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Success Begets Criticism

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Elite RM423455
Success Begets Criticism

Human nature being what it is, I have discovered a fact of life. When a person begins to achieve a certain level of success in whatever one is seeking proficiency, that person will experience a greater level of criticism. It is predictable.

Think about it. Initially when no one knows who you are, you will fly under the radar. No one notices your missteps. No one cares. Slowly you become more successful and folks notice. Others become jealous. Somehow you are receiving breaks or opportunities which are not present for them. Any mistakes you make are quickly pointed out and you are reprimanded. Success will beget criticism. It is predictable.

Many watched as Tim Tebow fever seemed to reach a high pitch. This in turn led to criticism. It was fairly predictable. It will happen to Jeremy Lin. He was an undrafted basketball player from Harvard University who has been embraced as he has achieved some instant success. It helps that he plays for the New York Knicks. But do not be complacent in your understanding of human nature. Jeremy Lin is human and and he will make mistakes. Others will be jealous of his instant celebrity and he will be critcized.

It happened to Susan Boyle who achieved instant success through her performance on Britain's Got Talent. This is simply human nature and it will do you well to prepare for this fact. When you become more successful in blogging, or real estate sales, or any business endeavor, people will criticize you. Part of becoming successful will require you to grow a thicker skin. Success will beget some praise, but it will also bring criticism. Be prepared.
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Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

Another reason to love ACTIVERAIN! Here, your friends will celebrate your success  and cheer you up and encourage you to move on when you fail.  

I typically write about what I am dealing with. If this is the case with you... CONGRATULATIONS on your many successes!! Praise the Lord and keep on keepin' on! ☺

Feb 16, 2012 01:20 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Joni, I love you. I love your attitude. I love your outlook. You are simply amazing. However, even on Active Rain I find this true. Even in the church, I find it true. I just find this to be a truth no matter what.

Cal

Feb 16, 2012 01:42 PM
Wallace S. Gibson, CPM
Gibson Management Group, Ltd. - Charlottesville, VA
LandlordWhisperer

I've had "reputation defender" firms call me about the negative comments about my company.  I say NO! Those are tenant prospects who did not make the cut - I WANT them so that would-be clients know that I will take care to put GOOD residents in their investment homes!

Feb 16, 2012 01:56 PM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Hello, dear friend.  You just tell me who they are and I'll take care of them for you :)  You are so right on this, though, and I agree with your response to Joni.  But no matter how successful she is, Joni is probably too sweet for people to criticize her :))))

Feb 16, 2012 02:00 PM
Stacia Whatley
Hawkins-Poe Inc. - Gig Harbor, WA
StaciaSellsHomes Your Western WA Realtor®

I have told this to my daughter recently. It's so funny that you just brought this up. She has had a tuff time with some of her friends lately. She is a straight A student and amazingly beautiful without trying and she got chosen to go to Europe this summer as a Student Ambassador. These successes have been praised at home, but her friends have not been so nice. I tell her that they are still your friends they are just having a hard time dealing with your success. I tell her to help encourage them to have similar success or help them achieve success in a way that works with their wonderful skills. Some have accepted that and some who couldn't have moved on. I learned this human trait early on and I am thankful I did so that I can teach my daughter early too. Never let anyone get in the way of your success!

Feb 16, 2012 02:00 PM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Good for you Wallace, but speaking out about this fact may be helpful

Mimi, I like having you on my side. Mama Tigers and Bears are important to your health and well being.

Stacia, great example and I am glad your daughter has such a great Mom to instruct her in ways to move forward positively. What great advice.

Cal

Feb 16, 2012 02:10 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Yes, you speak of facts.  It's happened over and over... I tend to ignore and not try to defend against unfounded claims.  And if someone has a legitimate problem with me or my company I try to solve the problem to everyone's satisfaction.  People will always talk though.

Feb 16, 2012 02:26 PM
Gloria Todor
Premier Property Sales & Rentals - Springfield, PA
& Doug Durren (484) 431-3686 in SE PA

Hi Cal, Human nature is predictable.  Often times you see these "stars" fall really hard into drugs, depression or just go broke.  Developing that thick skin can be a hard thing to do, yet it is needed if one is to move forward with their success in a positive manner.

Good post.

Gloria

 

Feb 17, 2012 12:26 AM
Kevin A. Guttman-Author, ReverseMortgageSpecialist
NMLS #384936 - Colorado Springs, CO
877-251-9709

Great post. I wonder what the world would be like if we all pulled for each other and celebrated one anothers victories vs. being threatened when someone does well. Good job! Thank you!

Feb 17, 2012 12:54 AM
Cal Yoder
Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA
Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

Tammy, I know you would work hard to understand and listen to complaints. And yes people do talk.

Gloria, the tragedy of human stories can be quite sad. Listening to others, while growing that thick skin is so important. 

Kevin, I do wonder why it is our nature to be so critical. I see it in myself and in others. But it would be interesting to see how life might be different if we banish this kind of criticism from our own lives. Thanks.

Cal

Feb 17, 2012 09:42 AM