getting her nails and hair done, playing bridge and living alone. She was 87 and went into the hospital and had a knee replacement. She did not like wearing the stocking after surgery and used to argue with the nurses. She was released and I took her home 2 months later. I hired a girl to take care of her and my mother told me she was talking about her. The lady did not speak much English so I was confused about this but let it go. 2 days later my mother had a severe stroke. She never completely recovered and died just before her 89th birthday. The doctor told me she had probably imagined the lady was talking about her.....hearing things! I know now I should have been more observant but your blog may help others to be more prepared and get medical care sooner than we did.

God Bless your dad and I pray he recovers soon!

Jan 21, 2012 04:55 AM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Debbie

Thanks for sharing.

Both my parents are 87 years old. Although my dad has been very healthy all his life, he is slowing down. My mom, on the other hand, has serious health issues and was hospitalized 7 times last year. We almost lost her more than once.

I read somewhere about the signs of a stroke

  • Say a complete sentence -- addresses confusion or difficulty in speakin
  • Raise arm --- addresses weakness or numbness in arms/legs
  • Smile --- addresses weakness or numbness in face

These seem to be easy to remember....but it isn't merely for our elderly parents as a stroke can affect anyone at anytime.

 

Jan 21, 2012 05:04 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID
Debbie....I am glad he is improving...and I hope he will be able to travel soon. great idea to post stroke warnings here on your blog!!!
Jan 21, 2012 05:04 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID
I forgot to say that you are a very special daughter to take time out to take care of your dad...I know he is proud of you!!
Jan 21, 2012 05:05 AM
Debbie Holmes
John L. Scott - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

I am so sorry for your loss....The signs of stroke can be insidious.  Usually when you look back you can figure out there was a problem.... My father was having trouble the day before with cooridination with his hands... He often has trouble so we let it go....  It probably wouldn't have made a difference for him...

Jan 21, 2012 05:13 AM
Debbie Holmes
John L. Scott - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

Thank you Pacita... That might be eaiser to remember in a crisis... Thanks Deborah... He would and has done the same for me.

Jan 21, 2012 05:15 AM
Curtis Van Carter
Better Homes & Gardens Wine Country Group - Yountville, CA
Your Napa Valley Broker Extraordinaire

Debbie

Even though you think you know the symptoms of a stroke, it is good to continually be reminded of what they are. Thanks for doing so and my prays go out to your father. It is good to read your current prognosis. cheers cvc

Jan 21, 2012 05:17 AM
Debbie Holmes
John L. Scott - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

Thank you Curtis...

Jan 21, 2012 05:22 AM
Mel Ahrens, MBA, Kelly Right Real Estate
Kelly Right Real Estate - Hood River, OR
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Best wishes that your dad will made a speedy recovery. Thanks for posting these warning signs. With strokes, I know that the sooner one gets help, the fewer the complications so identifying a stroke right away is imperative.

Gretchen

Jan 21, 2012 06:32 AM
Debbie Holmes
John L. Scott - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

Dad was released to home today!

Jan 21, 2012 10:25 AM
Larry Lawfer
YourStories Realty Group - Newton, MA
"I listen for a living." It's all about you.

Debbie, I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's setback.  I know from my own Dad (92) that you can live a long and productive life after a stroke. Congratulations to you for being a care giver, you are already at the head of the real estate class because providing care for our clients is far more important than the commission.  I am so happy to see your Dad was released and now get back to helping your clients and prospects.  You are a hero.

Jan 23, 2012 01:15 PM
Debbie Holmes
John L. Scott - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

Thank You Larry...

Jan 23, 2012 05:14 PM
Linda K. Mayer
License # 01767321 - La Verne, CA
Realtor, SRES, SoCAL, A REALTOR YOU CAN TRUST

Debbie:  So sorry to hear about your dad... but I'm glad he's doing a bit better.  I'm gloing to reblog this because people need to know the signs!

Jan 25, 2012 10:45 AM
Debbie Holmes
John L. Scott - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

Thank you for the reblog!

Jan 25, 2012 11:54 AM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

Just came from Linda's reblog.

You have provided some very useful information here Debbie.

I have suggested because this is important to know.

Jan 25, 2012 05:17 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Debbie - I agree with other commenters here. It is an important reminder what the symptoms of stroke are

Jan 29, 2012 05:43 AM
Debbie Holmes
John L. Scott - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

One of the most important facts that there is a 3 hour window of oppourtunity where the doctor can use clot busters...  This can totally reverse the stroke (or heart attack) and allow the body to heal itself... My dad was not a candidate because his stroke was small and he was outside this window since he woke up with the problem....

Jan 29, 2012 06:22 AM