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*************  SECRETS of TOP bloggers **********

Read on ..... you'll see what is their secret. I read through AR in search of this and I think I may have found it.

Top bloggers on AR have a secret to their success. There is a reason why they are top bloggers and obtain the most number of points. It is incredible and sometimes overwhelming to see the number of points they have amassed in a fairly short period of time. For newbies, this can be especially intimidating when you are starting out with just a few hundred points. There are certain things they DO DO (courtesy of BB :) or do not do that has worked for them when blogging.   

 When I first started blogging 2 months ago, I was amazed at how some bloggers have several hundred thousand points in less than a year. If you think about it, blogging can be time consuming and can take you away from your normal daily business. This is not to say that you can't get business here by blogging as there are success stories of those doing so....but I digress. So what is this secret I'm talking about? I'm glad you asked.

Let's say you write a blog. People will browse through the library of posts (and there are many) and decide to stop by to comment on your post. Wow! Like the M&M Christmas commercial where Santa meets the M&M, they each say to each other "they do exist!" For a newbie, I felt honored and appreciative that someone actually stopped by to comment on my 1st post. That was the feeling I got when I did my 1st post here on AR What is the best follow-up after knocking on doors???. Those first 3 comments I received were from Lupe SotoJoe Manausa, and BLR Guy. I want to say thank you and to all those who have dropped by to comment on my blog.  

For those new to AR, just go ahead and blog! Don't worry too much about what others think and you won't get pinned either! I was in your shoes not very long ago. As Nike's slogan states, "JUST DO IT!" You never know what you might get yourself into but it can be a good thing. I have heard that some have resorted to extreme measures like caffeine to keep up with the blogging.

 So what about this secret? Please bear with me as I will get there soon. Patience is a virtue, my dear friends. :) In another post I did, Listing agreement..... Do you charge a cancellation fee??? it became a Featured post! I had no idea how the selection process worked but it did happen. Wahooo! Initally, I responded to all the comments. Then I had an avalanche of comments come in afterwards and I admit it was overwhelming to respond to them all. Instead I summed up the comments and responded to the comments in that format. I felt kind of bad later that I did not acknowledge every comment personally.

Great commenters. My hats off to those who have commented back to each and every comment on your posts when you received an enormous response. That is phenomenal! To name a few in no particular order, they are Todd Clark, Ernie Cabrera, Tom Plant, Renee Burrows, Karen Hurst, Ricardo Bueno, Donna Yates, Suzi Gravenstuk, Jessica Horton, Paul Slaybaugh, Brian Block, Candace Robinson, Adam Waldman, Nestor and Katerina Gassett, Mike Jones, Karen George, Gary Miljour, Jason Crouch. There are many others as well.     

 

Yes, yes, I'm getting there. Going back to the secret here. That rhymes, how cool! So I then checked out one of Broker Bryant's latest post, I made it to the mountain top!! 300,000+ Points! If you are a newbie and do not know him yet, he is a great guy. His posts are informative and hilarious to the point that sometimes I ended up laughing so hard the pitch of my voice sounded like one of the Chipmunks! I guess that's better than p**ing in my pants. I'm not kidding either. Testing..1,2,3. Just checking to make sure I got my regular voice back here.

  (Photo courtesy of BB)

Anyways, on that post BB stated that he does NOT "respond to every comment on my posts." I can see why as he consistently gets many comments. You see if you consistently blog and write new posts but don't have time to comment back to each one of the comments, it is ok. The main thing is to at least acknowledge the comments received by saying, "hey group, thanks for all the comments, I appreciate it". My advice is to either address the commenters on your post 1) Individually or as a 2) Group. Be consistent on how you respond to them from your particular post. 

Either you do it or you don't....but don't do it halfway. I have seen bloggers who made a post and reply to the comments (addressing them by names) only to those that they know. This "selective commenting" can be frowned upon by some as it is bad practice. Briefly browse through AR and check some of the bloggers and their comments. You will see that some have chosen to take this "selective commenting" route. I would not recommend it. By "selectively commenting", you may end up losing some of your readers as they may feel left out.  

