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Paying It Forward By Helping A Friend

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Florida Network Realty BK 3030920

I've got a friend (as I'm sure we all do) who has been without a job, has refinanced and the list of woes goes on and on.

Was this person somewhat responsible for their current situation? Of course, as we all make choices, and sometimes we make better choices than at other times. Does this mean they don't deserve a second chance, or the gift of hope? No, it does not.

Still, I knew it was tough to be without a car; Jacksonville, FL has a less than fabulous public transit system, meaning it can take you 2+ hours to travel from one side of Jacksonville to the other (and a recent TU story about the JTA drivers did not instill confidence).

I have recently been in a position where I could help this friend purchase a used card, which would allow greater freedom, and the chance to get out of the house and hopefully, get a job and get back on their feet. And, this would not be a loan, this would be a gift, with no expectation of being repaid. Ever.

We picked up the car yesterday, and this friend was so happy, you have no idea.  They wanted to know what they could do to help me, or repay me.

I texted: Pay it forward to someone else who needs it. Everything happens exactly as it should, when it should.

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Carol Zingone is a full service Broker Associate proudly affiliated with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Florida Network Realty in Atlantic Beach, FL.  I help buyers and sellers locally, regionally, and internationally.  With hundreds of happy buyers and sellers over the course of my career, I'm thrilled to help first time buyers, military buyers, seniors, investors, 1031 exchange properties, short sales and REO's.  I have spent hours honing my expertise, including the designations of: Graduate Realtor Institute (GRI), Loss Mitigation Certification (LMC) , Short Sales, Foreclosures, REO's, (SFR), and Senior Real Estate Specialist (SRES).  I pride myself on providing excellent expertise to all buyers and sellers. Search the MLS via www.carolzingone.com  for Jacksonville and area listings!

 

Gayle Beyer
Welcome Center Realty 772-336-8583, FLA777 - Port St Lucie, FL
Port St Lucie FL Real Estate Broker

 A Real Feel Good post! That was nice and very true advice. One day you will be on the receiving end when you need it most. Good Deed indeed.

Feb 17, 2012 11:23 PM
JoAnn Moore
The Mortgage Market of Delaware - Georgetown, DE
Home Loans in Delaware

Way to go, Carol. This pay it forward act wil surely help your friend be able to change their life for the better. And to top it off, you don't expect any pay back; just for your friend to pay it forward to someone else. This initial act of yours is going to impact so many lives. So good to hear stories like this.    

Feb 17, 2012 11:43 PM
Sidney Kutchuk - Realty Works Temecula Kutchuk - Realty Works Temecula
Realty Works Temecula - Temecula, CA
Realty Works Temecula

Carol:  That's very generous of you!  I can tell it made you feel really good to be of service and impact your friends life in such a positive way!

Feb 18, 2012 12:30 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

You're a good friend Carol.................fabulous story and pay it forward.  I'm sure they appreciate the car very much!

Feb 18, 2012 01:27 AM
Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

What a wonderful gift> You must feel fabulous. I hope you frienmd feels as great as you do!

Feb 18, 2012 03:02 AM
Bob Miller
Keller Williams Cornerstone Realty - Ocala, FL
The Ocala Dream Team

Wow Carol, what a great thing to do.  I know it will come back to you in many ways and many fold!

Feb 18, 2012 03:07 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Yes the unwritten pay it forward and being able in these time to help someone who is in need is a wonderful thing.  Enjoy the day

Feb 18, 2012 08:40 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks for sharing your story.  It is a good reminder for all of us to take advantage of our opportunities to pay it forward.

Have an outstanding week!

Feb 18, 2012 09:27 PM
Michael S. Bolton
Michael S. Bolton,Inc. - Zimmerman, MN
MN Appraiser

That's an awesome gift, and a great way of helping someone out. I'm sure your friend will remember this forever, and will definitely pay it forward when they get the chance.

Have an AWESOME day!

Feb 26, 2012 12:17 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Paying it forward works. 

We receive by giving. 

When you help someone, you're indirectly helping yourself. 

Pay it Forward is now a movement:

http://www.pifexperience.org/

Thursday, April 26, 2012 is Pay it Forward Day

http://payitforwardday.com/

 

 

Feb 26, 2012 09:53 AM