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I remember the first time I ever …

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Richard Weisser Realty

I remember the first time I ever …I remember the first time I ever …

Saw a color TV. It was at my great-uncle’s house. I was told that he was very wealthy!

Used a touch-tone phone. We all marveled at the fact that we no longer had to “dial” the phone number.

Ate my first piece of shrimp. I was eighteen years old. Back in those days, we didn’t get around much, and shrimp was not as readily available as it is today.

Warmed food in a microwave oven. We take it for granted now, but it was quite a revolution back in the day!

Used my first computer. It was an IBM 360 and I used a keypunch to enter my program via a cardreader.

Bought my first house. It was 1979 and was much easier than I thought that it would be. I saved up my down-payment and after signing a few papers, I had a brand new home with an FHA 245 negative amortization but fully assumable loan.

Was I apprehensive about taking the plunge and buying a house? Actually, not at all. Owning a home was the American Dream and although I was relatively naïve about the process, I have never looked back.

In the ensuing six years I purchased four different homes. I actually enjoyed moving in those days. Then I settled down and stayed in a house until it was owned free and clear.

There is nothing frightening about buying a house. You have to live somewhere anyway, so why not have complete control of your residential destiny?

As far as I am concerned, nothing matches the self-satisfaction that results from owning your own home.

Is it still the American Dream?

That’s up for each individual to decide.

But to me, the notion of living in a house that belongs to someone else is a nightmare!

James Quarello
JRV Home Inspection Services, LLC - Wallingford, CT
Connecticut Home Inspector

I do remember when microwaves were "new" and color TV's were very rare to see. I was more than a little surprised at how easy it was for me to buy my first house too. Like you I have never looked back and enjoy the freedom of ownership over renting. 

Jan 27, 2012 03:02 AM
Woody Edwards
First Choice Realty, Inc - Chesterfield, VA
A Realtor® Who Answers His Phone!

First color TV....how about first black and white, or first window AC unit.  Took 2 grown men to install (probably 150 lbs) and was made by International Harvester.  Or calling the operator by name, and her asking which kid I wanted to talk to!

But enough reminiscing......You are right! Why pay your landlords mortgage for him!  And he gets all the write-offs!

Jan 27, 2012 03:10 AM
Judy Orr
HomeSmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale AZ and surrounding towns

Those memories... I don't know if the first color TV I saw was at someone else's house or if we were one of the first.  Small screen, huge TV chassis.  I don't even remember the transition to push button phones, guess I liked those dials and I purposely bought them for my house when I moved out - one was a fancy antique looking French phone and the other was a Micky Mouse phone we could buy at the AT&T store.  I remember punch cards for our computers and my first job where I had to wear a sweater to go into the cold computer room, which was filled with huge machines wall-to-wall.

I was 22 when I bought my first house.  I hated renting with a passion.  I wanted to paint and decorate and have pets and answer to no one.  My first mortgage was 10% down, 15 year mortgage - I think it was 10.5% interest and we didn't blink an eye.  I purchased quite a few more residences after that and could never imagine ever having to rent again.

When I was renting I did everything to save for my first house - I couldn't wait.  No one could stop me, it was a huge goal.  I love helping first-time buyers find their first home because I remember the happiness I felt when I finally did it myself.

Jan 27, 2012 03:38 AM
Linda Fidgeon
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Page Realty - Wrentham, MA
Make your next move your best move!

My First house (1976) cost $40,000. We " assumed" a $28,000 mortgage from the previous owner( remember those) because it was 8.5% interest. At the time, I think new mortgages were running about 12%. Ahh, the good old days - one car, one TV, 1 phone, no electronics. Life was simpler, and cheaper.

Jan 27, 2012 04:13 AM
Raymond Denton
Homesmart / Evergreen Realty - Irvine, CA
Irvine Realtor®

I remember the first grocery store in Laguna Niguel, in 1972, an Alpha Beta near Niguel Road and Crown Valley Parkway.  It was only a couple miles from our house - prior to that we had to drive to El Toro, 11 miles away.  It may not seem like much, but it sure made our lives easier, especially since I was the family member that did the shopping.

Jan 27, 2012 05:05 AM
Jan Stevens
Coldwell Banker Pittsburgh - Cranberry Township, PA

Your words brought back great memories, and you made a terrific point about home ownership. I think for most it is still part of the American Dream; I hope that most still see it as achievable.

Jan 27, 2012 05:34 AM
Debby Singleton
Springer Realty Group - Limerick, PA
Top Producer since 1993

Richard, hi.  Thanks for the walk down memory lane.   I did all of these things just a year or two behind you but loved the look back!   I do think homeownership is part of the American Dream but maybe only when you're ready and not when you have to overextend yourself and put your financial future in jeopardy.    Moderation in all things is good and that includes mortgage debt.   