BB is a great blogger in my opinion. So DO DO as BB do (or does? there's just too many do do's here it sounds like of funny). I leave you with that.......great bloggers don't comment back. This is not to say that other great bloggers don't comment back on the comments received as that would be a false statement. There are those that do comment. This is not a knock on BB as I do admire him. As the saying goes, "there is more than one way to slice the bread" and so the decision is up to you.

What about me? Since I am not a great blogger, I will continue to comment back to the comments I receive. Thank you for reading this blog through to the end.

BB, I hear a ROAR! behind you! Ahhhhhh!! 

j/k...Say "hi" to TLW for me. :)

 

Copyright (c) 2007. Dave D, All Rights Reserved.

 

 

37 Comments on Great bloggers DON'T comment........SECRET Revealed !!

Hey Dave, Look at that....put my name in a post and here I am!!!! I love those Google alerts! Now see if I DID respond to every comment individually I would still be over on my other post responding to the 120+ comments and I would have missed your very good post!

The key, in my opinion, is to find what works for you and then do it. There was a time when when we had a "top blogger" dashboard. The top bloggers at that time were picked based on an algorithm that combined the number of comments on your post and the rating from other members. Folks could increase their "number" and therefore raise themselves up on the dashboard, by commenting back to everyone individually and because of that the practice was actually seen as gaming the system. This old dashboard created many many problems and eventually had to come down. Because of the way the system was set up, at that time, I never got into the habit of doing the individual comment "thingie".  It was a big no no.

However things have changed over time and eventually responding individually became the norm. My opinion has always been that it's distracting. I like to read all the comments on a post and when every other comment is from the poster I find it interrupts the flow of the conversation. But this is certainly just my opinion and many would disagree with me. 

There is no right or wrong way. The good thing about AR is we are all free to choose how we wish to handle our own blogs.

I'm a broker and do a lot of business working by myself. I have to be careful to not let AR consume all of my time or I'll get out of balance and burn out. That's the main reason I do things a little different. For me it's all about pacing myself.

12/01/2007 02:19 PM by Bryant Tutas-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc


Any more secrets you can share?

Heather in Indy

12/01/2007 02:40 PM by Heather Fitzgerald (REALTY WORLD-Harbert Company, Inc.)


Hey BB,

Wow! My idol has arrived! Google alerts? I wonder how that works. I agree with you in that we have to not let AR consume all of our time. Balance sure is a necessity and sometimes we have to monitor to make sure we do not get burn out. There is just so much information here that sometimes we get caught up in the act and time just flies right by us. It is always a pleasure to read your posts as they are not only entertaining but very informative. I know you have given alot back to the AR forum and I'm sure everyone can't thank you enough...myself included. 

I know some bloggers do blog for points...but you don't. I'm following your footsteps here as you are a great role model to all. I feel it is also more important to share knowledge and network than to do it for the sole purpose of getting points. I'm glad they got rid of that old system to prevent people from "gaming the system". I believe the points tend to fall into places by themselves so we should not make that a primary focus.

I have seen one post you've written where someone mentioned about a video you made. You were very professional in the way you handled it and how you diffuse the situation. That is very classy and an amazing act. It is the reason why, you my friend, is my idol. I want to be just like you when I grow up!

I need to find out how that google alert works....

12/01/2007 02:43 PM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Heather,

Hmmm....it is a secret. j/k Blog away is my advice. Thanks for dropping by!

12/01/2007 02:45 PM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Your blog was really interesting.... you can't do everything or shouldn't.  You should do what makes you feel right.  Life is too short!  However please comment on my comment.  Just Kidding! 

12/01/2007 03:26 PM by Judy Greenberg- Buffalo Grove/ Long Grove/ Vernon Hills Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


Dave, Wow! I've never been an idol before. The pressure of it all:)

Google alerts are pretty cool. Just sign up for a free google account and then you can add phrases or names in the alerts. When it shows up on the internet you will get an email with a link leading you right to it. It's a good way to keep track of who is linking to your blog or mentioning your name in a post. My blog gets picked up quite abit from outside sources and I need to keep track of it.

