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A Positive Attitude is Important When Buying a Home - Trusting Your Realtor!

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Trusting Your Realtor - Jeanean GendronA Positive Attitude is Important When Buying a Home - Trusting Your Realtor--The perception of the real estate market and Realtors is something that catches me by surprise at times. As a service provider (Realtor) in the Real Estate Industry, you have that opportunity to observe how people view the process of buying real estate and how they view Realtors.

I am careful about who I work with. One of the reasons that I love the Blogoshere is that it is very suitable to people who like technology and transparency. The combination of the two make for me a valuable service that I provide. It is the opportunity to learn about the trending real estate market and the opportunities that are inherent in this current market. More importantly, it helps match me to those people who want what I have to offer. While having great skills at being a Realtor, it is also important to me that they want to work with someone that has a value system they can relate to.

I have a professional background that comes together nicely to support my real estate business. I am a marketing professional and have built a pervasive on-line presence to help my clients market and sell their properties. I also provide my Buyers with IDX solutions that are dynamic in nature and provide them with real-time data on MLS listings and the ability to search and save lsitings by category of preference. While I have the chops.....I am more concerned with having a professional relationship based on mutual respect.

I recently had a referral to help someone purchase an investment property from good friends. They are past clients of ours and now our personal friends. Their referral client has a very bad impression of Realtors. From the beginning they have made negative remarks about Realtors and that the business is shady.

I met with the client yesterday to look at a home they were thinking of making an offer on. My friends came along just to help in the closer inspection of the property. My friends were so sweet and we had to do the "HUG" thing and chat for a little bit. The friend/client never said "Hello" but stood some distance away with a severe look on their face and "tapping" their fingers on their arm......

I read body language and asked what was wrong.....big mistake. It seems that a friend of the client had just fallen out of escrow on a foreclosure property and proceeded to rattle off a huge long laundry list of "horrible" things that the Realtor had done. After we were done with that, I inquired as to how this was affecting what we had come together to do on this day. The client replied that they just did not trust Realtors and that Buyers have to do all the work and get screwed by the Realtor.

I looked at my good friends and they knew that we were done. I was very polite through the rest of the time at the property. The client had so much hostility that it was hard to stay in the same room.....but we managed to all keep it together. My friend whispered...."Sorry".

We hear so much about what the Consumer needs and what we as Realtors need can get passed over. I am so sorry that this person has had a bad experience but I have learned that our perspective is directly responsible for what our experience is. As a Realtor, I cannot be effective in helping you if you do not value my professional skills and experience and if you don't know that I am an honorable person. It will be necessary for us to have mutual respect for each other and a set of values that are synergistic.

A positive attitude is important when buying a home and it is also important to have a Realtor that you trust and respect. It makes buying real estate a positive experience.

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Comments (12)

Chris Smith
Re/Max Chay Realty Inc., Brokerage - New Tecumseth, ON
South Simcoe, Caledon, King, Orangeville Real Esta

Jeanean, reading your post makes one realize how much of your attitude is dependant on your perspective.  Thanks for sharing your "positiveness"

Feb 18, 2012 11:39 PM
Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Jeanean,  It is amazing how some clients don't value the expertise a Realtor can offer to the situation.  Why not have an expert help you with the biggest purchase of your life.  Doesn't make sense.

Feb 19, 2012 12:25 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Jeanean~Your friends really tried! It was almost like an intervention putting this person together with someone they KNEW would offer the complete opposite experience of what this person was so afraid of having...and I think it was marvelous that they came along. Gotta feel sorry for them, for you and for that person who is carrying a big load of "ugliness" that permeates more than just this experience I think. It's a symptom of a much bigger problem--trusting ANYONE.

I am wondering how these friends of yours deal with this person socially as well.

Feb 19, 2012 04:51 AM
Jeanean Gendron
The Address Realty - Redding, CA
Specializing in Selling Unique Properties

Chris, thanks for stopping by for the read. It was not such a good day. Hope you are having a great Sunday!

Feb 19, 2012 06:22 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Jeanean, I hate to hear this, but it does happen. I am wondering if your friends are still friends with that couple who distrusts Realtors. 

Feb 19, 2012 06:24 AM
Jeanean Gendron
The Address Realty - Redding, CA
Specializing in Selling Unique Properties

Belinda, the client is a first time investor and so they are somewhat nervous and while my friends know me and trust me, this person does not. We should have spent some time going over how I work and how we would work together. It was a lesson learned again....I gues it is good that we keep learning. Hope you are having a great Sunday!

Feb 19, 2012 06:25 AM
Jeanean Gendron
The Address Realty - Redding, CA
Specializing in Selling Unique Properties

Gayle, I don't think my friends knew how they would react like that. I am sure that it was an eye opener for them. You never really know a person until you work with them in some capacity. I should have invested more in talking about the process and my value system. Because it was a referral and I've not been feeling well we passed that part by and that was a mistake. Hope you are having a good Sunday and thanks or the visit. You are the sweetest!

Feb 19, 2012 06:27 AM
Jeanean Gendron
The Address Realty - Redding, CA
Specializing in Selling Unique Properties

Hello Rebecca, I am sure that they are....or at least I hope so. I just won't overide "my gut" which was screaming.....I promised that I would listen for the rest of my life. Hope you are having a great Sunday!

Feb 19, 2012 06:29 AM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in Real Estate & German, M.A. ABR ASP CIPS

Dear Jeanean, you are touching on so many important points with this blog! First of all I see your marketing efforts everywhere - I always see your smile when I log onto Zillow for example, you are there, faithfully, on the top banner of my screen! Secondly, a positive attitude is invaluable in our profession - we have to go about our business smiling and hopefully it is contagious. When I have clients whose first offer doesn't work out, I am always convinced it is because it wasn't the house for them and the right one will come along. It's met with a bit of scepticism at first but it always holds true! Last, but not least, it is incredibly hard to overcome the hostility as you've encountered. Unfortunately, some people just want to believe that you are just out to get them and it's almost impossible to convince them otherwise - one can only hope that your professionalism and your sweet character will show them that not all Realtors are alike and a few bad seeds don't mean that we are all rotten!

Feb 19, 2012 08:52 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Jeanean, You are so tuned in to inquire how the past experience was affecting the present moment.  You are also very gracious to have managed the course of the day after hearing the buyer did not trust Realtors …and get screwed by the Realtor. It’s unfortunate that people have bad experiences. It does not mean all Realtors are untrustworthy and out to screw people.  Like your friend, I am sorry that happened to you too! I’m sending you a hug.

 

Feb 19, 2012 01:27 PM
Marge Piwowarski
Phoenix AZ Horse Property - Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix AZ Horse Property, LLC

Jeanean,

Aren't you glad you are not them?  They will no doubt manage to get the experience they seek. 

Feb 20, 2012 10:50 AM
Toni Weidman
Sailwinds Realty - Trinity, FL
20+ Years Selling Homes in New Port Richey, FL

It sounds to me like this person was someone who thought of  all realtors as "snake oil" salespersons. Sometimes there is no overcoming that at all. Since you were paying attention to someone else and not her; she was upset. I agree with Marge: when you are looking for the worst experience-that's what you usually get.

 

Feb 20, 2012 08:50 PM