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Reverse Mortgage Eating Her Options

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Real Estate Agent with Healdsburg Sotheby's International Realty

A listing agent I trust has a client with a reverse mortgage. A 98 year old client with a home anchoring her in rising water. She needs to be in assisted living, but she won't leave her house until it sells.

With bright eyes and a smile she welcomes buyers to her home. The conditions inside are awful, but in an understandable way. She has lost the ability to clean and cook for herself and the house reflects both her past life's glories and her restricted present. The beautiful woman in the World War II era photos wouldn't recognize the squalor she is living in today. She's still of reasonably sound mind, but is stubborn about leaving her house. Nobody wants to force her against her will, but everyone involved is concerned about her well being. 

Her biggest fortune these days is having a great listing agent who cares for her, but there are other people including an attorney and some guardians who are looking out for her interests. I am bringing buyers who are also solicitous of her needs. They are a wonderful couple with teeanagers who have been looking with me for years for a perfect parcel. When I hear about this listing's acreage and aspect, I bring them by to tour. They see through the crud and clutter and appreciate the fine structural condition of the house, and the property is a good fit.

They prepare an offer at a fair price, but find that the reverse mortgage in place eats all of the potential profit for the seller who won't budge without cash in hand. With any other seller, we would play hardball and stress the market value of our offer. Instead, with the pleading and cooperation of all parties, we up the offer to where the seller can pocket some cash. We don't know if it will be enough cash to pry her gently from the suffocating embrace of her living situation, but we'll find out soon.

Unfortunately for all of us, her fallback solution is to stay in the home until she dies. The reverse mortgage can't result in her being evicted, but in this case, it has trapped her by continually eroding any equity she had in the house. It's not wrong, and she did have the benefit of the reverse mortgage, but this final price is hard to bear. I think this will have a happy ending since all parties want the same final result and my buyers are prepared to do their part, but the reverse mortgage has complicated an already tough situation. Every month she waits to accept an offer makes it harder for a fair market transaction to generate any profit for her. 

I'd be happy to be as spry and witty at 98 as this seller. I'm just sad to see that a better living situation for her is proving to be so hard to arrange. I am sure she was promised that she could stay in her house until she died. She probably didn't bargain for how unhelpful that could be.

Jordon Wheeler
The Jordon Wheeler Group - Fairburn, GA
J W Group Real Estate Sales and Service

Good morning Dave,

Very intriguing story showing the reverse mortgage in a different light.  Thanks and much success to you this year!

Feb 10, 2012 04:00 AM
Dave Roberts
Healdsburg Sotheby's International Realty - Healdsburg, CA

Jordon - I'd never seen this downside of the reverse mortgage before. I'm glad I could share it.

Feb 10, 2012 04:52 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Dave,

What an interesting post and sad at the same time.  I was just contacted by a person in LA who does this kind of mortgage who wants to network with us.  Thanks for sharing this. A

Feb 10, 2012 05:57 AM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

Dave - do you know how long this reverse mortgage has been in place and where she would be today if she hadn't obtained it? This lady needs to get some in-home care, there are many services available in Sonoma County.

Feb 10, 2012 06:26 AM
Dave Roberts
Healdsburg Sotheby's International Realty - Healdsburg, CA

Alexandra - thanks for your feedback. The condition of her house is sad but she isn't at all. Every time I have been there I can hear her singing away happy as can be. 

Cynthia - As far as I know, the reverse mortgage has been in place, and useful to her, for a long tme. I think she is cantakerous enough that she has rejected some of the available programs that would normally be available to seniors here. The goal is to get her into an assisted living program that she can afford with her monthly income, rather than trying to maintain her in her now substandard home. The point of the post was that the reverse mortgages do have a bite at the end for seniors who are trying to move. The "til death do us part" may work for mortgages, but it's not a flexible way to plan your retirement housing.

Feb 10, 2012 09:40 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Dave - I had never thought about that aspect of reverse mortages. While I'd guess that this woman's situation is fairly unusual, it is also sad but wonderful that you and your clients are doing everything possible to provide a decent outcome.

Feb 10, 2012 11:19 AM
Marge Piwowarski
Phoenix AZ Horse Property - Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix AZ Horse Property, LLC

I have never seen a situation where a reverse mortgage benefited the elder homeowner over the long run. 

She is lucky to have you and your buyers. 

Feb 10, 2012 04:39 PM
Dave Roberts
Healdsburg Sotheby's International Realty - Healdsburg, CA

Marge - thanks for that feedback. I think the key term in your response is "long run". We don't like to think of ourselves as aging beings, but we're all a day older every day. When our life outlasts our money, it's not going to be pretty.

Feb 11, 2012 03:40 AM