12/01/2007 03:33 PM by Bryant Tutas-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc


Is that how's its all done??!?  Gonna have to stop making comments... perhaps after I get to the next level! ;-)

12/01/2007 03:39 PM by Matthew Rosov, Certified Mortgage Planning Specialist (Envision Lending Group)


Dave - your blog made a good point.  I like the "get the newbie" gummy bears.  And I learned a great tip about Google Alerts that I will try.

You know, back in the day, points were more easily attained, as the rules were different.

12/01/2007 04:25 PM by Georgina M. Hunter R(S) e-Pro Maui Real Estate Sales (Jim Sanders Realty Inc. - Maui)


Dave, I haven't gotten to the point where I receive too many comments to respond to.  If I ever do, I'll remember this post!  Thanks for the info

12/01/2007 04:50 PM by Peggy K - Illinois Virtual Tour Provider and Real Estate Photographer (Grand Property Virtual Tours)


Dave, You have turned out to be an awesome blogger. One thing I appeciate about you is that you haven't lost touch with the people you started out with:-)

12/01/2007 08:29 PM by Suzi Gravenstuk, MS Broker License # 17787 (MGC Realty, LLC)


Blog, blog, blog...and never look back! Just do it.

12/01/2007 08:34 PM by Arina Hanciulescu (ELITE REALTY)


Yes,, just blog, just  blog, blog, and more blogs..its great therapy

12/01/2007 08:51 PM by Mike Norvell Sr., Developers Capital Realty (Developers Capital Realty, LLC)


Judy:    Yes, life is too short. We should do what we can do only. Just for you...I'm commenting back to you...:-)

BB:  Thanks for the tips! I'll look into that!

Matthew:   Blog away and you'll get there!

Georgina:  I heard that to be true in the old days regarding points as well. Thanks for dropping by!

Peggy:   The time will come as long as you continue blogging!

Suzi:   Thanks for the comment! That is kind of you and I appreciate that. However, I don't think that I'm a great blogger as there are so many better bloggers out there. No, I never lose my roots and I try to remember those who have helped me along the way. You have done that for me....introducing me to reciprocal commenting. Thank you!

Arina:  Yes, that is it!

Mike:   It is great therapy.....as long as it does not consume all your time.

 

12/02/2007 01:12 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Dave, great post!  I read all the way through to find out the secret and found that you may not respond back to me formally....What's up bro...lol....Hey I appreciate you mentioning me in your blog.  I feel honored.  It is always a joy to log on to AR and find your smiley mug on my screen...grin!  And to hear that it is going to be a great sun shining day.   Good job and talk with you soon.  And No, you don't have to respond back to me....  ;(

12/02/2007 01:42 AM by REAL ESTATE AMERICA - Ernie Cabrera, CEO


Ernie,

How's it going my friend from up north? I guess I have a change of mind as you can see. :) I think you are one of the best commenters and deserve the mentioning. Have great sun shining day! See you in the sunshine and not the rain?! :0

12/02/2007 10:47 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


..... You?  not a great blogger?  why, along with the music.... all I needed to be fully entertained was someone to serve me a cup of coffee.   ........oh,  and no need to respond!

12/02/2007 10:54 AM by Nancy Morrish, Stage Tucson! (Stage Tucson! Professional Home Staging)


Well you got me to read the whole thing, congratulations!  You must know what you are doing!  I always try to reciprocate comments to people who post them on my blog, even though sometimes it can take a few weeks to get back to them...

12/02/2007 12:46 PM by Michael Klijanowicz - Relocation Specialist - Baltimore & Harford County (Baltimore & Harford County Maryland - Long and Foster )


Nancy:  Just for that, here is my comment! Thanks and I hope you got your coffee after all. :)

Michael:  Thanks for dropping by! Blogging can be time consuming so we need to allot a certain amount of time to doing it....but not to a point where we're overdoing it if that makes sense. Have a great rest of the weekend!

12/02/2007 01:03 PM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Dave - Thanks for the mention.  I will say that I do respond to every comment, but I understand if some people choose not to.  I also agree with your point about not selectively answering comments.  All or nothing seems to be the best course, or perhaps a response to everyone (i.e. "TO ALL:").  I hope you are having a great week!  When will you unveil your true identity?

