Do you remember that episode of "I Love Lucy", where she works in the chocolate factory and the candy assembly line starts moving faster and faster, while she tries to cope with it by stuffing the bonbons in her mouth and her clothes?  That was me a few weeks ago.  

When your personal life is in the dumpster, it seems so much harder to cope with it all.   In this business I am a solution finder.  I navigate the sea of problems on a daily basis and I am good at it.  I didn't realize how difficult it would be dealing with other people's problems while your own life is spinning out of control... 

I'm done licking my wounds, and I'm back at work in full force.  I appreciate my team more than ever!  What great people I have!  I am in awe of them!  I am thankful for the systems I put in place, which kept the business on cruise control... 

The moral of the story is this:  if you have not put systems into place, take December & January to do so.  If you become ill, or just emotionally drained, what will happen to your business?   Teach your team members how to become self sufficient and encourage them to rely on each other and help each other out.  The cohesiveness and success of the team should always be the focus, it should be at the core of your mentoring and one of your mission statements.   Take it from me: you can not afford not to... 

 

 

17 Comments on I broke up with my boyfriend; my grandma turned 95 and my sister's getting married... Thank God for good support systems and an excellent team, or my personal life would have killed my business...

I would love to hear from other agents about the systems they have in place.

11/15/2007 06:24 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


So... what's you're sign...?

I kid you Mirela. Glad to hear you rebounded and back in control of things again.

Michael

11/15/2007 06:30 PM by Michael Tarabotto (Certified Appraiser) Santa Clarita, San Fernando, Westside (California Appraisal Solutions Corp.)


When my daughter was in a serious car wreck this summer, my team totally picked up the slack. They had all the sellers calling them and did over and above the call of duty. I can go out of town and have no worries.

11/15/2007 06:33 PM by Missy Caulk Ann Arbor Realtor Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams Ann Arbor)


MIrela - So good to hear that your ship has righted it's course. I will be in Myrtle Beach for yet another Thanksgiving with my father in law. Tell me the weather will be delightful.

11/15/2007 06:33 PM by John MacArthur The MacArthur Group (Long and Foster Real Estate, Inc.)


John, your stay will be delightful, regardless of the weather!  That's what family is for!  Plus the Beach is gorgeous when it's sunny, when it's stormy, in the morning, at night, at sunset, at sunrise...  Have a great one! 

11/15/2007 06:37 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


Thank you for sharing Missy!  I hope your daughter is well now! 

11/15/2007 06:40 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


So, there's your sign...get it...great support system...cause if you and I were in the Lucy episode...I would have eaten more chocolate than you...well maybe...

Good luck, Glad you are OK...

11/15/2007 06:41 PM by Karen Monsour,REALTORĀ® Broward,Palm Beach,Miami/Dade! 954-464-4194 anytime! (EXIT Team Realty)


I am sorry for all you went through. However sometimes when challanges are put in front of us we can rebound stronger than ever.

11/15/2007 06:43 PM by Ginger Magoon, College Station, Texas Real Estate (RE/MAX Bryan College Station Texas)


That's funny Karen!  Thank you!  I'll call you next time.

11/15/2007 06:43 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


I appreciate it Ginger!  Thank you!  "That which does not kill us makes us stronger" (Nietzsche)

11/15/2007 06:46 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


Wow!  Sounds like your plate was full indeed!  It's nice that you're back on track.

11/15/2007 06:50 PM by DALIA KIBBY (KEYES COMPANY)


Thank you Dalia!  Glad to be back!

11/15/2007 06:55 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


After a storm, we clean up and get on with the businss of living our lives--and it sure makes things easier if there's a team to help and support us.

11/15/2007 07:09 PM by Norma Toering Rolling Hills & Palos Verdes Property (REMAX Palos Verdes, Palos Verdes Peninsula)


VERY GOOD MIRELA, THANK YOU FOR SUCH ENCOURAGING WORDS TO THE TEAM, SO GLAD TO HEAR THAT YOUR KICKING AGAIN. IF WE ALL DON'T WORK TOGETHER AND WATCH EACH OTHER'S BACK, WHAT KIND OF TEAM WOULD WE HAVE. LET'S GO GET UM GIRL!!! DARLENE

11/15/2007 07:14 PM by DARLENE OLIVO


Thank you Darlene!  Glad to see you on AR!  So glad to have you on my team!  You go, girl, and keep up the great work!

11/15/2007 07:22 PM by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Connection


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