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New BabyDepending on your perspective, this post has nothing to do with real estate or everything to do with it.  This is a follow up to a post I wrote  about underestimating the value of a penny. In looking for larger, more important looking notes, there have been many small blessings which escaped unnoticed.  Thankfully, my "chance" meeting with my friend Patricia Jabbeh Wesley in a grocery store some 15 years ago was not one of them.

Patriciahas just published her third book of poetry.  As an acclaimed African poet, her entrancing style of writing about her native country Liberia is studied in universities and colleges throughout the United States.  The Title of this Book is The River Rising.  I've just read Patricia's blog. It's an amusing look at what it feels like to give birth to your third child...I mean book. :)

In some ways the analogy that Patricia draws upon mirror the stages I've experienced in my real estate career.  I vividly remember my first listing.  I was so surprised that someone actually wanted me to list their home that I literally panicked with misgivings. I had arranged this appointment with a girlfriend and her husband to "practise."  I was flabbergasted when they said, "OK, so where do we sign?"  Fortunately, a "midwife" in the form of my brokers' wife jumped into her car and hurried to my side to deliver my first baby...a brand new listing!

Although there have been hundreds of listings since that first one over 12 years ago, I've never lost the thrill and excitement of another opportunity to meet and serve people.  Every listing has it's own personality.  Some are born easy...they are easy to show, easy to market and sell quickly.  Others require special attention and loving care.  Like a child whom you pray for day and night until they turn from their wayward ways, some listings have required special doses of patience. Within each situation has been another opportunity to grow and learn a little more about life and myself.

It has been a wonderful gift to see Patricia's collection of published work grow and mature.  I vividly remember the many long hours she put into giving birth to her first manuscript and prior to that the agonizing process of writing an autobiographical account of what her family experienced through the civil war in Liberia. 

I realise now that I was observing not just the birth of a book, but the rebirth of a woman who walked through the ravages of war and hatred and emerged to change the world by transforming it one poem at at time. In a sense, that's the true purpose of life's work regardless of the specific calling?  Are we not all called to leave something in the world which was not there prior to our arrival?  I think so.

 
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18 Comments on From Midwives to First Borns & Beyond...Giving Birth to A Career.

Lola-What a wonderful analogy. And I truly believe as you do, we are called to leave something in the world which was not here prior to our arrival. Beautiful words, truthful. Katerina

11/26/2007 10:51 PM by Nestor & Katerina Gasset Realtors® Wellington Florida Luxury Homes (International Properties and Investments, Inc.)


I know I have my calling every day. Some in business, some in personal life and even here just blogging. I leave my legacy behind no matter where I go, what I do and how I do it. All I know is that is with the utmost respect for another human being that I am having an interaction with that I know the quality of that relationship is what this professional is worth.  (I keep reciting it in different ways but it all relates back to My Legacy...:)

Lola: I really enjoy reading your posts...you usually post around the time I come on and it leaves me with something I can think of.....when I lay my head down on my pillow....and drift off into a soft slumber. Thank you!

11/26/2007 10:51 PM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), e-PRO HAWAII Real Estate & HAWAII Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


Thank you Katerina.  I appreciate your comment.

11/26/2007 11:02 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Thanks for stopping by to read and comment Sally.  Have a wonderful evening. :)

11/26/2007 11:46 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Lola,

 

Your post brings tears to my eyes, Dear Sister. I am thinking of a way in which people who visit my site can come to yours afterwards for that bliss that I experience every time I read a post you write even if that post has nothing to do with me. There is that anointing that overwhelms one upon reading your words. That last sentence "Are we not all called to leave something in the world which was not there prior to our arrival?" will remain with me forever, like all the other things you said. Love you in Christ

Patricia 

 

 

11/27/2007 03:22 AM by Patricia


Lola - It is always a pleasure reading your post, you are certainly a storyteller. Sometimes when we face difficult times in our lives, this helps us to look at things from various angles.  Your friend certainly had such a life and now brings joy to others by means of her poetry.

11/27/2007 05:09 AM by Jennifer Fivelsdal, Rhinebeck NY (Keller Williams Realty)


For the life of me I cannot believe you haven't authored your own books.  (Or have you and I don't know about them?)

BTW, your article has everything to do with real estate.  It's joy and new adventures and re-birth and satisfaction each and every day.  

11/27/2007 05:31 AM by Kris Wales-Macomb County MI Real estate (RE/MAX Advantage 1, Inc.)


Lola, I agree with Kris, put it in a book and sell your writings. You have such a talent. I get excited on every listing and every sale. By the end, I'm ready to say good-bye. Not all the time, but many of the times, I like new and exciting.

11/27/2007 05:40 AM by Missy Caulk Ann Arbor Realtor Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams Ann Arbor)


Lola, Your post is beautiful.  Many of us have been fortunate enough to have found our "callings" and we may be in the minority.  I hear of so many people who are unhappy with their line of work, it saddens me. It is wonderful to hear about your friends "baby"  --  I sometimes feel my business is one of my children :)

11/27/2007 09:56 AM by Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City)


Wow, Lola, you hit it out of the park.  Seeing a listing as a child is a great paradigm twist.  Maybe that's why I feel that real estate is a lot like teaching.

11/27/2007 10:14 AM by Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor (5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI)


Lola - The last line of this post is AWESOME!  And, like the others, I think you could sell your writings as well.  To me, this post has EVERYTHING to do with Real Estate.

11/27/2007 12:07 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


Patricia, Thank you providing the inspiration for this post.  I am so thankful that our paths crossed.  Your writing and presence is a blessing to so many people including myself.  You've taught me a lot about the value of honest expression through your poems. I'm forever grateful...:)

11/27/2007 03:52 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Hi Jennifer, Patricia's story is an extraordinary one.  Going through a process like that will change you forever...transforming or destroying.  The world is a better place for the transformation....

11/27/2007 03:56 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Hi Kris, I always appreciate your insightful comments.  No, I haven't authored a book...not even in secret. :)  But, perhaps, I'll think about it...Now, the question is what would I write about?  Any suggestions?? :)

11/27/2007 04:00 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Hi Missy, It's funny how the excitement never goes away.  I think that's a good thing...to be able to walk in with fresh anticipation at each new opportunity is a gift that keeps us going even when things don't turn out quite as well as we would anticipate or hope.  Thanks for stopping by.  Always appreciate your visits.

11/27/2007 04:02 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Carole, Thanks for stopping by to read and comment.

Karen, Appreciate the compliment.  Were you a teacher prior to your real estate career? If you were, I sense you were a very good one. :)

 

11/27/2007 04:16 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Lola - that was another great post! I love the way your broker's wife 'jumped into the car' to help with your delivery!!!! You have a natural talent for writing!

11/27/2007 04:19 PM by Bill & Barbara Jo - Florida Realty Professional - AHWD (Charles Rutenberg Realty)


I agree with Kris and Missy.  I am waiting for your book to be published!  And what an awesome analogy.  I would have to say that these days, my real estate career is pretty much like my three year old -- sweet and happy one minute, then a tornado having a tantrum the next!  Gotta love it!

11/27/2007 08:31 PM by Marlene Scheffer, Realtor to Kitsap County, WA (Realty Station)


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