12/02/2007 03:42 PM by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)


Jason,

Thanks for dropping by! Good point and I do agree with you about addressing "TO ALL". I've heard the same response from some folks as well about this secret agent. I wonder who he is as well. Hmm....why that is me. :) The unvealing shall occur and TBA. Thanks for asking.... and I hope you are having a great weekend too!

12/02/2007 04:05 PM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Dave,

sometimes the comments are more fun than the posts! This was a good read, your sense of humor shines right through! :)

12/02/2007 10:29 PM by Suzanne Sands-Somerset, MA Real Estate (Century 21 Associates Realty)


Suzanne,

I'm glad you enjoy it! Thanks for the comment. We might as well have some fun while blogging.... :)

12/03/2007 12:51 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Dave, thanks for mentioning me in this post.  I do try hard to answer and respond to everyone who is so kind as to comment on my posts.  It can get especially difficult on featured posts, but I feel that it is something that many readers have come to expect and I always check back on blogs that I've commented on -- if there's no response from the author after 3 or 4 days, I move on.  In the past, I never responded on Localism posts, but have started doing that as well in the past month or so.

12/03/2007 06:05 AM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian,

Nice to see you again! Long time no see! :) The last you visit me was back in 2007....that's this year...ok, so I guess it's not that long after all.

Regarding comments, sometimes by checking the box to notify of new comments can fill up the inbox if there are many comments made. I do agree that it is best to just check once in a while to see for comments and if nothing is there, then that is ok...we just move on. I have not posted that many on Localism yet as I'm just starting out here on AR....semi-newbie I guess.

Thanks for dropping by! See you around the rain (or sun)!

12/05/2007 02:27 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Dave, you and I started near the same time and now we both have blogs and comments out there.  I don't know about you but it is getting harder to respond to all the comments because it is hard to follow without spending a lot of time on here.  I am trying to keep up with all of the comments, how about you?  How do you track your comments and blogs?

12/07/2007 01:24 AM by REAL ESTATE AMERICA - Ernie Cabrera, CEO


Ernie,

First of all, thanks for stopping by. It's always nice of you to visit me. I enjoy visiting your blogs as well. You ARE a blogging machine! I must say "I feeeeeeel your pain!". No pain no gain so I think that is good pain indeed! I don't mind this kind of pain but like you said it sure is not easy following all the comments without spending alot of time.

I do try to keep up with the comments as much as I can. Sometimes there may be a delay in answering them but for the most part I do what I can. I realize that spending too much time on AR has distracted me from my daily business tasks. Therefore, I have set up designated times that I go on AR so I don't get "addicted". It can be addicting.

Here's what I do for tracking comments. After commenting on another blogger's post, I check the box that said "Notify me of new comments". That way, I can see if there is any response or not to my comment. If the other bloggers have too many comments coming in, I go back to my original comment I made and uncheck that same box. This would stop the comments from being sent to my inbox since sometimes this will completely overload it.

As for comments made on my blog, there will be notification of comments I receive on them. I right click and open a new window of that particular comment and go to reply to it in the blog. I then go back to delete that inbox comment notification. This is the way I do it and it has worked out fine for me.

Have a great day! 

    

12/07/2007 02:31 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Hi Dave,

I appreciate your mention, and yes I really do try to respond whether in a grouped comment or individually to everyone that takes the time to stop by and read my post. I also try to comment on one of their posts if they have one available. This is not to say I haven't missed a few:(  I have to agree with you, though, that the Top bloggers do "not" respond to each comment, but personally speaking, if I comment on a bloggers posts several times and never receive any recognition from them, it feels like a one way street. Why am I there, as a fan club? I was under the impression that on AR especially we are to start and continue conversations. However, top bloggers usually have great information to impart and they will continue to be the most read, which is as it should be. Everyone here is different which makes for a very intriguing place. Also, it's tough to respond back to "great post"! (I notice you always respond, and you are getting to be a top blogger, so really, what "is" the secret?:)

12/07/2007 07:53 AM by Karen Hurst ~ Real Estate Broker ~ Warwick ~ Rhode Island (Storm Realty LLC)


Dave, I still check off "Notify me of new comments" but I don't do it as much as it sometimes blows-up my in-box with too many notifications.  I just track where I made comments and then try to go back to them to see if there are any comments back.  I share in Karen's feelings that good communication is a two way street.  If I don't get responses back I feel like they are not interested enough to take the time to find my comments and respond back.

