
How often do you expose yourself to the world? What a provocative question. You and I do it every day
without ever realizing that we are doing it. Every day when we get on our computers and start blogging, we are exposing ourselves to the ActiveRain community and the blogosphere. Do you let people see "the real you" or the person you want people to see.
I joined Active Rain about six months ago, in order to start on online presence for my business. I knew what blogging was, but I didn't have a clue what I was getting myself into. I started joining the groups to learn what I should write about. Find your voice, write about the community, write about the business, these were some of the responses I was receiving from different members of the community.
The caliber of writing in this community is just short of amazing. I was in awe of the stories that were unfolding before me. I was reading stories about Mediterranean Revival Architecture, tips on how to generate more business, and stories about some of the member's hometown. The passion & personality of the writers would shine through on the blog posts. I felt like I knew these people without ever meeting them.
I had been struggling with my writing because I felt like I had nothing to say or offer to the community. Everyone always say that you should write what you know. Sometimes I feel like a "jack of all trades and a master of none". So when Adam Waldman announced his Inpired By Song contest, something inside me went into overdrive. The premise of the contest was to write a post that revolved around the following subjects: Active Rain, Real Estate, Inspiration, and Family. You had to write your story around a favorite song that affects you on many levels.
The song I chose for my story was "Every Day is a Winding Road", and it was one of the most personal stories I had ever written. When I started writing, I couldn't stop. The words & the feelings were crashing over me like a wave on the ocean. This was a story I had kept to myself for a long time, but was compelled to write. These were some of the comments from my blog after posting to the group:
Adam Waldman writes:
"This was a great entry into the contest. I never, in my wildest dreams, thought that things would get so personal. I appreciate how much your put yourself out there. You've given some great advice on my posts, and you've given great unintentional advice with this one. Everyday truly is a winding road. It makes things difficult at times, but also interesting. Thanks again for your passion in this contest, Harold."
Paul Slaybaugh comments:
"What an amazing revelation this post was, Harold. I thank you for not only entering our contest, but doing so in such a "warts and all" fashion. We all have our demons. The strong person confronts them, and becomes even stronger. I am sorry for your loss, but happier for your gain. Thanks for this powerful and inspirational story."
This exercise in writing was one of the most liberating experiences I have ever had. I was able to express
myself in a way I had not done before. People were starting to see "the real me". I can talk about anything in the world, but being able to write about it is a huge leap for me.
When I write, I have to think I'm having coffee with someone, just talking. When you see my blog post, what you see is what you get. I hope you like what you are reading.
The best advice I can give to anyone who is starting the journey of blogging, "Just be yourself". Writing is about connection. Being able to put yourself into that author's story and saying "I get it".
One last question I have for everyone:
Am I seeing "the real you" when I read your blog?
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In a word: Yes.