Jan 27, 2012 05:53 AM
Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

I love this post too.  I remember when I was a kid and swore that I would never have a cell phone because they cause cancer.  I also remember not understanding what a DVD was.  Lots of technology firsts.  I also remember when I first started selling real estate I had no idea what "prepaids" or an escrow account were.  I was so confused I had to have my escrow officer explain it to me about four times (I hadn't bought a house yet when I got into real estate).  Now, 8 years later, I try to remember all those things I didn't know and treat the buyer appropriately if they don't understand things that we think are so easy and commonplace in our industry. -Kasey

Jan 27, 2012 07:49 AM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Richard:  Do you remember having an ice box instead of a refrigerator ?  I remember my parent's ice box.  I remember the "ice man" delivering a huge blog of ice.  He carried it into the house/apartment using a large set of ice tongs... and put it into the ice box.  I have some friends my age who still call their fridge the "ice box." 

Also... remember when they used to deliver milk... in glass bottles.  You'd open the front door in the morning, and there would be a bottle or two of fresh milk sitting next to the door waiting for you.  Honestly, I really wish those days were still here.

Jan 27, 2012 07:51 AM
Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

Karen Anne, I sooo which I had milk delivered in glass bottles to my front door in the morning.

Jan 27, 2012 08:35 AM
Dana Cottingame
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Dallas, TX

Thank you for triggering such great memories. I grew up in rental property and hated it. When I got the chance to buy a house at 20, I was thrilled. In 1971, it cost $24,000. It was 1000 sq ft. The house was a cracker box 20 feet wide and 50 feet long but it was mine. I have bought several houses since then and my skin crawls to think I might have to live in rental property again some day.

Jan 27, 2012 10:48 AM
Cindy Edwards
RE/MAX Checkmate - Johnson City, TN
CRS, GRI, PMN - Northeast Tennessee 423-677-6677

LOVE the post!  Can totally tell that's you in the photo.  My favorite first was becoming a mom.  Having Rachel laid upon me, nothing better.  I couldn't stop looking at her.  When I draw from experience for positive feelings, that's what I think about.

Jan 27, 2012 11:44 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Homeownership is a great thing.  I have owned two homes and rent now, but we are looking to buy this year or next.

Jan 27, 2012 12:00 PM
Jeanne Dufort
Coldwell Banker Lake Country - Madison, GA
Madison and Lake Oconee GA

My first look at a color TV was at my great-aunts' home (they were "spinsters", worked, and lived together on one floor of the home they inherited from Papa - so they were fantastically wealthy by by standards). We watched the Macy's Thangsgiving Day Parade! sometime in the early 60's.

thanks for the trip down memory lane.

Jan 27, 2012 12:55 PM
Winston Heverly
Coldwell Banker Access Realty - South Macon, GA
GRI, ABR, SFR, CDPE, CIAS, PA

Home ownership is great, but half me wishes to live in a high-rise in South Beach. The nightmares of a renatl don't compare to the bliss of city lights & a water view...

Jan 27, 2012 01:07 PM
Jimmy Phan
KELLER WILLIAMS REALTY IN MOORESVILLES, NC - Hickory, NC
Phan real estate group in hickory

Hi Richard

compare yours to mine....lol

there will be nothing scarer that came to another country without knowing a word to communicate.

how about that Richard   lol

thanks for sharing

jimmy phan

Jan 27, 2012 03:01 PM
Karen Steed
Tallapoosa, Bremen, Waco, Buchanan, Temple, Carrollton - Tallapoosa, GA
Associate Broker Haralson Realty

Memories...I was the first kid in our rural area who had a UHF antenna so I could watch all the "new" shows.  All my friends were envious.

Jan 27, 2012 04:24 PM
Sylvie Stuart
Realty One Group Mountain Desert 928-600-2765 - Flagstaff, AZ
Home Buying, Home Selling and Investment - Flagsta
I'm with you! And I do believe that home ownership is still the American dream. We need to educate people on the process so they aren't intimidated and teach them the how to get them started
Jan 28, 2012 01:27 AM
Bob Miller
Keller Williams Cornerstone Realty - Ocala, FL
The Ocala Dream Team

Hi Richard, clever way to build up to your point of buying a home!

Jan 29, 2012 10:03 PM
Bob Miller
Keller Williams Cornerstone Realty - Ocala, FL
The Ocala Dream Team

Hi Richard, clever way to build up to your point of buying a home!

Jan 29, 2012 10:05 PM