Karen, I don't know how you keep up with all of the comments and still help moderate your groups.  You and some of the other moderators are amazing!

12/08/2007 12:49 AM by REAL ESTATE AMERICA - Ernie Cabrera, CEO


Karen,

Thanks for stopping in! :)

Everyone is here on AR for a different purpose. Some are blogging to attain some google "juice", get their names out to the public, advertise/market their listings, network and make new friends. Overall, I believe this is a great forum with so many great people and the wealth of info that is imparted freely here.

When I started out on AR, I had no idea where this would take me. I took the plunge and dove right in without knowing what I'm getting myself into. As of now, I think it is worthwhile of my time. What I've found is that I've learned different things every time. It is simply wonderful.  

Thanks for the compliment but seriously, I don't consider myself a top blogger. However, thanks for the kind words. My "secret"? I don't know of any but I do know one thing. If you blog enough, people will notice you. Eventually, you will develop a following of readers and I believe you have already done that. :) I don't think I'm at that point yet. With that being said, I guess it is not really any hidden secret as I am following the path of those who have blazed the trail ahead of me. There are many great bloggers here with a HUGE reader based under their belt.

I do try my best to respond to the comments, sometimes later than other times. Another thing is that I'm here to share knowledge and network so I don't really concern myself with the points. They are nice but that is not my focus....maybe that is the secret?

 

12/08/2007 12:58 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Ernie,

Same here. I don't check the "notify me of new comments" as often as I used to for the same reasons you stated. It blows up the inbox.

As the saying goes, "It takes two to tango". I guess dancing in the rain is fitting here.

Yes, Karen does an incredible job of moderating. I think it takes discipline and dedication to do proper time management. Maybe Karen has some ideas of how to keep track of the comments more efficiently.

12/08/2007 01:05 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Karen, I agree with Dave on this.  You have great time management skills to keep up with all of the comments.  How do you do it?

12/08/2007 01:46 AM by REAL ESTATE AMERICA - Ernie Cabrera, CEO


Howdy Dave

Very fine written post.

I do not think that all top bloggers do not comment back to folks.

Have a good one

Dale

12/08/2007 08:15 AM by Dale Baker, Home Inspector- in NH & VT (Baker Home Inspections and Consulting Service)


Dale: Thanks for the comment and for stopping by! I agree with you that not all top bloggers do not comment back. As I mentioned in the post, some do, some don't. There is no one way to do thing and it is just a preference for the blogger. Whatever works is fine. Enjoy your weekend!

Ernie: Time management is key. This can be a blog post idea, what do you think? You can write a post asking how people manage their post and comments. I bet that should get quite a response rate. You can do the honor of writing the post and I will drop by to comment. :) See you later my friend!

12/08/2007 11:20 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


Dave and Ernie.......Here it is the 10th and I am finally getting around to responding!!!!!!!  I definitely do "not" have great time management skills, lol, I simply never stop. I would be interested in reading what others say though, always looking for ideas.

12/10/2007 05:27 PM by Karen Hurst ~ Real Estate Broker ~ Warwick ~ Rhode Island (Storm Realty LLC)


Dave, wonderful post, couldn't agree more, blog, blog, blog! Happy Blogging!

12/10/2007 07:34 PM by Marey Hoeppner- Kalamazoo, MI Virtually assisting you anywhere.. (Virtual Assist Expert)


Good post...no follow up comment on my comment required!

:)

12/10/2007 07:48 PM by GA-agent.com-- Georgia Real Estate Directory (GA-agent.com)


Karen:  That is considered a quick response in my opinion. It is a big juggling act and I believe you do have it down.

Marey: Thanks and I think you got the idea!

Elijay: Thanks! (I guess that was a comment. :)

12/11/2007 01:00 AM by Dave D, Southern California Real Estate ~San Gabriel Valley (LA) & Orange County (Century 21 Excellence)


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